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ProfWords said:
Supportive? Check.
Horny? CHECK.

I suppose I meant to ask if this tracks back to childhood and/or adolescence. As the father of two young girls, I'm wary about any ways in which I might negatively influence them -- I want them to be feel happy and strong!

Not the sexiest topic, sorry, all...
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:) Not sexy, and yet highly valuable.

For me, it was a combination of two things: being sexually assaulted at age 11 and deciding I'd minimize my chances of being a target (which I interpreted as being sexually attractive), and seeing the many, many ways in which society devalued intelligence in women and prioritized being sexually attractive - which I saw as making you a target.

So the ways in which you can avoid those two things being a problem for your two girls, I am not sure - but here are a few ideas: compliment them on their effort, on their thought processes. Tell them again and again and in a million ways that *they* make decisions over their bodies, and the men (boys) they chose to frequent are extremely lucky. *Empower* them: let them know that THEY are in control, period, and the fact that they may have to fight to demonstrate and enact that control in *no* *way* diminishes the fact that they have that control. Demonstrate and/or point out the value in different body types, the interest men (or women, if you think they may be at all bi, or gay) have in each type.

The fact that they have a dad who thinks in those terms makes me *not at all* concerned for them; they are very lucky. :)
 
ProfWords said:
Supportive? Check.
Horny? CHECK.

Not the sexiest topic, sorry, all...
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Perhaps, but I think it's wonderful that, at least so far in my experience, many of the folks who share this appreciation are quite articulately capable of explaining their preferences, in the face of relentless fashion and "health consciousness" trends that remain unfriendly to true body positivity. :cool:
 
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The fact that they have a dad who thinks in those terms makes me *not at all* concerned for them; they are very lucky. :)
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You're very kind -- but they also have a Dad thrillingly into online smut and cyber with deliciously plump ladies. So, in as much as they might be "lucky" for any thoughtfulness on my part, I'm also trying to firewall any leakage between my adult inclinations and my parenting.

To that point, you made a comment -- among your impressively disclosing and honest post! -- that got me thinking: They may well not pair with men at all, and have women as sexual partners! While this possibility occurred to me long ago, what I still can't determine is whether this makes them any more or any less prone to either body shaming or a positive body image...

For their sakes, should I want them to be gay?

(And, two caveats: 1. I realize this is starting to go off-topic from the thread, so I apologize for hijakcing it at all and will shortly step aside. 2. I know I personally have as little "say" in their being gay as their being straight.)

Thanks for humoring this discussion, all. Keep up the sultry BBW pix (which is what I was originally here for)!
 
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ProfWords said:
You're very kind -- but they also have a Dad thrillingly into online smut and cyber with deliciously plump ladies. So, in as much as they might be "lucky" for any thoughtfulness on my part, I'm also trying to firewall any leakage between my adult inclinations and my parenting.

To that point, you made a comment -- among your impressively disclosing and honest post! -- that got me thinking: They may well not pair with men at all, and have women as sexual partners! While this possibility occurred to me long ago, what I still can't determine is whether this makes them any more or any less prone to either body shaming or a positive body image...

For their sakes, should I want them to be gay?

(And, two caveats: 1. I realize this is starting to go off-topic from the thread, so I apologize for hijakcing it at all and will shortly step aside. 2. I know I personally have as little "say" in their being gay as their being straight.)

Thanks for humoring this discussion, all. Keep up the sultry BBW pix (which is what I was originally here for)!
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:) The best reason I've found for hoping a daughter is gay is that she won't get pregnant until she really wants to. I have no idea about body issues among lesbians/bi women vs straight ones; sorry!

And re: your first point: that's a real tough one, because we all have to realize at some point that our parents are humans with human inclinations. I'm seeing that with my divorcing folks, and dealing with that with my kid and my divorce. OOF. Good luck and let me know if you figure anything out.
 
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