BLACK MALE/white female

[Private Vasquez]

well I just gotta say: Thank goodness that kinda stuff happens...otherwise, I wouldn't have been born. Whew!

 

[badasschick]

I am very pleased to find I have misread you, as I have respected your posts in the past. I hope you'll forgive my emotional reaction.

Is ok, I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else. Just trying to give a point of reference.

When I met my current lover, I was physically attracted to him, but the factors involved: that he is tall, handsome, has a well shaped body, are not exclusive to his race. I started dating him because he is charming, intelligent and caring.
I do see a particular physical beauty in black men, heck, I started a thread on them in the pics section! But I feel my interest is more a result of the positive interactions I have had with black men as lovers than from some other, less wholesome. factor.

As it should be.


OK I'll admit I have a preference.....I have a thing for handsome geeks no matter what ethnicity they are. If he's good looking and slightly socially inept? .... I'm on him.

Although lately I have been attracting a lot of Asian men.

 

[Cheyenne]

i'm absolutely stunned how many white people, apparently, fantasize about black men sexually dominating white women. Fascinating. I'm tempted to think it has something to do with the u.s.a.'s long and twisted racial history. Is that it?

Sorry, can't help you with this one. It isn't my personal fantasy. Of course, I don't like domination no matter what color the person is.

 

[fanzee1]

caroline Oh

As a white woman who loves a black man, I'd be much more likely to participate in this discussion if it were not assumed that my feelings are based in "sick twisted fantasy".

obviously, we've offended you. I apologize for that. You've misunderstood the nature of my question. You're actually in a relationship with a black man. that's not a "sick twisted fantasy." That's real life. That's who you are. I'm not asking " why are all of these sick black men and white women dating each other." My interest is in why there are so many stories out there that seem to illustrate some fantasy "mandingo" situation where the black stud comes in and dominates the sexually overwhelmed white wife while overpowering her wimpy white husband. That story seems to turn up over and over again. I'm looking to find out why.

Believe me, i'm not trying to call actual relationships like yours twisted. I'd be quite the hypocrite if i did. I'm a black man and i've been in love only twice. Both times, the women were white.

 

[CarolineOh]

Thank you, Fanzee. I'm sorry that I misread your, and the other posters, intentions.
This thread has developed into an interesting and productive discussion, despite the misunderstanding.

 

[fanzee1]

no problem caroline

Thank you, Fanzee. I'm sorry that I misread your, and the other posters, intentions.
This thread has developed into an interesting and productive discussion, despite the misunderstanding.

i understand your reaction. I've been there.

 

[TN_Vixen]

well, ok, I'll go on record as having the black male/white female fantasy. And, I'll also say that I've been involved with a black male in my life. The taboo certainly plays a part in the whole sexual atmosphere, but not totally. If you're with someone you really enjoy being around, the race factor doesn't come into play very much, it simply becomes a matter of how much do you like this person? How can we make things work? And, once you get to that point, the race factor once more begins to be a factor. I mean, society doesn't embrace interracial relationships, and so you bein to analyze how far you're willing to go to make this situation real. 9 times out of 10, that ends the relationship.

 

[phrodeau]

Great porn!

For more of the same, search for "Dogfart" movies and pics.

 

[bored1]

I suspect that the whole B/W thing is a taboo that is centuries old. I remember as a kid my father going nuts when he would see an interracial couple I did'nt understand what the issue was. But I remember him being upset. I've seen the dogfart pics/movies and another site called forcedwhitewife. Both seem to be into degradation for shock value. Especially the FWW Site.Its pretty extreme. To each his own.

 

[MechaBlade]

The only problem with Dogfart is that all of their pics are small (at least the free ones that I've seen) and are vid caps instead of stills.

However, their interracial anal pics let them remain one of the greats.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Re: Re: BLACK MALE/white female

In part it has to do with, and I'm sad to say a sick twisted history, but it goes futher than that.

It actually has a name among sociologists.

Mandingo fantasy myth.

During European exploration/colonization, Africans were seen as being over sexed by those with christian/puritanical values.

I mean how many times has a kid jacked off to an issue of National Geographic because there were naked people in it?

Black men, on the other hand during and after the institution of slavery, had only until recently one standard of beauty to go by. Therefore they were socialized to desire that.
How did this become the standard?

It was customary for slave owners to rape slave girls at about age 13. Reason being 2-fold, 1. to increase their inventory, and 2. to preserve the purity of their white women whilst satisfying their sexual needs. So black women bore the stigma of sexually promiscuous and less desirable by their male counterparts, Or stripped of their sexuality by the "Mammy" stereotype.

Sorry to get so heavy.

And if you wanted to know, there is a social construct called the Jagger fantasy myth.....yep, named after the Stones song.

I guess those sociologists never heard of THE VIKINGS!!!

They fucked everybody everywhere at least twice!

I think some folks have just read too many Mandingo novels (and I use that term loosely!)

Ebony

 

[bored1]

Re: Re: Re: BLACK MALE/white female

I guess those sociologists never heard of THE VIKINGS!!!

They fucked everybody everywhere at least twice!

I think some folks have just read too many Mandingo novels (and I use that term loosely!)

Ebony

LOL Thats a good point