Bi thoughts - any one else like me?

sardog1

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I am 40 year old married guy who has fantasizes about bi, gay and shemale sex. When I am out on the town, I never find another guy attractive and can't stop looking at attractive woman. But when alone and horny or had a little to drink my fantasy comes out. My porn watching is almost all bi, gay,strapon or shemale. My wife and I sometimes use toys and pretend the dildo is another guy. Sometimes she will ask me to suck the dildo. She thinks I go along for her but I love the thought of it too.
Just wondering why I never look at another guy as sexual but have the thoughts I do.
 
This is exactly the same way I feel men don't grab my attention in public but, I like playing with cock and I think porn plays a big role in this attraction to dick. For me the act is what is hot not really the guy's face or body. The only difference I don't really like guy on guy porn.Only str8 porn or guy on shemale.
 
I am 40 year old married guy who has fantasizes about bi, gay and shemale sex. When I am out on the town, I never find another guy attractive and can't stop looking at attractive woman. But when alone and horny or had a little to drink my fantasy comes out. My porn watching is almost all bi, gay,strapon or shemale. My wife and I sometimes use toys and pretend the dildo is another guy. Sometimes she will ask me to suck the dildo. She thinks I go along for her but I love the thought of it too.
Just wondering why I never look at another guy as sexual but have the thoughts I do.


You are not alone. I also fantize about bi sex and I come her to talk about it and share my fantisy. I like Shemales and bi porn. I have not yet watched a full gay porn although the short segments I have seen with a group of men can be erotric. I am married and if my wife found out I would no longer be married. I do not go out and seek men. I do not cheat unless you want to say cyber sex is cheating which even that would probably cause me to be single again but at least no chance of disease. I am not sure I would really suck a cock or take one up my ass but I sure fantizise about it and talke about it. I would love for my wife to use a strap on and make me suck it but she says that is not going to happen. She does let me eat my cum off her tits and out of her pussy but that is all.
 
You are not alone. I also fantize about bi sex and I come her to talk about it and share my fantisy. I like Shemales and bi porn. I have not yet watched a full gay porn although the short segments I have seen with a group of men can be erotric. I am married and if my wife found out I would no longer be married. I do not go out and seek men. I do not cheat unless you want to say cyber sex is cheating which even that would probably cause me to be single again but at least no chance of disease. I am not sure I would really suck a cock or take one up my ass but I sure fantizise about it and talke about it. I would love for my wife to use a strap on and make me suck it but she says that is not going to happen. She does let me eat my cum off her tits and out of her pussy but that is all.

I forgot to add that one time I had phone sex with a man and his wife and it was hot giving his wife an orgasm on the phone while he listened on the extension and then she listened while I made him cum on the phone.
 
What did you say to the wife & husband over the phone to get them off, if I may so inquire?
 
I also am married and love gay/bi/tranny porn. In fact, just the other night I had a dream of sucking a guy to orgasm and eating his cum. I woke up in a sweat and I thought I could taste him in my mouth still.
 
What did you say to the wife & husband over the phone to get them off, if I may so inquire?

I don't remember every word, but I just told each of them what I was doing to them as if I was doing it you knowI told her to sit on my face as I fucked her with my tongue and would tongue fuck her ass moving my tongue in an dout like a dick and with thim I just talked about getting on my knees and taking his juijy cock and etc etc. It just progressed because I would say things and then they would say things and it was just hot.
 
To Tex,

I'm not an expert and I'm certainly not in charge, but I would say to you if we were in the same room - bi-sexuality and attraction to both sexes is completely natural and it is only the conditioning that we are subjected to that makes it seem otherwise. You strike me as someone honestly trying to address and understand the feelings that you are experiencing on your own terms. I wish you the best and hope you are able to grow into yourself and feel comfortable and fulfilled with who you are!
 
I can't explain it but I'm the same way. Except I'm not really into gay porn, but when I watch straight porn I often fantasise I'm the woman.

Maybe someone will explain it one day.

You're really lucky to have a wife who's into it with you. I've heard from a lot of men who have to keep it from their wives for fear of how they will react.

Maybe some day I'll find someone like that.
 
Not alone at all!!

I am not attracted to men in any way shape or form, but I LOVE to suck cock, have my cock sucked by men, and have men fuck me in the ass (althoug, I haven't had any of that in a LONG time...have to use my rubber cock)

Guys don't turn me on, She Males do! WOW Beautiful women with COCKS! Does it get any better than that??? But nope...you're not alone!
 
Not alone at all!!

