Body Shamed

I was emailing someone for nearly two years and eventually, after much persuasion, I sent a pic of my pussy. He's now gone cold on me and will not respond to Emails. I'm now paranoid my vagina is terrible.

The two tattoos of Yosemite Sam must have turned him off.
 
Denny

He's now gone cold on me and will not respond to Emails.

I don't remember seeing you mention he's really gone from Lit or just gone from responding to you.

As others have mentioned with responses, I died, then after recovery missed some time on the internet. A few other times my computer died so I was not here.

We moved and had more important things to do than get cable service.

My wife became ill and later I became ill. All reasons to not be on Lit staring at clits and tits.

But if you send me a pussy photo I promise to reply with an honest opinion. I'm not begging and most lkely will survive one way or another.
I have seen a few other pussys of different shapes, sizes, ages, and colors so have a basic idea what they look like.
Keep in mind we all look at ugly babies and say how cute they are. Most of us are that way when looking at pussys.
 
Thank you for taking the time to reply. You sound very level headed and this has reassured me somewhat.
 
Oh I hate when someone goes ghost like that!!! I like to take time and put effort into an online friend and then they do that to me...GRRRRR!
 
This isn't body shaming. Body shaming would be like this (supposed) text where the girl's expression is about when a guy's height starts with 5', to which some guy responded, "When your weight starts with two hundred".

Needless to say, the guy was of course in the wrong because someone has complete control over how tall they are but not how much they weigh.

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I was emailing someone for nearly two years and eventually, after much persuasion, I sent a pic of my pussy. He's now gone cold on me and will not respond to Emails. I'm now paranoid my vagina is terrible.

In my younger days, I was familiar with the male mentality that sought me out until I put out ... then ran away. I suppose you are dealing with the cyber version of that mentality!
 
I was emailing someone for nearly two years and eventually, after much persuasion, I sent a pic of my pussy. He's now gone cold on me and will not respond to Emails. I'm now paranoid my vagina is terrible.

His dream is shattered. He was so sure you had a penis.
 
Why does anybody send nude photos of themselves anyway? What do they expect to happen? Never mind to a married man; that's just tacky.
 
She gave no indication that he might have been married or in a relationship.
 
If you scroll through the threads about perfect looking vulvas you will see they have a wide variety posted and most men cheer about them. I really don't think that the way your pussy looks would send someone running. Although I saw a pic someone posted in an ad from a couple looking for a threesome and the girl had a bunch of what looked to be old pieces of toilet paper on her pubic hair and around her inner labia. Then she said she is bicurious so she would just be laying back wanting to get her pussy eaten. I was really tempted to send them a message and suggest she wash her pussy before posting pics. I mean, it's a pic looking for a new lover. If that's her best face she puts forward imagine the state of that thing when you've known her for awhile. So, unless you had a bunch of cheesy gunk or some amount of diseased flesh then I'd assume he is just busy.
 
Why does anybody send nude photos of themselves anyway? What do they expect to happen? Never mind to a married man; that's just tacky.

Odd that you choose to question why someone sends nudes to a married man when you have a personal posted stating you're looking for men of all marital statuses for a sexual relationship. Did you forget you posted that?

(Here's a quote from it in case you forgot what you posted: "I’m a 28-year-old female (I will be turning 29 on June 29th) and I’m looking for a man who is 40-55. I’m single, but am open-minded to men of all marital statuses. I’m looking for a man who I can correspond with either platonically or sexually on this site.")
 
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Fuck all, fuck all you all.
Why is it that Bot boy, Debbie and St. Pecker are the only ones that can give either a straight or funny answer?
Everyone one always has to put their stupid shit in.
Yeah, GB shit, whatever. Help some people out now and then.
Whiskey is now being served until 6.
I will not be in the lounge.
 
I was emailing someone for nearly two years and eventually, after much persuasion, I sent a pic of my pussy. He's now gone cold on me and will not respond to Emails. I'm now paranoid my vagina is terrible.

Your vagina is fine. Forget the loser.
He only wanted jo material and didn't know how to respond with the prospect of carrying on.
In the future, don't be so free with pics though.
 
I think that you were both lucky to meet such a great guy and unlucky to have experienced such tragedy.
But with the exception of a sudden tragedy happening to him or which distracted him,
I think that any guy who really cared would have made more effort than that.

Unfortunately, my view is that many women make the mistake of double guessing and trying to look for the nicest explanations or excuses instead of looking at the most likely explanation. And in the end, this wishful thinking backfires and makes it worse for them.
Instead of thinking: "Ok, he didn't answer any of my emails and he cut me out. Chances are that he's a douche and I deserve better than that, so no need to waste any more time and time to move on. If he decides to call me later on, I shall see."

I always figure that I was lucky to have the great guys in my life for the period they were able to be there.

I guess I generally give people the benefit of the doubt unless I know otherwise.
Most things in other people's lives, although may affect me, are really not about me, how I look and so on.
 
I'm now paranoid my vagina is terrible.

That's quite the little issue to have isn't it?

It's ok, nobody likes my junk either, I don't even groom because nobody is ever down there but me.





Fuckin' savage!!

LMAO :D

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Fuck all, fuck all you all.
Why is it that Bot boy, Debbie and St. Pecker are the only ones that can give either a straight or funny answer?
Everyone one always has to put their stupid shit in.
Yeah, GB shit, whatever. Help some people out now and then.
Whiskey is now being served until 6.
I will not be in the lounge.

Because everyone else cares.

And you're wrong, whiskey is being served until at least 2300 PST. :cool:
 
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Fucking daylight savings time change.
I forgot, I'll be there. Jameson and will there be weed?
 
Fucking daylight savings time change.
I forgot, I'll be there. Jameson and will there be weed?

LOL

Of course.

Sleepy or trippy?

IDK....too much of either with the booze is a bad idea.

Mixing can go terribly wrong :D
 
I know. I have been there way too many times to count.
You'd think I learn. When you are having fun old lessons tend to go by the wayside.
 
No, I don't think she did. Why would she find that and nothing else over the last two years?

Because there's a first time for everything.

I think it's unlikely that the picture is what made him just quit a two-year relationship. Unfortunately, if email is the only way you have of contacting him, if you don't know his full name, or have some way of finding out what's happened you may never know. That happens on the internet. Hopefully, he'll contact you again when he's able.

Whatever happened, it is very much not about you, no matter what his reason is.
 
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