Bisexual couples

[Mistress L]

My hubby is Bi and I am BiCurious, we have had a few experiences but do find it hard to meet others. The few experiences we have had were fun but not lasting. Just haven't met the right people. We are members of several sites but a lot of times there are more games on the sites than truely interested people. But we will keep trying. We only entered this life style a year ago and we have been happily married for 22 years. Our sex life has always been good but the past year has been incredible.

 

[MrKismet]

I'm a bi male, and my ladyfriend is also bi. Unfortunately we currently live in different states but, once we get that mess straightened out (so to speak), we plan to actively seek out others like ourselves.

 

[Mysteryjj]

My wife and I are both bisexual. How common is that among couples? We're swingers, too. Anybody else like that on lit?

My husband and I are both bisexual, we also swing and swap, almost all of our swing group are bisexual, males and females. I think it comes with the teritory of swinging, we've met couples from all over UK at swing orgies, so many are bi.

 

[zukethecuke]

My wife and I are both bi, but we've been monogamous for decades now.... Still, we do both long for others of both sexes.

 

[FyreKat]

Hi there - hubby and I are also bi swingers. Been out of it for the past couple of years but are looking to get back into it. Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be many like us in the Alberta prairies...

 

[RascalnRed]

My wife is very bi and we are swingers from Alberta. There are not very many people on Lit from Alberta.

Hi there - hubby and I are also bi swingers. Been out of it for the past couple of years but are looking to get back into it. Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be many like us in the Alberta prairies...

 

[fenderman68]

My wife and I are both bi-curious. Neither one of us has had any real experience. We are both new to this, so we haven't met any other couples yet. It's nice to come here and read about other couples experiences though.

 

[white_mage_goddess]

My b/f and I both consider ourselves straight with bi tendencies." He's been with a guy...and would like to experiment some more. I've never been with a girl but want to very badly. Neither of us in interested in a full time swingers lifestyle,but I would like to do it a couple of times...just to see what its like, you know. Basically, we'd like to each have a friend that we occasionally played with and that maybe we could all occasionally play together as a group...but not on a regular basis.

 

[lotus_hazel]

i've had many friends (girls) who were bisexual and their SO were straight. I am a bisexual woman in a LTR with a woman. I live in the DFW metroplex, and bisexual men are few and far between. suprisingly, a lot of men along the gothic persuasion are bisexual. Haven't quite figured out why that is.

 

[TechnoSlut]

I'm a bi girl and my bf is what I call heteroflexible.

We've had a bunch of MFF threesomes with various girls and two MMF threesomes with the same other guy. In fact my bf's whole bi tendencies seem to extend no farther than this one other guy (who is quite a good friend.) I had kind of expected more. And I certainly hadn't expected him to pull fucking double standard sexual jealousy with the nonmonogamy agreement (you know, I can do whatever with girls, but with guys he gets picky.)

Two and a half years later I don't think we're going much farther...

 

[cotton_candy_eater]

Question

My wife is bi and I am bi curious( I have had only a few encounters). We are interested in swinging. The only thing is, my wife doesn't want me to touch another woman and She doesn't wanna have sex with another guy. If we ever decide to do it. It will be me fucking the guy(or the guy fucking me) and her with the woman and she and I together.

Does this sound normal to you all?

 

[FyreKat]

who's to judge what is or isn't normal? If it's something all parties agree to, then there's nothing wrong with it

 

[Joannac]

I'm single..... a transgendered girl somewhere between being a crossdresser and transsexual , and who has a particular thing[\I] about bisexual couples.... and have alot of experience with MFM's with a twist.

My experience with the "lifestyle" community is that there is a huge double-standard. It's more or less accepted that the women will be bisexual, whereas the men are for the most part straight as straight can be. There is sooooo much stigma associated with male bisexuality that many swingers keep this desire either unfulfilled or go to extraordinary lengths to keep it a secret least they get ostracized from the more "main" stream swing community. (Gossipy bunch in my humble opinion.....)

But, while many couples are downright homophobic, there those who are truly liberated out there who just plain enjoy the variety of life..... between the sheets.....

I don't know if you belong to any of the online swing "personals" sites, such as AFF or ALT, but what I have discovered is that if the male of the couple does not specific his "preference" and leaves it blank, well..... give it a shot.... they are probably a bi-couple.....

Joanna

 

[FyreKat]

soooo very true! we've encountered the same problems with trying to find playmates. going to the swing clubs can be a fairly risky thing if you don't watch what you say sometimes...the ridiculous stigma is definitely there! We firmly believe that if humans were completely honest with themselves everyone would admit to being, at the very least, bi-curious. Maybe if we all just keep talking we'll finally find willing participants...

 

[Joannac]

soooo very true! we've encountered the same problems with trying to find playmates. going to the swing clubs can be a fairly risky thing if you don't watch what you say sometimes...the ridiculous stigma is definitely there! We firmly believe that if humans were completely honest with themselves everyone would admit to being, at the very least, bi-curious. Maybe if we all just keep talking we'll finally find willing participants...

Be careful particularly in swing clubs..... Going to a club has been a long standing fantasy of mine..... huge fantasy.... and one that I acted on a couple of years ago.... by going to a off-premise club here in New England..... I have never been soooooo humilated and angry at the same time....... While the women were very cool about the whole thing, the men were snide, rude and crude....

Then again, I did get this particular itch scratching in San Francisco last year.... OMG! OMFG!

Joanna

 

[FyreKat]

okay...now that you've started the tease, where's the rest of that story...?

 

[LaughingWolf]

I'm bi, my bf is straight. We are monogamous.
And no, he never asked nor is he interested in threesome I say because I know ffm threesome are supposed to be fairly popular with bi woman/straight guy couple. I guess we are an exception

As a sidenote, I have friends who are swingers, it is not something that bother me at all, it is just not a choice I made. What bother me tho is how so many peoples assume that because I'm bi, I must be one. *chuckles* Or who just take for granted my bf do not know about me being bi. (he do lol)

Mind you, I never got such 'assumptions' problems on Literotica, was just a general observation. (well, true, I'm new. )

 

[echo_magus]

My late wife (killed in a car crash just over a year ago) and I were married for 12 years, were both bisexual and we had a number of bisexual buddies: but only 5 married couples where both spouses were bi. Most of our fuck friends were either single and bi or married and bi (and hiding it from their spouses).

It may not be unusual for BOTH spouses in a relationship to be bisexual - it may be uncommon for them to admit it to one another, however. My wife and I never went to swing clubs, placed or answered ads, etc. We just fucked friends, male and female, separately, together, in groups, etc.

And I'll never find another woman like her, I know.

So - in my experience - it's not uncommon for two bisexuals to marry one another nor to continue to love to have new and ongoing sexually fulfilling relationships.

 

[LaughingWolf]

I just want to express my sympathies for your lost.

 

[anne27]

My husband and I are both bi. We've not yet had the pleasure of playing with another couple, but hope to sometime in the future. We live rural, bible belt south, so it's not easy to find people of a like mindset.

 

[FyreKat]

My husband and I are both bi. We've not yet had the pleasure of playing with another couple, but hope to sometime in the future. We live rural, bible belt south, so it's not easy to find people of a like mindset.

DAMN and I thought we were having slim pickin's up here...lol...i can't even imagine what it's like living in that kind of environment...if you ever plan a trip to the frozen north, let us know...

 

[hereinca]

My wife and I are both bisexual. How common is that among couples? We're swingers, too. Anybody else like that on lit?

<---raises his hand

read my story for more info! hehhehe