Big Men And Big Women

[Samuelx]

Okay, here goes. I'm not exactly a small guy. I'm six-foot-one and I weigh over 250 pounds. It's well spread out over my tall and wide frame, so I seem big and tall and not particularly bulky but still a big man, all in all. I like the way I look. Yet lately, I've been encountering these REALLY large men and large women. I'm not used to seeing people who are MUCH taller and BIGGER than me on a daily basis. It's weird. I have a little mental game that I play with myself daily. I look at a large person, whether male or female, and wonder whether or not I'd be able to take them, if it came down to it. I swear I never had any doubts...until I came to my new school. There are HUGE People here !!!!

I almost feel average in this place, while anywhere else I'm considered to be quite large. It's weird, you know ? Ever feel like that ?

 

[BDisaster]

all i know is that i love to cuddle, so the bigger the better

 

[Programmer Cat]

I'm not a big guy, but I didn't worry about whether or not I could take so and so in a fight. If somebody wanted to start trouble with me, then I was determined to put him in his grave or die trying. End of story. I haven't had a proper fight since 10th grade. (decking some guy who grabbed me and jammed his tongue down my throat at a concert probably doesn't count).

 

[Samuelx]

I take it you don't like queers. Granted, nobody, gay or straight, should have to put up with someone else's wandering hands ( or whatever else) when unwilling. It's important that you understand that not all gay people are like that.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I'm 5'10, and fat. I don't often feel like someone dwarfs me, really... but all of my girl friends are like 5'5, if that. It makes me feel huge.. I mean, bigger than I am.

My boyfriend, though, is 6'5, and 260lbs. Makes me feel better. *smile*

 

[Wolfman1982]

Hmmm I am 186 CM tall, and I just love a good roling on the floor

But I haven´t had a real fight since I was 15 (oh well some months after I went crazy at a stupid boy who always pissed me off, but that is another story). But why I haven´t done any fighting since is really because a person said to me, if I had been in another situation, I would have gone to jail 3 months , and it would have been called violence, even though I only punched the person in the stomache once.

But what is big ? and what isn´t big ?

Hmmm I remember a lot of times when I trained JKD, other people were bigger, and some were smaller than me. And hmmm many of them could beat the shit out of me, if they wanted to, but it wasn´t something that they did. But size isn´t every thing.

 

[sseg]

Okay, here goes. I'm not exactly a small guy. I'm six-foot-one and I weigh over 250 pounds. It's well spread out over my tall and wide frame, so I seem big and tall and not particularly bulky but still a big man, all in all. I like the way I look. Yet lately, I've been encountering these REALLY large men and large women. I'm not used to seeing people who are MUCH taller and BIGGER than me on a daily basis. It's weird. I have a little mental game that I play with myself daily. I look at a large person, whether male or female, and wonder whether or not I'd be able to take them, if it came down to it. I swear I never had any doubts...until I came to my new school. There are HUGE People here !!!!

I almost feel average in this place, while anywhere else I'm considered to be quite large. It's weird, you know ? Ever feel like that ?

I'm 5'7" and 190#, almost solid muscle. Since I was a kid I took martial arts and now I'm rarely without a weapon available, so I don't tend to view other people in the context as to whether I could take them or not, but in the tactical calculations as to whether I can (a) avoid confrontation, and (b) if a isn't an option, how best to neutralize a potential threat. When you're smaller you often learn not the rely on brute force, but on tactics.

When it comes to partners, I like people my size. I hate feeling like I have to climb them. My ex-wife was 5'10 and I didn't like getting a crick in my neck kissing her. I've never been with a man who was much bigger than I was, though it's been an occasional fantasy because I don't meet many people who can out-wrestle me

 

[Samuelx]

There's a lot of BIG women in my school. Some of them are scary !

 

[Wolfman1982]

There's a lot of BIG women in my school. Some of them are scary !

Samuel: why are you so scared of them ? Come on, if I had a girlfriend in the height of Gitte/Brigitte Nielsen, aka. former Mrs Stallone. I would be in heaven, since I am 186 CM tall, and not many women are so tall.

And size isn´t every thing, heck some big guys are really small scared people who are just tall, and you can easily scare them by shouting "booh !" in the evening, if you are cruel, that I surely hope you aren´t.

