Bi thoughts

[kindahorny]

I saw on another thread about as you get older, it seems the thought of doing something with a cock increases,
well i would agree with that, i am now in my early 50's, and my bi curious side is (thoughts)are getting more
frequent, has been for a while now, sucking on a cock, being sucked by a man.
No way do i find men atractive like i do women, no way does the thought ok kissing , cuddling or any signs
of affection appeal to me, just the thought of oral with a guy.
The only experience goes back a long time when i was at shcool me and a mate had about half a dozen
wanks in front of each other, nothing else hapened.
Then there was two other moments, when i just turned 17, another mate, who was a couple years younger
just got his cock out and said do you fancy sucking on this, i was realy suprised as no way had any thought
of any thing like that was on his mind, and i just told him, no way fuck of, and walked away.
It took a while but eventually, i would just say hi in passing, (just got to say, he married and had a family,
his wife is a lucky girl, for his age, he was big)
The other one also took place when i was 17, nearly 18, i passed my driving test early,
anyway i had a regular girl friend and her friend and fella asked if i would sit beside him as he was having
lessons, with his test booked in a couple of months, so i said yes, we went out one day everything was ok,
cant remember if it was 2nd, or 3rd time it was just us two anyway, after a while he pulled up not down a lane,
just a quiet road, got his cock out and asked if i liked what i saw, fucking hell, i could't beleive this,
there was no sexuel banter,nothing, i did stare at it for a second and said no way mate, not into that,
getting plenty of sex from my girl freind.
He stayed very calm, asked if i was sure, and put it away.No more lessons, but didnt fall out with him,
just made excuses to not mix with them so much.

Well now i wish i had had a suck on both of them, just to have tried it, but at the time didn't appeal to me.
I married young had children and i am still very happily married
There was a mate who i thought it might happen with, about4-5 years ago, friendly banter and stuff,
even though i new him quite well, the thought of std's scares me (even though i thought he was clean),
i didn't try anything, the banter subsided, but we are still mates,
(think he was going through a curious stage as well)
Well that it, didn't expect to write so much as that, please feel free to comment.

 

[iswallowloads]

The thought of "Wishing I had done that" hitting me later in life is a big factor in why I finally tried it. And also why I keep doing it. I'm a fairly monogamous person, so if I ever get married I'll probably have to stop. Might as well suck as much dick as I can now.

 

[jshawk52]

I became increasingly attracted to the idea of having sexual relations with men as I got older also (I'm in my mid 50s now) and have gone beyond just being attracted to the cock. A cute, well dressed guy with a nice body gets my attention. I just have to be careful when I check them out so as not to be too obvious.

 

[mmb]

Hmm, I started thinking about sucking a dick in my 30s. Must be advanced.

 

[jshawk52]

Hmm, I started thinking about sucking a dick in my 30s. Must be advanced.

Or lucky! You got to enjoy the sensation for a longer time

 

[kindahorny]

if it hapened now

i think i would suck one now if the same opportunity arose, (no pun intended), sort of act on impulse, because i knew the people in question

 

[infinity706]

I didn't really start thinking about guys until I went through puberty. That counts as getting older, right? I've had the pleasure of hooking up with plenty of older guys, including one in his 60s. I think he got over the feeling of taking advantage of me when he ended up pressed against a wall in a hot, heavy french kiss, though. Needless to say, he got a lot more than he probably dreamed could happen.

I wish more of the older guys had gotten with a guy or more earlier in life, though. I've ended up training more than a few that were 30+ years older than me, which is a little weird. It's still fun. It just seems strange to be preying on someone that's been fucking since before you were born.

 

[texharley]

