Biggest age difference?

[Doctor Joe]

I see your point - but is it only the younger woman that interests you? Out of curiousity, why do you rule out those 40 and older -- is it because they are typically out of childbearing years then?

Again, my advice would be to be bold and ask. You won't know that they are the gold-digging type until you get to know them. And in the meantime, the not asking may allow the one who is more like you to slip through your fingers.

Just my 2 cents

Best of luck to you, mcopado.

BTW - You're very handsome

Knowing you, you would be bold enough to ask Fluffer...or does that boldness come with age also? Were you bolder asking for what you wanted when you were in your 20's?

 

[terriblegoblin]

I would like to say, I am 41, and my girlfriend is 26. This is a huge age gap, and yet she was attracted to me. Not because I have money or anything like that, cause I don't. I ask her all the time what she sees in me, and she always tells me there is something about me she has never found in any other man. Don't be afraid to ask the younger women out. You never know what their answer might be. I used to hesitate to ask younger girls out simply cause of the stigma it carries (cradle-robber etc.) but in the last 15 years, I haven't dated anyone less than 9 years younger than myself. I did get bolder as I got older (nice rhyme). But again, don't pass up the opportunity...you might find the one......

 

[Doctor Joe]

I would like to say, I am 41, and my girlfriend is 26. This is a huge age gap, and yet she was attracted to me. Not because I have money or anything like that, cause I don't. I ask her all the time what she sees in me, and she always tells me there is something about me she has never found in any other man. Don't be afraid to ask the younger women out. You never know what their answer might be. I used to hesitate to ask younger girls out simply cause of the stigma it carries (cradle-robber etc.) but in the last 15 years, I haven't dated anyone less than 9 years younger than myself. I did get bolder as I got older (nice rhyme). But again, don't pass up the opportunity...you might find the one......

Great words of wisdom Goblin.......and we also have to overcome the stigma that the younger woman feels from others, like she's a gold digger or just plain stupid to wanting to be wirh an older guy. Don't they lose some of their performance and stamina as they get older(GRIN)? I think, as many of the honest women here have portrayed, they enjoy much more than just the physical sex aspects of the relationship, although those can also be very pleasant as well, right ladies??

 

[Bisquick]

I was 19 and she was 46, I broke her bed (although i think it was already broken) we had a hot night, but distance kept us from having a repeat performance.

 

[Warmslide]

hmmmm

20 years....me 42, her 22 and ....

20 years ago it was...me 25 her 45...lol

 

[sinnamongyrl]

forget i said anything

 

[angelsin]

we did not exactly fuck,,,,BUT,,I was 15 and he was 34,,,, ,,,,a friend of my fathers,,,hahhah,,,I pulled of the whole Lolita thing,,,,,he was a banker(maybe I have always had a closet fetish for thos conservative types.... ),,,,,,Itallian(YES!!!!)...,,,

If you "did not exactly fuck" mind telling us what you "did do"?????

 

[sinnamongyrl]

If you "did not exactly fuck" mind telling us what you "did do"?????

i will tell YOU,,lol,,,,pm me...oh yeah,,,sorry I forgot to write you back,,,,,more on that when we talk !

 

[mcopado]

BTW - You're very handsome

(Looks down and blushes)
Thanks fluffer

It's not so much that I'm no longer interested in and attracted to women older than me, it is that I feel like i'm missing out on parenthood. I've come close to step-parent hood (I was engaged 2 years ago to a woman 8 years older than me with a teenaged daughter).

I guess I yearn now for the chance to have children of my own. Especially a boy. For the first time in several hundred years my last name and my line could possibly be extinct....It is a sobering thought, especially since I'm about to possibly lose my father, I'm finding myself the patriarch of the family and making medical decisions for he and my mother. I kinda fear that there won't be someone there for me if the time comes...(oh course I hope to go in bed of a sudden heart attack-pleasuring a nubile and athletic partner )

Age differences have up to now been irrevelant- I've always been thought of as an "old soul" and accepted and had my counsel listened to by people older than me- I was the 30 year old guy leading men's retreats and helping people in their 50's heal their father issues. That's why dating and making love with older women has never been a problem-it's not a fetish or a particular choice it was just because of social circle I moved in.

The few relationships I have had with younger women have been sexual, again not necessarily by choice...for example for a few years I had a "FB" who is a medical resident 15yrs younger than me. I was usually the guy she called for sex when she was frustated and needed to unwind or when she had just been out on a first date and was horny but didn't want to be seen as a slut by jumping the guy's bones- I was the booty call. (not neessarily a bad thing to be called at midnight by a gorgeous blond wanting your services)...But I also became and have become the one to give her dating advice, or to hear how wonderful mr "right" is...and then to let her cry on my shoulder when mr right became mr. wrong....Again I don't mind being there for her, she's a sweet young woman-and a supportive friend to me when I need to talk- But we have different interests in life, so she was not someone I could see being involved with beyond sex..

so enough about me fluffer tell me about yourself...

 

[rwattsIII]

my, my.......