Samuel: Perhaps they are alien female, male hunks ? who wants to make love with us "Earthlings" ?

Heck, I have met women, and men who could be like a giant when they roleld out their anger, or love to people. And I have experienced both from such great people

Hmmm sometimes I have a temper , and an anger/rage that is truely the same as the old viking berzerker rage, where people weren´t intoxicated by Amanita muscaria (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Basidiomycota)

And the only thing, that could get me relaxed was a loving, and real hug from a person who is not more than 5 foot something, and is a woman. So size isn´t every thing.

And I know I can control my anger now a days, but back then. Then I was big and angry. But I still had my intelligense, but enough of that.

Samuel, size isn´t every thing. And don´t be scared by big women in the height department.

Since I could easily love a woman who were 160 Centimetres tall.

 

[human_male]

Think less about fighting and more about fucking.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Think less about fighting and more about fucking.

Exactly make more love, than war

 

[BDisaster]

Think less about fighting and more about fucking.

marry me

 

[human_male]

marry me

K.

 

[Samuelx]

Samuel: why are you so scared of them ? Come on, if I had a girlfriend in the height of Gitte/Brigitte Nielsen, aka. former Mrs Stallone. I would be in heaven, since I am 186 CM tall, and not many women are so tall.

And size isn´t every thing, heck some big guys are really small scared people who are just tall, and you can easily scare them by shouting "booh !" in the evening, if you are cruel, that I surely hope you aren´t.

Samuel: Perhaps they are alien female, male hunks ? who wants to make love with us "Earthlings" ?

Heck, I have met women, and men who could be like a giant when they roleld out their anger, or love to people. And I have experienced both from such great people

Hmmm sometimes I have a temper , and an anger/rage that is truely the same as the old viking berzerker rage, where people weren´t intoxicated by Amanita muscaria (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Basidiomycota)

And the only thing, that could get me relaxed was a loving, and real hug from a person who is not more than 5 foot something, and is a woman. So size isn´t every thing.

And I know I can control my anger now a days, but back then. Then I was big and angry. But I still had my intelligense, but enough of that.

Samuel, size isn´t every thing. And don´t be scared by big women in the height department.

Since I could easily love a woman who were 160 Centimetres tall.

I don't get intimidated by anyone. Size, gender, color, status. Nothing intimidates me. It's just that I've had so many people of both sexes come after me that I sometimes automatically think of people in term of "foe". I have so very few friends. I can count them on one hand.
Rove V., a nice, older gentleman from Australia. He's gay and one of my best pals. One of the most clear-minded and intelligent people I know. John D. He's an older black man from Africa. He's a nice man, very generous and just about the only person I trust on this planet.
He's been there for me when I REALLY needed it. Paul S. A young black man from my school. He's a fellow Haitian man and he too has been there for me when I needed and I value loyalty. I try to always be there for my friends. There's also Stacy. The first female I was ever completely honest with about my sexuality. She was a cool pal most of the time. She didn't betray me. I trusted her with sensitive info and she was trustworthy. If I was gonna go after a woman romantically for real, it would have to be someone like her. These days, I'm down with the fellas. Aside from John and Paul, I don't really keep in touch with the others, communicating with them rarely but they are dear to me.
I'm the kind of person who values loyalty and bravery above all else in a human being. And believe me, I can TEST people.

 

[incubus'_sub]

You have very few friends. Samuel, that doesn't surprise me. You have some very serious anger issues. I've suggested that you get some professional help before. Have you tried to do this yet?

 

[Samuelx]

You have very few friends. Samuel, that doesn't surprise me. You have some very serious anger issues. I've suggested that you get some professional help before. Have you tried to do this yet?

Dude, wanna know exactly how much money I got on me this saturday ? $ 223 and 75 cents. I took home $ 500 yesterday. I'm a college student. I got so much to do and so little time. Coming to Lit is actually like "mini vacation/therapy" for me. Do you honestly think I can afford a shrink ? Beside, if my shrink were a woman, I'd piss her off because I'm a bisexual man with anger issues. If my shrink were a man, I'd scare him off because I like men. See ? Can't do it, man.

 

[Programmer Cat]

If my shrink were a man, I'd scare him off because I like men. See ? Can't do it, man.

