Blood Means You're Related, It Doesn't Mean You Are Family

smoothg103rd

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Truest shit I ever heard. You can't choose your family, but you could choose who you decide to be in your life. Family supposed to be the closest to you, but they will hurt you the most.

#KeepingMyDistance.
 
It is always OK to step back and take a break. On the other hand, it is good to make allowances for family. You just have to remember they get no veto power on your life.

I was estranged from my parents for years over some selfish business dealings. My oldest daughter started interacting with my mom which kind of annoyed me. I didn't want to drag my daughter into the whole saga, and if she got some good out of knowing where she comes from it's OK.

Then she starts gently angling for a reunion. I try to be polite about it not running my folks down but explaining that i had some pretty solid reasons for not associating.

She says, "Dad you have hurt my feelings sometimes, but I still talk to you." What do you say to that??

So I reconciled. Was just in time before my dad took ill and passed. My kids got a nice plane trip and a beautiful ocean view vacation out of it, and I am actually close to my mom these days.

We just let bygones be bygones.

I am who I am largely because of who she is, and I like who I turned out to be, so I give her a lot of credit.


*Note to skiddles: Yes this is what is called a personal share. You will want to take notes and try to twist into something ugly. Good luck with that. And no...you are still far to pedestrian in your trolling efforts to rate your own vanity thread.
 
The thing about family is, they will be the first to do you dirty. They think because you share the same blood that they should get a pass. It's like if you wouldn't do this shit to nobody else, then why do it to me? And I have a big family, like a real big family. I could think of 200 of us, off the top of my head. So word gets around. And when I discipline him, like I should, I Gotta hear shit from my Mother And aunts and them. "You shouldn't do that, that's your family. Back in my day we never would of did that to each other. Yall kids don't understand the meaning of Blood Is Thicker Than Water." And all that type of shit. But how I'm coming is, if you wouldn't do that to one of these niggas in the streets then why do it to me? And if you are treating my like one of these niggas in the streets, then why can't I treat you the same? And put my hands, arms and feet on you. But at the end of the day I'm the bad guy. (In their eyes). But if you want to take it upon yourself and do what you did. Then imma take it upon myself, and do what I did. End of fucking story.
 
The thing about family is, they will be the first to do you dirty. They think because you share the same blood that they should get a pass. It's like if you wouldn't do this shit to nobody else, then why do it to me? And I have a big family, like a real big family. I could think of 200 of us, off the top of my head. So word gets around. And when I discipline him, like I should, I Gotta hear shit from my Mother And aunts and them. "You shouldn't do that, that's your family. Back in my day we never would of did that to each other. Yall kids don't understand the meaning of Blood Is Thicker Than Water." And all that type of shit. But how I'm coming is, if you wouldn't do that to one of these niggas in the streets then why do it to me? And if you are treating my like one of these niggas in the streets, then why can't I treat you the same? And put my hands, arms and feet on you. But at the end of the day I'm the bad guy. (In their eyes). But if you want to take it upon yourself and do what you did. Then imma take it upon myself, and do what I did. End of fucking story.
I take it there was only one tin pan of food.
 
My little brother hit me with a baseball bat once, but I deserved it.

Now that I think about it, I did choke one of my brothers out once. I don't know is he deserved that level of escalation, but he never started a fight again.

I'm good. Bouta hit the strip club in a few, and finish celebrating my Holiday.

Atta boy...way to ring in the holiday spirit helping all of those single mothers stack some cash for black Friday.
 
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I'm good. Bouta hit the strip club in a few, and finish celebrating my Holiday.

How's the strip club during this time of year. Is there turkey cuts on every asscheek. Taking all you can eat to a new level?
 
I'm good. Bouta hit the strip club in a few, and finish celebrating my Holiday.

Leave the weapons at home, but bring a handful of prophylactics.

You're angry right now, Smooth.

You need to walk it off. Get some fresh air. Whatever happened isn't that bad.
 
Atta boy...way to ring in the holiday spirit helping all of those single mothers stack some cash for black Friday.

Lol! I got 50$ for them. Lost some money playing tunk(however you spell it) with some of my cousins. So I can't give them bitches the usual.
 
Now that I think about it, I did choke one of my brothers out once. I don't know is he deserved that level of escalation, but he never started a fight again.



Atta boy...way to ring in the holiday spirit helping all of those single mothers stack some cash for black Friday.

Well that's an interestingly philanthropic twist.
 
Lol! I got 50$ for them. Lost some money playing tunk(however you spell it) with some of my cousins. So I can't give them bitches the usual.

You're gonna waste 50s on those hoes but you wanna stall on meeting me at Barclays and told me to treat us with drinks!?!
 
You're gonna waste 50s on those hoes but you wanna stall on meeting me at Barclays and told me to treat us with drinks!?!

I was jerkin reck bbygirl. I don't go on dates much, but if I were to go you you, the drinks will be on me. But 50$ ain't shit. I blown way more than that there.
 
I was jerkin reck bbygirl. I don't go on dates much, but if I were to go you you, the drinks will be on me. But 50$ ain't shit. I blown way more than that there.

I know you don't go on dates, mr. texting drunk hoes. ;)
 
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