booty call a guy?

[Guest]

This is a random question...and its not that I don't know how to booty call a guy, its more of a question of should I do it anyways. I have been "seeing" a man who is 17 years older than me this summer. I was transferred to another department to help out temporarily with an unnaturally heavy workload. I met this man on this project and we really hit it off. We were working 80 hour weeks at the office, so naturally, during the week as we were leaving, we'd grab a beer and chat. Now that work hours are back to normal, I don't see him as much, and we no longer leave at the same time so we don't go out and grab those beers anymore. Well, I'm feeling a little lonely and I'd like to re-ignite my summer fling (at least for a little while).

Any suggestions?

 

[CuriouslilQT]

call him

Well maybe you have enough guts..you can call him and ask him if he wants to met up at the same place you use to catch a beer.
Well ....while your there...you can see where it takes you and maybe try to take it further.

BE strong...call him!

 

[Diablogrl]

I was actually in a very similar situation just a short while ago...and I had enough guts to just show up at his doorstep in the middle of the day to "hang out".

Needless to say, it paid off.

Go for it...what really do you have to lose?

 

[surfboy]

Go for it and contact him!!!

Guys are easy. If you want him as a friend or between your legs, just let him know. Bare in mind the we can be terrible dense on occasion and you may have to be direct.

STill you should go for it. The worst that can happen is that he say's "Lets just be friends" Ok, you have another friend. that's ok, we all need more friends. Good luck and have your way with him.

Mahalo

 

[Dj_Maximus]

Friends or more?

For starters, make sure you know what you want out of this.

I don't know how many men are like me, but I don't usually initiate the realtionship.

What I mean by that, is that I don't hit on every single woman out there. I wait till I see some interest, do some flirting, and let the woman set the pace.

If you want another friend, then let him know that. If you want more, then maybe you'll have to be a little more direct.

If he was really interested in becoming more, and wasn't "shy", he would have made the effort.

But if he his like me, then you most be bold and see where it takes you.

Hope this helps!

 

[MR.GGG]

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Is either of you married? Was it a "fling" (sex?) or do you just miss working with him and talking and having a beer after work? What do you MEAN by, "at least for a little while" ?? If he knows it is only a temporary thing for you and he really likes you (and is single) maybe he's avoiding getting hurt. Maybe he thinks the 17 years is just too much of a gap.