Bondage Sheets

[Horndoggy]

Hey everybody...
my wife and I saw this sheet at a couple friendly adult store nearby that has restraints built into the sheet. They can be moved to different places since they have velcro on them.
Anyway, we are thinking of buying it someday soon (my birthday???) and I was thinking about how to use it with my wife strapped in. Now, in a lot of cases, a guy would do just what he wanted to (anal, toys, pictures/video, whatever) but I want this to be an experience that makes her say "Man, I want to do that again SOON!!). In other words, I want it to be for her and not just for me.
Ladies, what kinds of things do you think she might like for me to do to her? We've done ice, some feather tickling, stuff like that. She isn't really big on giving head, especially "forced" head. Thought I would try DP to see if she would like it (me and a toy). Any suggestions?

Horndoggy

 

[Krinaia]

Well find out her bondage fantasies and then give her one :d

I wouldn't try anything too new, because if it goes opposite as to what is expected... it might ruin the experience you're going for. If you've never dp, that would not be the night to try.... yes?

 

[Horndoggy]

I agree...we've talked about it, and think she is up for it.
Thanks for the advice!

'doggy

 

[Marquis]

And this is why there are 4 letters and 3 complementary pairs in BDSM.

 

[Krinaia]

Have you tried blindfolds yet? You could tie her up, blindfold her and then tease her with all the things you know she likes.... and uhm, if I were you, I'd keep her on edge until she begged.

 

[Horndoggy]

I guess what I'd like to see happening is for us to push the envelope a little bit. Do some things we haven't done at all or very little. I guess there is only so much you can do when one is tied to the bed. The things I would like to do (cum on her face or breasts, video, etc are things that she isn't really into. That is the exciting thing about bondage for me. To be able to do what I want.
However, I love this woman and want this to be as much about her as it is me. There isn't any use of deluging her face with cum if she is going to demand to be let out, not speak to me for a week, and never use the sheet again!
I really need to talk to her and get her to tell me what excites her about being tied down. She brings it up probably more than I do and when we go to an adult type store it is the bondage things that she looks at the most.
Thanks again! Any more advice??

'doggy

 

[Krinaia]

nope, you're on the right track

does she enjoy a little pain with her pleasure?

 

[Horndoggy]

When she is really horny, she loves pain. She loves being spanked, and when in the right mood loves her breasts squeezed hard and her nipples pulled.

 

[Krinaia]

perhaps if you get her really aroused doing the things you like.... the thing you can introduce is a little new kind of pain...

personally, i might suggest...

getting her all teased up, make her squirm and fight those restraints but never let her come.... really, really take your time. do the things you know drive her wild.... she's blindfolded right, so it's easy... then perhaps a clothespin.... pinch at her nipples with it... test the waters.... and then let it stay on, and get her off. remove either after you finally let her orgasm or if you're daring, pull it off as she orgasms. and if she doesn't mind it, kiss her as she comes, capture her screams and gasps with your mouth... that drives me wild, personally. (though you might have to choose between removing the clothespin as she comes or kissing as she comes)

and don't forget to pet her, and hold her and remove the blindfold as she comes down to earth (untie her so she can hold you) - and remind her how beautiful she is... never forget to remind her of how beautiful she is