BlowJob help.....

[Monkey_man_99]

My girlfriend was giving me a blowjob lastnight, but was having problems opening her mouth big enough to fit anything but my head in.
on another post that I made, I explained that I/we have not yet had sex because she wants to wait, and I respect that.
she has given me blowjobs in the past, the last one being about 3 weeks ago (besides lastnight). I enjoy when she blows me, alot! but, is there anything that we can do to fit a little more in? or is there something else we can do?

 

[S1LV3R]

A mouth can only open so far on any given person....

She could always move her hand along with her mouth to simulate her taking her furthur into her mouth.
But short of cutting slits in her cheeks, be happy with what you're getting. It's gotta be better than nothing.

Silver

 

[sheath]

My girlfriend was giving me a blowjob lastnight, but was having problems opening her mouth big enough to fit anything but my head in.
on another post that I made, I explained that I/we have not yet had sex because she wants to wait, and I respect that.
she has given me blowjobs in the past, the last one being about 3 weeks ago (besides lastnight). I enjoy when she blows me, alot! but, is there anything that we can do to fit a little more in? or is there something else we can do?

Hmmm...gotta ask. The other blowjobs she has given, did she have this same problem? Or just with the last one? If it's just with the last one, I would say there might be a medical problem.

Otherwise, I would have to agree with S1LV3R in saying that a mouth can only open so wide. Some women (and men) just have small mouths. She can find many other ways to give you pleasure. And if you like what she does, then just play around with ways to modify it...ways to use her tongue, her hands, even her teeth to bring you new sensations.

Good luck!

S.

 

[VLadyPhoenixV]

I know this is going to sound weird...

but this exercise helped me...

Have her place her fingers in her mouth, one on top of the other. Start out with two, just to stretch the jaw muscles. Then work in three. When it gets to the point where it's painful, just have her rest a bit with the fingers in her mouth to stretch. Like any muscle, you gotta stretch it out before you work it.

It's helped me. Hope it helps you.

 

[Monkey_man_99]

I'm sorry, I should I have explained myself a little bit more. I think I left out one thing that would make things sound better.
I am wicked happy with getting any contact, but she says it bugs her that she can't get much of me in. I keep telling her, and reassuring her that it feels great what she does (she does use her hand to make it feel like she is taking more of me in her mouth).
so really I guess my question is, is there anything that I can do to help her feel more confident/comfortable with only being able to take so much in?
I'm not extremly large, but maybe a little bit on the thick side.
thank you all very much for taking time and posting replies.

 

[Krinaia]

i was frustrated a little bit that my first few tries at blowjobs were unsuccessful but then with his verbal encouragement and instructions, i got better and he was adamant about it.

we watched a porn together that involved a lot of blowjobs and i watched and learned. then i tried it out and used a lot of spit and he came and i felt so triumphant. it really helped that he was adamantly telling me how good it was.

i think if you give her some verbal clues...... and show your gratitude afterward, let her see your pleasure in no uncertain terms!!!