Blowjobs! Why do men like them?

[Susan24]

I love giving head, but what makes it so pleasurable to men? My old boyfriend said that - aside from the physical pleasure of it - the biggest enjoyment for him is seeing his cock go in a woman's mouth, as if he has power and I am magical every time I go down on him. It also makes men fall in love with you. Why's that?

 

[Trainerman]

Probably get loads of different answers to that.....

and many unique to the individual, but my two cents worth :-

1) On the emotional level...its is such a very close and intimate thing to do.
2) There can be that 'power' feeling.
3) The sight of her...particularly if she looks you in the eye is very erotic.

4) physical level....It feels different...and if she is good at hitting your hot spots, more(and wider ranging) intensity of feeling than just intercourse.

Like anything, to a point it is a mood thing. Other advantages :- If you are a little 'tired' it can help to get you up....when straight to intercourse would be problematical...and, of course, if she wants you to come, you can focus on your enjoyment, rather than thinking of ways to delay orgasm for long enough to be good for her.

I will be interested to see other replies myself

 

[Susan24]

Eye contact is a must, definately. It's hard to look anything other than serious when you can't pull smiles, and that's quite a turn on, my boyfriend tells me.

 

[Trainerman]

And whilst I can't speak for you.....

that look in HER eyes.....a mixture of desire/love/sheer naked lust with a hint of "go on....I WANT you to come in my mouth", well that puts goose bumps on my goose bumps !

 

[Susan24]

That look is so easy. I'm glad it's so effective. Also, my boyfriend seems to enjoy simple repitition of very frank phrases, "I want you to cum in my mouth, I'm going to swallow it all," "fill me with your cum," "I'm going to milk you dry," whilst I give THAT look. The more sincere I am the better.

 

[Green Moon]

My input.

Why do you like Oral sex?

It's probably for roughly the same reasons.

 

[Green Moon]

Yet more of my input

It's all about his pleasure.
You wanting him to feel good.
There are soooo many reasons.

If it ant broke, enjoy it.

 

[solid_]

I love giving head, but what makes it so pleasurable to men? My old boyfriend said that - aside from the physical pleasure of it - the biggest enjoyment for him is seeing his cock go in a woman's mouth, as if he has power and I am magical every time I go down on him. It also makes men fall in love with you. Why's that?

Doh.
We enjoy it for the same reasons you females like having your pussy licked.

And men dont fall in love just for getting a blow job, lol.

 

[DevilBoy79]

Re: Probably get loads of different answers to that.....

and many unique to the individual, but my two cents worth :-

1) On the emotional level...its is such a very close and intimate thing to do.

3) The sight of her...particularly if she looks you in the eye is very erotic.

i totally agree with those above, i get embarrassed when she catches me watching, it always makes her smile and laugh, basically ladies just fill in the blanks with your reasons why you like us men going down on you, it should pretty much answer your question on why we like it when you do, more or less, most honest answer i can give

 

[DevilBoy79]

Re: Re: Blowjobs! Why do men like them?

And men dont fall in love just for getting a blow job, lol.

oh yea this is definatly not true, i loved her the moment i got to know her, she is a beautiful person inside and out

 

[dickE]

I love giving head, but what makes it so pleasurable to men? My old boyfriend said that - aside from the physical pleasure of it - the biggest enjoyment for him is seeing his cock go in a woman's mouth, as if he has power and I am magical every time I go down on him. It also makes men fall in love with you. Why's that?

Simple..........we men love touching anything and everything with our cocks. And conversely, we love anything and everything touching our cocks. Then receiving a BJ, we have warm, wet mouths, which consists of lips, cheeks and tongue AND carressing hands all over our cock and scrotum, thighs and butt.

That's why!

 

[Different Guy]

Then receiving a BJ, we have warm, wet mouths, which consists of lips, cheeks and tongue AND carressing hands all over our cock and scrotum, thighs and butt - dickE

I think he summed it up pretty well. Lying there doing nothing while a girl works her mouth round your cock feels so good. So warm and wet and pleasurable.

Now.... perhaps this is a male gender thing but I cannot understand how the hell girls can enjoy sucking on a cock lol! Ok... so I love going down on my girl so is it just a sexual thing we have depending on what sex we are? I mean what enjoyment do you get from it? As a guy I enjoy being between my girl's legs licking at her and tasting her, very enjoyable...

