Bonded vs. Collared

[Beck31]

Your thoughts?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I have *lots* of thoughts, but since I have no idea what you mean by "bonded," I doubt that any of them relate to your query.

Would you care to explicate a little so we might actually be able to respond?

 

[Beck31]

Ok. I'll give it a go. I used to be collared to [name withheld] but that situation has changed. I feel a very intense emotional bond and am still in contact. I no longer need [name witheld for personal reasons] in that way. I wondered if anothers had done this and if so how it affected the relationship.

 

[CutieMouse]

My [currently imploding] relationship with one of The Men™ involves a very intense bond. Biochemically, emotionally, mentally, intellectually, I *belong* to him.

But that doesn't mean there can't be hiccups and lines won't be crossed. And when lines get crossed, or hiccups happen, or something shifts, I still have a responsibility to myself to take care of myself.

Regardless of how things play out, we will still be friends. We've done it before, we can do it again. We just have to adjust.

 

[TheLaughingGod]

So many many thoughts, and there are not enough words in the english language

Why is this labelled urgent? Do you need to know our thoughts now? Will something bad happen to you if we don't tell you?

What is the aim of this discussion, what are you trying to figure out? Are you trying to find out if the two things are related, do they influence each other? What the actual meaning of the word bonded means?

 

[thelovingsadist]

For those of you who don't know, Beck is just a wee bit of an attention whore that starts threads for the attention and the amusement of it. Since he signed up in July, he's made 194 threads. I like some of his threads though. Some of them have potential.

I might participate in this one, too. But, I also think the word "bonded" needs to be defined better before I can compare it to what I know of collaring.

 

[Cutjewel]

First choice - bonded.
Though I have a distant fantasy of being taken outside on a collar.

 

[thelovingsadist]

First choice - bonded.

If you actually know what "bonded" means, would you be so kind as to explain it to the rest of us poor, unworthy souls?

 

[Aurelia_Malys]

Your thoughts?

Are they mutually exclusive? (and I will agree with others ..... what do you mean by bonded?)

 

[Scentofawoman]

Is this where Dog the bounty hunter shows up?

 

[Emerson40]

Your thoughts?

 

[Emerson40]

Ok. I'll give it a go. I used to be collared to [name withheld] but that situation has changed. I feel a very intense emotional bond and am still in contact. I no longer need [name witheld for personal reasons] in that way. I wondered if anothers had done this and if so how it affected the relationship.

 

[Exquisition]

Hmmm. That's a toughie. Whewee. I'd have to go with cock ringed.

 

[KWAL]

I'm not to sure but I believe I heard somewhere that collared is for slaves or those who have commited to a very strict lifestyle. And bonded is more like a contract or an agreement between parties.