I saw on another thread about as you get older, it seems the thought of doing something with a cock increases,
well i would agree with that, i am now in my early 50's, and my bi curious side is (thoughts)are getting more
frequent, has been for a while now, sucking on a cock, being sucked by a man.
No way do i find men atractive like i do women, no way does the thought ok kissing , cuddling or any signs
of affection appeal to me, just the thought of oral with a guy.
The only experience goes back a long time when i was at shcool me and a mate had about half a dozen
wanks in front of each other, nothing else hapened.
Then there was two other moments, when i just turned 17, another mate, who was a couple years younger
just got his cock out and said do you fancy sucking on this, i was realy suprised as no way had any thought
of any thing like that was on his mind, and i just told him, no way fuck of, and walked away.
It took a while but eventually, i would just say hi in passing, (just got to say, he married and had a family,
his wife is a lucky girl, for his age, he was big)
The other one also took place when i was 17, nearly 18, i passed my driving test early,
anyway i had a regular girl friend and her friend and fella asked if i would sit beside him as he was having
lessons, with his test booked in a couple of months, so i said yes, we went out one day everything was ok,
cant remember if it was 2nd, or 3rd time it was just us two anyway, after a while he pulled up not down a lane,
just a quiet road, got his cock out and asked if i liked what i saw, fucking hell, i could't beleive this,
there was no sexuel banter,nothing, i did stare at it for a second and said no way mate, not into that,
getting plenty of sex from my girl freind.
He stayed very calm, asked if i was sure, and put it away.No more lessons, but didnt fall out with him,
just made excuses to not mix with them so much.

Well now i wish i had had a suck on both of them, just to have tried it, but at the time didn't appeal to me.
I married young had children and i am still very happily married
There was a mate who i thought it might happen with, about4-5 years ago, friendly banter and stuff,
even though i new him quite well, the thought of std's scares me (even though i thought he was clean),
i didn't try anything, the banter subsided, but we are still mates,
(think he was going through a curious stage as well)
Well that it, didn't expect to write so much as that, please feel free to comment.

Well, I can say I have sucked a cock but that was years and years ago before getting married the first time. I sucked two cocks that belonged to friends, they also sucked me, but we never cummed in each other and neither of us really knew how to suck but we tried. So I do know what a hard cock tastes and feels like but my bi fantaises will stay a fantasy because I do not want to do anything to mess up my current marriage.

 

[BiDrew42]

Sucked my first cock at 15 but thought about it even before that.

When I was 11 my 14 year old friend introduced me to the joys of masturbation. Never any touching but I did enjoy watching him jack off many times. His cock was much larger than mine and not circumsized. I frequently thought about sucking him and once even worked up the nerve to ask him if he wanted me too. He wasn't interested but once after he finished he fell asleep with a little puddle of cum in his belly button and I dipped my finger in and tasted it. I was hooked.

I was with dozens of men up until I got married at 24, then I was monogamous for over 20 years. I never stopped wanting to have sex with men, but took my wedding vows very seriously. As those years passed, I did find myself thinking more and more about it, and my wife and I experimented with a lot of anal play that was very good, but not quite like the real thing. I also thought about and fantasized about other women as well, but more about men.

Now that I'm divorced I have met a woman who shares many of the same sexual needs and desires, and we have been working to satisfy all of our fantasies. Wish I'd met her before I got married.

I can't believe I went so long without male sexual partners, but I'm making up for lost time.

Drew

 

[kingkhan1]

For me I have just now at 21 really come into my own skin as far as sexual orientation. I feel a little sad for older guys who were not able to feel comfortable when they were young. I love having a fluid sexual orientation. Last night in one of my classes all I could think about was this cute women sitting next to me while the professor was yaking. But, today I am horned up thinking about my j/o buddy.
And for the guys who are not into affection from a guy you might want to try it, it can be hot. I loved it when my j/o buddy was kissing my body and sucking my nipples it was so hot.

 

[Calit69]

You have to know what a sad experience it was in my youth to live a life which was seen as being socially acceptable and dictated by the norms of society of the day. Repressed and stuffed up dont come close to describing the frustrations Divorced through being busted looking at gay sites, cock and all associated thrills at the age of 45. Not once but on number of occasions.
Regret is that one didnt have the courage to say yes when the opportunities arose when one was younger and physically capable.. I envy the youth for the fact that they can easily give expression to their interests and fetishes today. Oh to be 21 today knowing what I know now. Watch out world

 

[SilkyDave]

Calit says it all, oh to be young and know what i know now, how i wish i had accepted the advances, oh how is wish i had the courage to follow through on my desires, oh how i wish i just went with my bisexuality back when i was 15....oh well

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I'm in my forties,and I went for a few years thinking maybe I'm straight, until
I started going to bed with guys again. I've no regrets.

 

[CoastalTom]

Hmm, I started thinking about sucking a dick in my 30s. Must be advanced.