Better find a bi male shrink, then, eh? Then, as long as he doesn't either find you attractive or can remain professional despite his attraction, you're in business.

 

[John Doe]

Fat people have shitty attitudes. I try to avoid them as much as possible.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Fat people have shitty attitudes. I try to avoid them as much as possible.

How very typical of you to stereotype others.

We don't want you near us anyway, little boy.

 

[Samuelx]

How very typical of you to stereotype others.

We don't want you near us anyway, little boy.

Tell him, lady. BHMs and BBWs are people too, ya know ? I'm a BHM, btw.

 

[Wolfman1982]

How very typical of you to stereotype others.

We don't want you near us anyway, little boy.

Big women , big men , it is all good

and well even though I am a´big fat fuck with the weight 130 kilos, and in height 186 centimetres I can still kick some God damn fucking ass, if I have to. And will gladly do it, to the stereo typical fuckers can´t behave .

 

[Chicklet]

Okay, here goes. I'm not exactly a small guy. I'm six-foot-one and I weigh over 250 pounds. It's well spread out over my tall and wide frame, so I seem big and tall and not particularly bulky but still a big man, all in all. I like the way I look. Yet lately, I've been encountering these REALLY large men and large women. I'm not used to seeing people who are MUCH taller and BIGGER than me on a daily basis. It's weird. I have a little mental game that I play with myself daily. I look at a large person, whether male or female, and wonder whether or not I'd be able to take them, if it came down to it. I swear I never had any doubts...until I came to my new school. There are HUGE People here !!!!

I almost feel average in this place, while anywhere else I'm considered to be quite large. It's weird, you know ? Ever feel like that ?

I understand what you mean, for opposite reasons - I'm only five feet tall, and while I'm not super skinny, I'm not big. I sort of take it for granted that I have to angle my head upwards to talk to people, and am usually the "small, cute" person in a crowd But sometimes I encounter people quite a bit smaller than me, and it actually makes me feel gigantic! I don't play "could I take them?" but I do usually do a double take.

 

[John Doe]

How very typical of you to stereotype others.

We don't want you near us anyway, little boy.

Thank you for proving my point. I'm not stereotyping. It's an observation that most people agree with, even if they refrain from saying so based on some misguided belief in the validity of political correction.

Big women , big men , it is all good

and well even though I am a´big fat fuck with the weight 130 kilos, and in height 186 centimetres I can still kick some God damn fucking ass, if I have to. And will gladly do it, to the stereo typical fuckers can´t behave .

See what I mean? Saying stupid asshole shit like that does not help to change my opinion. It's precisely that fattitude that I was refering to, that you ironically feel you have to kick everyone's ass to get along.

You know the ones I mean. The ones in the supermarket who deliberately stand right in the middle of the isle, blocking traffic both ways to prove some retarded macho point, or they just don't give a shit about inconveniencing others.

 

[Wolfman1982]

See what I mean? Saying stupid asshole shit like that does not help to change my opinion. It's precisely that fattitude that I was refering to, that you ironically feel you have to kick everyone's ass to get along.

You know the ones I mean. The ones in the supermarket who deliberately stand right in the middle of the isle, blocking traffic both ways to prove some retarded macho point, or they just don't give a shit about inconveniencing others.

LOL "wuuuaaaah wuuuuaah mommy the fat kid gave me a beating in the school today" * intelligent mom* "well why did he do that ?" "because I called him fat" *intelligent mom* "perhaps that was the reason why he gave you beating ? because he has a obesity problem ?" and he doesn´t like to be teased, and bullied ?

so my answer is lol shut up noob LOL.

Now this is a stupid shit answer LOL .

To all other people, take this forum remark from me, with a grain of irony. And not salt.

 

[Samuelx]

LOL "wuuuaaaah wuuuuaah mommy the fat kid gave me a beating in the school today" * intelligent mom* "well why did he do that ?" "because I called him fat" *intelligent mom* "perhaps that was the reason why he gave you beating ? because he has a obesity problem ?" and he doesn´t like to be teased, and bullied ?

so my answer is lol shut up noob LOL.

Now this is a stupid shit answer LOL .

To all other people, take this forum remark from me, with a grain of irony. And not salt.

Wolfie, remind me to buy a drink one of them days. I'd certainly like to. You're something else, man ! You're cool, I mean that.