I am not attracted to men in any way shape or form, but I LOVE to suck cock, have my cock sucked by men, and have men fuck me in the ass (althoug, I haven't had any of that in a LONG time...have to use my rubber cock)

Guys don't turn me on, She Males do! WOW Beautiful women with COCKS! Does it get any better than that??? But nope...you're not alone!

I could not say it better. I think Shemales are as sexy as you can get. I would love to worship their hard cock until they spurt down my throat. I could also put on my black corset and stockings get on all fours and receive a hot hard cock up my ass till they filled me with cum.
 
I am 40 year old married guy who has fantasizes about bi, gay and shemale sex. When I am out on the town, I never find another guy attractive and can't stop looking at attractive woman. But when alone and horny or had a little to drink my fantasy comes out. My porn watching is almost all bi, gay,strapon or shemale. My wife and I sometimes use toys and pretend the dildo is another guy. Sometimes she will ask me to suck the dildo. She thinks I go along for her but I love the thought of it too.
Just wondering why I never look at another guy as sexual but have the thoughts I do.

There are SO MANY people just like you. Sounds like your wife is turned on by the idea of bi sex. Why not suggest having a 3sum with another man and you both could live out your fantasies!
 
My 2 cents!

Oh Yeah! We all know were not alone. I think I fell in love with my own Cock(Nice One if I don't say so myself) and then I wanted to hold another one too. The best is Creampie! Started with my own. Now I fantasize the day I get too. Need a lot of trust for that fantasy.
 
Oh Yeah! We all know were not alone. I think I fell in love with my own Cock(Nice One if I don't say so myself) and then I wanted to hold another one too. The best is Creampie! Started with my own. Now I fantasize the day I get too. Need a lot of trust for that fantasy.

This thread is getting me hot. I've fantasized about sucking cock too. I had a dream once where i was dressed up as a slut and had numerous guys shoot their cum all over me.
 
I say act on it. Before I was dumped by my last girlfriend, we did the bedroom talk about bringing another guy into it. We both got turned on by the thought of my sucking a cock while she was being fucked by it.

After the relationship ended, I decided to act on it by becoming the 2nd male in a MMF. I met a somewhat experienced married couple and OH MY GOODNESS. It started by both of them sucking me off at the same time, which ws amazing! I then went down on the wife while the husband continued sucking me. Then it was my turn. They were a great help to me as a novice, because as I started kissing the wife, the husband slid his cock between our lips and what else could I do but lick his cock as we french kissed. It wasn't long before I stopped kissing and just started sucking his cock. It was an incredible feeling - BUT - the best was when I fucking her and he offered me his cock at the same time. To be inside a woman and sucking a cock at the same time is my most favorite sexual memory.

I say go for it!:devil:
 
Go for it, you will either like it or you won't. No one needs to know you sucked a cock but you and the suckee. If you don't like it o k, if you do thats o k also but you will know. I tried it and I happen to like it.
 
Go for it, you will either like it or you won't. No one needs to know you sucked a cock but you and the suckee. If you don't like it o k, if you do thats o k also but you will know. I tried it and I happen to like it.

You have a great outlook on life and I wish I could get over some of my guilty thoughts that I might be cheating on my wife by sucking a cock and the disease factor.
 
Wow

There are a lot of us. I am finding, however, that once I accepted the fact that I enjoy another man's body, I seem to be noticing nice looking guys more often. I also find myself wondering what he'd be like . . . sexually. This never used to happen.
I was waited on in a mens clothing store a few weeks ago by a young man who was almost 'pretty' and had a great body. He didn't act gay, but I got the idea he was. I definately got turned on - something that hadn't happened before.
 
I am a bi married male and love this thread. I think I am actually leaning Gay. Of course this is a problem. If I ever get divorced, I don't know what I would do. I still find a womans body a huge turn on, but the emotional headaches......wow. Men are so much more layed back and have very few hangups. My thing now is wearing panties and thigh high stockings. It has been years since I last had a cock and the desire is just intense. I really want to take a cock in my ass. Love nude beaches so I can show off my shaved cock and balls.....huge turn on. More later tonight.
 
BidudeinWi

I agree with you! There is something about it that is a total turn. You sound like you really could use a deep hard...mmmmmmm:)
 
I am a bi married male and love this thread. I think I am actually leaning Gay. Of course this is a problem. If I ever get divorced, I don't know what I would do. I still find a womans body a huge turn on, but the emotional headaches......wow. Men are so much more layed back and have very few hangups. My thing now is wearing panties and thigh high stockings. It has been years since I last had a cock and the desire is just intense. I really want to take a cock in my ass. Love nude beaches so I can show off my shaved cock and balls.....huge turn on. More later tonight.

Now your talking, Panties and Thigh high stocking.
As a married male I know the feelings.
I'll wear the black ones.
 
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