I have been off the boards for months, it seems, but I agree - it started in my 30's, now a rock hard cock in my hands when I think about it in my 40's. 42, to be precise. No wonder I jack off on a webcam to as many guys - and girls - who want to watch, lol.

 

[jshawk52]

I have been off the boards for months, it seems, but I agree - it started in my 30's, now a rock hard cock in my hands when I think about it in my 40's. 42, to be precise. No wonder I jack off on a webcam to as many guys - and girls - who want to watch, lol.

Do you find it to be satisfying to jack off for an audience?

 

[mmmscurious]

I had an experience with a friend in my early teens, and then didn't do anything with another man until I was in my late 40s (after agonizing over it for several years). My biggest regret after I started was that I didn't have the courage to overcome the societal pressure that kept me from dealing with the bi feelings that in retrospect I've admitted to myself were always there.

 

[iswallowloads]

I had an experience with a friend in my early teens, and then didn't do anything with another man until I was in my late 40s (after agonizing over it for several years). My biggest regret after I started was that I didn't have the courage to overcome the societal pressure that kept me from dealing with the bi feelings that in retrospect I've admitted to myself were always there.

I can sympathize. Most of us, particularly when we're younger, care to much about what others think. WE all crave acceptance, at least to some degree, whether we admit it or not.

But at least you didn't keep it bottled up for ever. No point in worrying about missed opportunities, just enjoy what you can, while you can, from here on out.

 

[mmmscurious]

I can sympathize. Most of us, particularly when we're younger, care to much about what others think. WE all crave acceptance, at least to some degree, whether we admit it or not.

But at least you didn't keep it bottled up for ever. No point in worrying about missed opportunities, just enjoy what you can, while you can, from here on out.

Still, I love to fantasize what it would have been like if I would have accepted my buddies offer to suck my rock hard 18 year old cock.

 

[iswallowloads]

Still, I love to fantasize what it would have been like if I would have accepted my buddies offer to suck my rock hard 18 year old cock.

I have those same thoughts sometimes. I had a roommate that was very well endowed when I was 19. I know he wanted to experiment with me, but I also knew he'd tell everybody. I don't really regret it, but I often fantasize about blowing him.

 

[pussy_liquor]

I regret not sucking my wife's lovers cock when she was fucking him regularly!
Always waited at home like she wanted!

 

[iswallowloads]

I regret not sucking my wife's lovers cock when she was fucking him regularly!
Always waited at home like she wanted!

You ever plan on trying to hook up with that one dude again?

 

[kindahorny]

I have those same thoughts sometimes. I had a roommate that was very well endowed when I was 19. I know he wanted to experiment with me, but I also knew he'd tell everybody. I don't really regret it, but I often fantasize about blowing him.

it looks like i'm not the only one, missed chances, ect

 

[win1strl]

I'm 40 and I've been thinking about it for years. But recently it's overpowering. I love women too but increasingly I find myself checking out dudes and acting on these impulses.

So far, I've only given guys blow jobs. But, Im really wondering what it might be like to just have sex with a guy just like you would a girl. Make out, get naked, suck, have anal etc. I'm totally attracted to guys right now.It's kind of freaking me out but I'm old enough that I realize trying to ignore it or pretend it doesnt' exist is futile.

I'm starting to think I may even be all out Gay. May be the mood but yesterday I watched uporn straight sex and was totally limp. Put the gay sex on and Bang, instant errection with precum and total extacy. Came within minutes. I might be screwed.

 

[stillcurious2]

... as you get older, it seems the thought of doing something with a cock increases,
well i would agree with that, i am now in my early 50's, and my bi curious thoughts are getting more
frequent, has been for a while now, sucking on a cock, being sucked by a man.
...
will it stay fantasy

You've certainly described my situation, kindahorny. The line at the end is the real question for me, too.

I also have a "regrettable" story. It involves a college classmate. I just wasn't there at the time.

<cue Frank Sinatra "Regrets, I've had a few, but then again, too few to mention ....">

 

[bisexualnewbie]

I'm 36 now and have totally accepted the fact that I'm Bisexual and that I love cock as well as pussy, I'm not what I would consider a promiscuous bi male, I don't go looking for a guy and have a very understanding gf who knows about my bi side and gets turned on by it. I would much prefer to be safe and have a friend I can get to know over time (yes they are hard to find) plus I like to kiss, although many bi guys don't.