bicurious encounter...

youngandready22

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As a bicurious guy, I'm finally to the point where I'm ready to experiment. How do I approach my friend to see if he wants to try with me? We experimented when we were younger, but haven't talked about it in like years.
 
ask him.......remember when we did stuff before well i wanna do it again...
 
yea alcohol would be a good lubercant in this situation, if he seems taken aback or otherwise agitated you might me able to pass it off as a passing thought.

just my 2 cents.:cool:
 
Thanks for the advice! He's mentioned wanting to have a threesome but kind of purposely didn't say with two other girls, so that's kind of why I thought to ask him. Well, that and we've jacked each other off and tasted each others cocks before lol. if I asked him and he was down for it, it will prob change my sex life drastically haha.

P.s. Silkydave I got your pm but can't send a reply since I'm using my blackberry to check the site while I'm at work haha
 
alcohol is a good thing, and if he asking he is curious too.....he is just as nervous as you are, go throw back some beers and lose the inhibitions, then let us know how it went
 
Ask him a series of rapid-fire questions, most of which are innocuous, but without giving him time to think about his answers so that he has to say the first thing that pops into his mind.

What's your favorite band?

What's your favorite color?

Do you prefer french fries or baked potato?

Do you like dick?


You'd be surprised how much can be revealed if this method is properly employed.
 
As a bicurious guy, I'm finally to the point where I'm ready to experiment. How do I approach my friend to see if he wants to try with me? We experimented when we were younger, but haven't talked about it in like years.
He is just as ready as you seam to be, just go for it and let the pants fall where they will. You will be happy you did.
 
Just be open and honest. I asked one of my friends out of the blue and now we get together at least once a month. What's the harm in asking? Or just get him drunk and go for it.

Life is too short to have sexual hangups so go out and have fun. If it doesn't work with this guy there are plenty of other guys out there that would love to meet you....
 
nervous

the thing is, we've both changed quite a bit since all that happened. it's just very recently he's kind of breached the topic of involving another guy in sex. the thing is, he was the one that stopped us from getting each other off in the first place and every time it would happen we wouldn't talk for a good week and even then he'd pretend like it never happened. i was the same, but now i've become more comfortable with who i am and realize that i can suck a guy off without being a 'fag', i'm sexually attracted to women but am also attracted to the idea of messing with a guy. i'm a little slow to the idea of being fucked or fucking a dude, kissing a guy isn't something i want to do so i know i'm not gay, but that line is something i don't know if he'll want to cross. he sees it as he's either gay or not gay, and i'm afraid if i ask he'll just be angry without really considering everything. i don't know, still pretty nervous i'm hoping to make a move this weekend though
 
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