What is the biggest age difference in someone you've been with?

19 years. That's how I ended up with this tatoo on my butt!!!

 

[justmark]

I was 25,and she was 42,sweet jesus all the things she taught me(46 now)

 

[ultimate_cin]

I'm 32 and my boyfriend is 48....and he makes me very happy...most of the time it's hard to tell that there's that much of an age difference between us....

 

[david_42]

16 years younger & a gold-digger. She got a boot out of it.

 

[AllFor1_1ForAll]

Older...younger...does it really matter?

It's not the age, but the person. I have met a few women who are mature beyond their stereotypical ages. And I have met a few women who are immature for their ages.

For the most part however, I have found older women to be extremely attractive. Not only in body, but in their demeanor, there openness, their sexuality. Mostly I think because they know who they are, which is attractive in any person. Perhaps that will change as I get older, but even now, at 28, I still have an affection for women that are older and more mature.

I'd have to say the biggest age difference for me was 20 years. I was 20, she was 40. Older women are beautiful lovers.

 

[lonelyforyou]

Am I naive?

And this culture seems to show that younger women only date older men with a lot of money and all that it entails...Listen to Howard Stern Bitch about that on the radio sometime and you'll see.

So even if I see, and meet a younger woman I hesitate to make a move....

So lonely, want to date LOL?

Like I said in my earlier post, my last boyfriend was 25 years older than me. I was 25 when we started dating. We dated for almost two years and are still in touch and care about each other a lot.

I understand there are women out there who date older men for money, but I don't think that's what most women are thinking... Am I being naive? It's certainly not what I'm thinking--maybe because I'm financially secure, so I don't need anyone else's money.

What I do need is understanding, patience, caring, consideration, respect, and willingness to share life. And--from my experience--younger guys are just not able to offer those things very well. Older men just seem to have a greater appreciation for life, love, and women. Plus they are so much better in bed. lol

Kisses for all the wonderful older men and the women who appreciate them!
- lonely

 

[terriblegoblin]

I must say, from my experiences with the younger and certainly fairer sex, they tend to have no issues with stamina or performance. I think they like a man who knows what he is doing and doesn't just have intercourse for as long as he can thinking that this is what makes her satisfied. I have found that all of the younger women i have been with have been more satisfied by me than by any younger man they had ever dated previously. Life isn't all about sex, and if you can find the woman (or man) who cpompletes you in every way, not just in bed...that is more important than anything else. Not all young women are gold diggers, any more than all old men are perverts or cradle-robbers. Although, I will say, my family gives me the hardest time of all about the age of the girls I date.

 

[terriblegoblin]

damn, now I have to correct myself....completes.....

 

[lonelyforyou]

It's not so much that I'm no longer interested in and attracted to women older than me, it is that I feel like i'm missing out on parenthood...

Age differences have up to now been irrevelant-

It's so interesting that you say this, M. The reason my older boyfriend and I finally decided to end our romantic relationship was because I really want to have a family and he already has children (who are my age...). For him, that part of his life is over. But for me, it's just beginning. That's the hardest part about being attracted to and dating older men... What are the possibilities for the future?

It's nice for me to hear that there are still older guys out there who WANT to have a family. Maybe things will work out after all... Or maybe as I get older, men my age will seem more appealing. We'll see...

Wish me luck! (Or PM me and we can solve each others' problems.)

- lonely

 

[Nordic man]

for me I was 24 and she was 48 although if I recall correctly it was like 3 months before we got to asking each other our ages.. then it came out she thought I was like 28 and I thought she was like 39 and then we still dated for like 6-8 more months after that..

 

[fluffer12c]

Knowing you, you would be bold enough to ask Fluffer...or does that boldness come with age also? Were you bolder asking for what you wanted when you were in your 20's?

Ok first of all ... HELLO AVATAR!!!! Really, really nice avatar there, Doctor Joe.

Secondly, to answer your question, in my twenties I would do bold things for a reason. For example, on a dare or because someone told me I couldn't so I would do it just to be obstinant. I think the older I become the reasons I might be more bold are that I'm not willing to settle and I've become more selfish.. If I find something I really want I am more likely to pursue it. Not in an irresponsible manner, which may have more my modus operandi in my twenties. But now, I also am more secure in who I am and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get what I want

 

[fluffer12c]

I think, as many of the honest women here have portrayed, they enjoy much more than just the physical sex aspects of the relationship, although those can also be very pleasant as well, right ladies??

Oh the physical aspects can be quite stimulating but you are correct, the experiences that touch me most deeply are those that deal with more than just my flesh. Men who can touch my funny bone and my mind are in like Flynn

 

[fluffer12c]

19 years. That's how I ended up with this tatoo on my butt!!!

I need proof

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

youngest was 13 years younger than me, oldest was 8 years older.....

 

[Shimp]

Damn fluff, like the new AV, good eveing.

 

[fluffer12c]

Damn fluff, like the new AV, good eveing.

Thanks, Shimp. And good evening to you too