Big or hard?

[SweetErika]

Actually, it was all the county's one school nurse's fault. (yes, one nurse for the whole county) They just let her do whatever the hell she wanted with it and she's a fundamentalist that believes anyone that has sex outside of marriage is going to hell and birth control should be banned by law. Most of the parents just blindly assumed that she was going to do their job for them.

How is it the nurse's fault when the bolded parts clearly indicate it was the fault/responsibility of the parents? If the parents were interested or unhappy with the curriculum, they should have protested to the school authorities and ensured their children were taught what they needed to know at home.

Seriously, there's no chance that they would have chosen such a thing when 95% of the women in the student body got birth control pills at the age of 13. Their moms took them to the gynecologist that early to try and make absolutely sure their daughter had them before she started having sex. (not surprisingly we only had 1 pregnancy from the entire student body throughout my entire time in highschool)

One pregnancy that you know of.

And it sounds like the parents did their jobs, at least on a basic level. If parents do their jobs educating kids at home, gaps in school become irrelevant. That's my point.

 

[infinity706]

It was the nurse's fault because she was getting paid to educate students about sex, but all she did was show biased videos that aimed to mislead people into the idea that sex is nothing but a way to get pregnant or catch a disease that will kill you. Of course, she didn't even cover most STDS in detail and simply mentioned that there were others. Nearly the entire time was spent watching videos that implied that people who have sex will get AIDS. Not only that, she never even directly mentioned sex at all.

Well, unless the parents whisked the child away before they started showing pregnancy signs, we had one pregnancy. Of course, it's pretty likely the only one because it was actually well recieved. The girl just took off a couple weeks from school to have the baby and during that time, brought it into the school building to show it off to everyone.

 

[skweeky1t4z]

I'm confused. why all this discussion about clits and no mention of the gspot. I've made women come before but never like i do now until i started using my penis to her advantage and not my own. trust me guys, 7 inches and thick with good foreplay with leave you needing new sheets and new look on sex. and women, if you have never "squirted", its not your fault. you're not broken. Its your partner's and you own responsibility to find what makes you explode. x+y=Z, it takes the correct formula for each individual woman to come. if your Y doesn't fit her X, man up and use some fingers,toys,tongues, or all 3 to get it right.

 

[SweetErika]

Well, unless the parents whisked the child away before they started showing pregnancy signs, we had one pregnancy. Of course, it's pretty likely the only one because it was actually well recieved. The girl just took off a couple weeks from school to have the baby and during that time, brought it into the school building to show it off to everyone.

So one pregnancy that produced a baby. There are always miscarriages and abortions to consider.

 

[infinity706]

Well, it's possible, but if it's been a while since you were in highschool, it's pretty unlikely that you could keep such a thing secret.

 

[lyinaboutitall]

It was the nurse's fault because she was getting paid to educate students about sex, but all she did was show biased videos that aimed to mislead people into the idea that sex is nothing but a way to get pregnant or catch a disease that will kill you. Of course, she didn't even cover most STDS in detail and simply mentioned that there were others. Nearly the entire time was spent watching videos that implied that people who have sex will get AIDS. Not only that, she never even directly mentioned sex at all.

Well, unless the parents whisked the child away before they started showing pregnancy signs, we had one pregnancy. Of course, it's pretty likely the only one because it was actually well recieved. The girl just took off a couple weeks from school to have the baby and during that time, brought it into the school building to show it off to everyone.

I don't agree that is any fault of a school nurse, it the responsibility of a parent to educate your about sex. I am not comfortable knowing my children was given a limited amount of information about sex. My son is 15 years old and quickly approaching the age of experimentation (lord have mercy), his father and I are constantly educating and drilling him about sex, and responsibility of protection. Do I think that a 15 year old should be worried about any of the responsibilities associated with sex?....No, but he is a teenager and what teenager listens to their parents. I also have two girls who are approaching their teenager years, and I plan to assist and educate them as well.

 

[satindesire]

I rest my case.

 

[rachel90211]

Is it more important that your male partner get fully hard, or would you rather a big dick the can only get half hard?

I like 6-8 inches hard. If he's not hard, what's the point?

 

[MrRetro]

This is an interesting topic and will no doubt always be debated... Most women will say that size does not matter, but if it's not hard then it's not particularly useful... All women are of a different size so naturally different women will enjoy different sizes...
I'm sure most men will agree that, hardness issues aside, when making love with a woman you can tell if you're a good fit for her or if she'd enjoy a little more girth... I'm only of average size and I've been with women that I could feel would be able to comfortably take a longer and definitely much thicker size... I have asked many women for an honest answer and whilst most will not want to harm my feelings, some have said that they would enjoy a little more girth... I've never had a problem bringing a woman to orgasm, though usually she has to be on top... and I always enjoy going down on a woman and giving her a good experience... So it's definitely not ALL about size, but I think from a woman's perspective, if all things being equal; A man is good looking and looks after his body, is rock hard when with his woman and looks after his woman's needs using his oral talents as well, then as long as he doesn't hurt her physically, the greater girth will prevail...

 

[Eilan]

This is an interesting topic and will no doubt always be debated...

There's nothing to debate here. What good is a big dick--or any dick, for that matter, if it doesn't work?

Pointless thread is pointless.

 

[bumlicker]

show me !!

show me a guy who measures his dick and ill show you a guy with very little confidence

 

[infinity706]

Hey now, I measured before and I've measured other guys as well. Some people are simply just curious.

 

[Luna_Bella]

definitely hard.... I couldn't care less about the size,

In school, our sex ed was pretty good, lol one year the nurse had even brought in a dildo(a lifelike one with a suction cup at the base) to show how to properly use a condom lol she even offered to show us how to unroll it with our mouth(which we declined, eww no one wanted to see that!! lol) she was opened to any questions and so that no one would be embarassed she passed around little pieces of papers so that we could write our questions and then put it in a bucket so it was anonymous or we could only write one word and she would elaborate on it. so being teenagers thinking we were funny we learned all about "blowjobs", "carpet munching", "facials" etc. if a teenage boy thought he was going to be funny and embarass that nurse he was wrong lol she was fearless and absolutely awesome.

One year one of our male teachers was in charge of the sex ed, he concentrated on masturbation,(male and female) in the process also taught us to do laundry ( you know so mom wouldn't have to clean her teenage boy's sticky towels)

even in elementary school sex ed was pretty extensive, I remember talking about penetration and sex in second grade (god, I was 8 years old! ) and my teacher was a nun, still she gave us the basics and answered all of our questions(no, during penetration the boy cannot pee inside your vagina!.

I guess I was lucky to have such teachers who were not afraid to talk about the real stuff.

I agree with Satindesire, if more women were at ease with talking about their likes and dislikes and their needs, there would be a lot more guys equipped with the right tools to satify them

 

[infinity706]

I guess there are nurses out there that teach sex ed like I would, then. Of course, I've never seen anyone use graphic dissection pictures or internal vaginal pictures. I've got some of it cleaning itself, full of cum, leaking menstural blood, lubricating for sex, and getting ready for childbirth. I have a feeling, 99% of women haven't even seen that.