PenLightStories
Ideal Mate
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2016
- Posts
- 442
Hello friends and curious posters. I'm a fit and creative man looking for a couple or man who's (emotionally or actually) a little older to sub for in an online chat/email/etc capacity.
I have written a slew of stories published on Lit and I have shared some pics, so check my profile if that interests you.
I look like someone in their 30s but I've heard as low as latter 20's.
I'm not into real world dubcon, abuse, or family stuff but I am interested in a virtual relationship with similar themes.
Some scenarios for the framework of the relationship might be:
During playtime, you're my dad, uncle, or boss (or mom and dad/aunt and uncle) who has a tough love but ultimately nurturing relationship to me.
You can give me challenges or tasks that I'll attempt to carry out irl (possibly with proof from time to time).
For things I can't physically do for you, I can come up with a story on how it might work.
We can work on longer term goals if things work out
If you really want to get crazy, there could even be a fantasy/rp element to play time which we could discuss (I like superhero/fantasy/scifi rp, too).
Ideally, I'm looking for a relationship where my submission is as much thematic as literal - meaning I can follow instructions but it's more about the whole picture than wanting someone to just give me perverted instructions.
I'd like it if we can be friendly when I'm not "performing submission", if that makes sense. Maybe we can have "playtime" and "hang time" to plot out what we want to do and get to know each other.
As someone who's really introverted in real life, emotional and physical intimacy is my drug of choice.
I want someone who's going to challenge me but I have some boundaries.
What I am looking for in a partner is:
More outgoing and adventurous than me
Trust
Someone who'll respect established boundaries
Someone who'll find ways to challenge me and let me challenge them
Willing to keep things lively without an expectation of 24/7 communication
What I'm hoping for:
Communication through messaging (Lit and outside email or apps)
Eventually, I might be up for live video or phone chat when the opportunity arises
Smut exchanges
Fantasy or rp chat
Getting to know someone else or some couple a little bit on a personal level
Kinks:
Exhibitionism (consensually)
Voyeurism
Bisexuality
I'm a natural pleaser - I am constantly trying to make people happy with me
Taboo fantasies - family or workplace scenarios
Some risk taking - check in with me on this
Sensuality - my ideal erotica aesthetic is probably best visualized in as 70s travel erotica
Intimacy - as mentioned - physical or emotional, it's my drug of choice
No's:
Scat
Real harm to my body that would leave a mark
I'm not going to do anything illegal
I have written a slew of stories published on Lit and I have shared some pics, so check my profile if that interests you.
I look like someone in their 30s but I've heard as low as latter 20's.
I'm not into real world dubcon, abuse, or family stuff but I am interested in a virtual relationship with similar themes.
Some scenarios for the framework of the relationship might be:
During playtime, you're my dad, uncle, or boss (or mom and dad/aunt and uncle) who has a tough love but ultimately nurturing relationship to me.
You can give me challenges or tasks that I'll attempt to carry out irl (possibly with proof from time to time).
For things I can't physically do for you, I can come up with a story on how it might work.
We can work on longer term goals if things work out
If you really want to get crazy, there could even be a fantasy/rp element to play time which we could discuss (I like superhero/fantasy/scifi rp, too).
Ideally, I'm looking for a relationship where my submission is as much thematic as literal - meaning I can follow instructions but it's more about the whole picture than wanting someone to just give me perverted instructions.
I'd like it if we can be friendly when I'm not "performing submission", if that makes sense. Maybe we can have "playtime" and "hang time" to plot out what we want to do and get to know each other.
As someone who's really introverted in real life, emotional and physical intimacy is my drug of choice.
I want someone who's going to challenge me but I have some boundaries.
What I am looking for in a partner is:
More outgoing and adventurous than me
Trust
Someone who'll respect established boundaries
Someone who'll find ways to challenge me and let me challenge them
Willing to keep things lively without an expectation of 24/7 communication
What I'm hoping for:
Communication through messaging (Lit and outside email or apps)
Eventually, I might be up for live video or phone chat when the opportunity arises
Smut exchanges
Fantasy or rp chat
Getting to know someone else or some couple a little bit on a personal level
Kinks:
Exhibitionism (consensually)
Voyeurism
Bisexuality
I'm a natural pleaser - I am constantly trying to make people happy with me
Taboo fantasies - family or workplace scenarios
Some risk taking - check in with me on this
Sensuality - my ideal erotica aesthetic is probably best visualized in as 70s travel erotica
Intimacy - as mentioned - physical or emotional, it's my drug of choice
No's:
Scat
Real harm to my body that would leave a mark
I'm not going to do anything illegal
