Big Al luvs
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My wife of a few years was a virgin, never been pregnant, has a fantasy of trying a BIG cock. I am a normal 6". Ladies, Are they really better? Why? How should we go about setting it up?
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DarlingBri
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You know...
If she has a fantasy, you can still find ways to explore and satisfy it without a third person. I'm not telling you that groups are wrong, but I do personally think it's an *extremely* serious thing for a couple to contemplate.
How will you feel watching your wife getting pleasure from someone else?
How will you feel knowing the virgin you married has now slept with someone else?
How will you cope with and process the fact that she may take more pleasure from someone else's equiptment than she has from your?
How does SHE feel about all those questions, and a million more?
If she's having these fantasies, why not buy an oversized dildo and use it *together*? Actually bringing in a third person seems like a major step, and frankly a LOT of hassel, when you can explore her desire with more ease and safety other ways.
And some women will say yes, bigger is better, and some will say no and shudder. It's just personal preference. There's no "women's answer" to the question.
[Edited by DarlingBri on 04-14-2001 at 04:16 AM]
If she has a fantasy, you can still find ways to explore and satisfy it without a third person. I'm not telling you that groups are wrong, but I do personally think it's an *extremely* serious thing for a couple to contemplate.
How will you feel watching your wife getting pleasure from someone else?
How will you feel knowing the virgin you married has now slept with someone else?
How will you cope with and process the fact that she may take more pleasure from someone else's equiptment than she has from your?
How does SHE feel about all those questions, and a million more?
If she's having these fantasies, why not buy an oversized dildo and use it *together*? Actually bringing in a third person seems like a major step, and frankly a LOT of hassel, when you can explore her desire with more ease and safety other ways.
And some women will say yes, bigger is better, and some will say no and shudder. It's just personal preference. There's no "women's answer" to the question.
[Edited by DarlingBri on 04-14-2001 at 04:16 AM]
OUTSIDER
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I have been the "Third person" and I can tell you that unless your marriage is strong it can rip it apart, the people I did it with are friends I've known since I was twelve so they know everything about me and I know everything about them, if it had not been like that then I don't think it would have worked.
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For $5000 I can enlarge your penis to a size that would make even Deborah blush.
Here is an example of my work:
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Here is an example of my work:
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Dr. Dick Bigger said:
OUCH... put that damn thing away
Options
If you're very secured in your marriage, opt for a third partner.
If you're not so secured, opt to invest in a large dildo.
If you want to opt for a penis enlargement, this would be the final choice. Although, six inches to me is average, I think ten inches is very exaggerated. Depending on your body size, I go for the eight inches but let your wife make the choice.
Best of luck.
If you're very secured in your marriage, opt for a third partner.
If you're not so secured, opt to invest in a large dildo.
If you want to opt for a penis enlargement, this would be the final choice. Although, six inches to me is average, I think ten inches is very exaggerated. Depending on your body size, I go for the eight inches but let your wife make the choice.
Best of luck.
Celestiale
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I just have to say...
that I love DarlingBri. She's is always dead on with the most heartfelt advice! Every post I've ever read of hers is exactly how I'd respond if only I could write as eloquently as she does.
*blows DB a kissy*
She's right on with her advice.
As for size, coming from a woman who's husband is well endowed, I'd just like to say that sometimes I'd rather NOT have to face it...bigger isn't always better...
that I love DarlingBri. She's is always dead on with the most heartfelt advice! Every post I've ever read of hers is exactly how I'd respond if only I could write as eloquently as she does.
*blows DB a kissy*
She's right on with her advice.
As for size, coming from a woman who's husband is well endowed, I'd just like to say that sometimes I'd rather NOT have to face it...bigger isn't always better...
DarlingBri
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Celestiale...
Thank you
That's very kind of you 
<goes blushing into the sunset>
Thank you
That's very kind of you <goes blushing into the sunset>
SallyIsHere
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Often, the fantasy is better than the reality. For better or worse, penises come attached to people and I have found that the person is more critical than the penis. Get a big dildo, warm it up, add lube, blindfold her and fantasize away. Then you wont have to figure out how to make the dildo go home after the fun.
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Points to consider
Hi Big Al,
Some points to consider.
As a virgin, it is normal for your wife to wonder what sex would be like with other men.
If when you are in her, you do not push on her cirvix because she is too deep, then her orgasms are primarly clitoris induced.
To say that a dildo would give her the feelings of a man with a cock that is long enough to fill her, is not accurate. There is more to this then the mear insertion of something. When she meets a stranger, and has a reaction to him, as a human being, there is great excitment, as they get closer to the act. When in her, there is a 150 pound man's pubic area that is moving all the flesh in her vagina area, in addition to her insides being moved.
You must ask yourself, if her fantacy is only for a big cock, because that may be easier to sell you, or is she interested in trying several men.
The fact that she told you about it should generate confidence on your part. She wants you to conspire with her, and share the experience.
If you do not reveal your correct name, and address, and allow any contact with her, except through you, you can control the events. In addition, if you go out of your resident area, so that the person can not find you, then you have complete control.
The next control is an age difference.
As far as finding people, that is easy. Write to me, with your age, and nearest big city. I will send information to you.
Now. Will it ruin your marriage? If you pass 1000 woman on the street, 990 have had sex with men, other then their husband. I have known hundreds of swingers, but have never known a couple that split up over swinging, or have changed partners. Affairs are the danger.
If your wife has to sneak around to find a lover, it is easy to stay with one, then to keep hunting. In that case, a relationship could occur.
Should you try swinging, you both will have stories to tell the other.
Big Al, it will turn you on when your other tell you what went on, and her reactions to it all.
If you want more info, write MyCrazyDream@AOL.com
Softly
Hi Big Al,
Some points to consider.
As a virgin, it is normal for your wife to wonder what sex would be like with other men.
If when you are in her, you do not push on her cirvix because she is too deep, then her orgasms are primarly clitoris induced.
To say that a dildo would give her the feelings of a man with a cock that is long enough to fill her, is not accurate. There is more to this then the mear insertion of something. When she meets a stranger, and has a reaction to him, as a human being, there is great excitment, as they get closer to the act. When in her, there is a 150 pound man's pubic area that is moving all the flesh in her vagina area, in addition to her insides being moved.
You must ask yourself, if her fantacy is only for a big cock, because that may be easier to sell you, or is she interested in trying several men.
The fact that she told you about it should generate confidence on your part. She wants you to conspire with her, and share the experience.
If you do not reveal your correct name, and address, and allow any contact with her, except through you, you can control the events. In addition, if you go out of your resident area, so that the person can not find you, then you have complete control.
The next control is an age difference.
As far as finding people, that is easy. Write to me, with your age, and nearest big city. I will send information to you.
Now. Will it ruin your marriage? If you pass 1000 woman on the street, 990 have had sex with men, other then their husband. I have known hundreds of swingers, but have never known a couple that split up over swinging, or have changed partners. Affairs are the danger.
If your wife has to sneak around to find a lover, it is easy to stay with one, then to keep hunting. In that case, a relationship could occur.
Should you try swinging, you both will have stories to tell the other.
Big Al, it will turn you on when your other tell you what went on, and her reactions to it all.
If you want more info, write MyCrazyDream@AOL.com
Softly