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Speaking from my point of view of GIVING a blow job; Yes, I like looking into MY-Sir's- eyes as I take his beautiful cock deep into my mouth, but it's much more than that. Before MY-Sir-, I can't say that I enjoyed giving other men head. Didn't hate it either, but each man has his own taste, and some I've had the experience with weren't so pleasing to the palate. Must admit that MY-Sir's- cum is as sweet and delicious as honey! Being uncircumcised is a big turn on too. Love feeling my tongue and mouth sliding over HIS foreskin. Yes, I would say that when I give MY-Sir- head, I am making love to HIS cock with my mouth.


Filler up Sir, I'm running on empty!








All my 's to MY-Sir-

 

[caligula]

Simple, it feels great and I love to watch!

 

[StevenWill]

two reasons

Technically, the mucous membranes of the mouth are very similar to those of the vagina. So, it's warm and wet and wonderful. What's not to like.

The other turn on for me is that the woman wants to, enjoys it and is turned on by it. I hate blowjobs that are done as a favor by someone who really doesn't care for it. I want her to love giving oral as much as I love giving her oral. That's the turn on for me.

Steve

 

[Puppi]

Why do men like 'em? Why do we like being licked? Simple: stimulation to the genitals is a wonderful invention. And, having your lover's mouth on your genitals makes the sensation all the more better...


~Puppi

 

[ifitsfundoit]

I love giving head, but what makes it so pleasurable to men? My old boyfriend said that - aside from the physical pleasure of it - the biggest enjoyment for him is seeing his cock go in a woman's mouth, as if he has power and I am magical every time I go down on him. It also makes men fall in love with you. Why's that?

There's a rather curious paradox when a woman is sucking your cock and you know she will let you come in her mouth.

On one side, she is in a very submissive position, and pleasuring the man. This in itself is very erotic.

The other side of the coin is that she has the most sensitive part of a mans body between her teeth, and can cause immense pain at any moment. This too is erotic.

Stick the two together, and there you go.

Being both dominant and submissive all in one go.

That's what goes through my mind anyway.

 

[exvitermini]

Everything that has been said...

Some might look down on men that love to see women in a degrading position such as giving head. But if you put sexism aside, this is just an example of self-sacrifice. It's not something that the woman might particularly enjoy (aside from the aspect of finding joy in giving pleasure to the person they love) so when a woman gives head, it not only feels amazing, but shows how much a woman loves a man - that she'd be willing to do that for you just because she knows you love it so much.

 

[lovechild27]

Why do you like Oral sex?

I am agreeing with her....there is nothing hotter than seeing your lovers face between your thighs, with your juices smeared all over his chin. He probably gets the same kick out of it that you do!

 

[dickE]

Everything that has been said...

Some might look down on men that love to see women in a degrading position such as giving head. But if you put sexism aside, this is just an example of self-sacrifice. It's not something that the woman might particularly enjoy (aside from the aspect of finding joy in giving pleasure to the person they love) so when a woman gives head, it not only feels amazing, but shows how much a woman loves a man - that she'd be willing to do that for you just because she knows you love it so much.

It's unfortunate that it is even remotely considered a "degrading position".......also, I truely wish the term "cocksucker" in its derogatory form had never been 'coined'.

I'm no more "cunt-lapper" than any of my lovers are "cocksuckers" and the sad stigma of being either should go away.

{THE kindest thing perhaps ever asked of me was recently when a lady was concerned enough to ask how I managed to breath. There's a sweet lady!}

 

[GlitterJezebel]

They like getting head for the same reasons when they go down on us. Except it is a lot easier for them to cum.

Anyway, I love giving head. It's fun. Catching his eyes right before he is about to cum in my mouth. That's so fuckin' hot. I mean yeah, we don't get any pleasure out of it per se, but I still enjoy doing it. I'm the type of person that if I know I can make someone happy, that makes me happier. Knowing I can make someone feel THAT good using only my mouth does wonders for my self esteem.

 

[Susan24]

You know what, ifitsfundoit, I think you may have just hit the nail on the head (to use a painful pun). So how about that, power and submissiveness all in one hefty dollop! How profound!

 

[tupak187]

Susan24

Its the exact feeling a woman gets when she is eaten out.


i would imagine