Bored

[savethebeebees]

Does anyone else struggle with getting bored of people, specifically Doms. I try so hard to stay engaged, but I just feel like people can be soooo boring. Especially when it comes to scening. Sometimes I can’t even stay in the moment because I get so bored. I have a hard time staying with something when there’s something I deem more “interesting” or “engaging”. I’ve tried blindfolds before because I figured it might help me focus, but it didn’t, and I also found it to be really stressful for me. It just made me super hyper vigilant. I’ve had play partners and Doms in the past who have somehow managed and understood me. Some knew exactly what to do to keep me engaged and I don’t know if they were doing something different or if it was just them as a person + their style of domming.

I’m not in a relationship right now, so it’s not really like an active issue I need advice on, but does anyone else struggle with this?

Erin