shadysmurfette
Gifted&Black;)
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Looks at posted photo and imagines watching......
Read your thoughts and says I am getting there. Hmmmm ...its hard to reverse years of socialization as to what is expected of a woman. I think about the "Madonna/Whore" complex when I read your post. I know we shouldn't try to "please" EVERYONE but we have been told its whats expected and what makes us a "good" and "desirable". Personally, I am trying to be a bit more "selfish" and not give a fuck. But old habits die hard.....
Mumbles I am now a bit buzzed and I hope that made sense....

Read your thoughts and says I am getting there. Hmmmm ...its hard to reverse years of socialization as to what is expected of a woman. I think about the "Madonna/Whore" complex when I read your post. I know we shouldn't try to "please" EVERYONE but we have been told its whats expected and what makes us a "good" and "desirable". Personally, I am trying to be a bit more "selfish" and not give a fuck. But old habits die hard.....
Mumbles I am now a bit buzzed and I hope that made sense....

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