Bi Moms

Just turned 35 mom to a beautiful 4 month old. I've told my husband several times that I really want to bring another woman in to our bed. He indulges me in the heat of the moment but I don't think he knows I am serious.

He knows i have been with women while living in New Orleans but that was 10 yrs ago. I think he is worried b/c his ex-wife cheated on him 4 months in to marriage. (They were rly young, 20 and 21. Hes now 31.)

Any thoughts or suggestions greatly appreciated!
 
Just turned 35 mom to a beautiful 4 month old. I've told my husband several times that I really want to bring another woman in to our bed. He indulges me in the heat of the moment but I don't think he knows I am serious.

He knows i have been with women while living in New Orleans but that was 10 yrs ago. I think he is worried b/c his ex-wife cheated on him 4 months in to marriage. (They were rly young, 20 and 21. Hes now 31.)

Any thoughts or suggestions greatly appreciated!

Some evening (not during the heat of sex) try discussing it with your husband. If he won't talk about it, you can suffer through with only your fantasies to relieve you or you can take a lover. I have a girl friend who manages to keep our affair secret, but her husband is seemingly always thinking about business and not her so it is easy.
 
Some evening (not during the heat of sex) try discussing it with your husband. If he won't talk about it, you can suffer through with only your fantasies to relieve you or you can take a lover. I have a girl friend who manages to keep our affair secret, but her husband is seemingly always thinking about business and not her so it is easy.

Discuss it with yr hubby. Be honest. I had an affair and it ruined my marriage. If you ever want to talk, I am here.
 
Just turned 35 mom to a beautiful 4 month old. I've told my husband several times that I really want to bring another woman in to our bed. He indulges me in the heat of the moment but I don't think he knows I am serious.

He knows i have been with women while living in New Orleans but that was 10 yrs ago. I think he is worried b/c his ex-wife cheated on him 4 months in to marriage. (They were rly young, 20 and 21. Hes now 31.)

Any thoughts or suggestions greatly appreciated!

I was wishing I could be with a woman for years. My husband knew of my desires, but didn't really take them "seriously". Then we started talking again a few months ago and I told him how serious I really was, and he was supportive and I had my first experience the beginning of June. We talked about having a 3some, but that hasn't happened....yet. We'll see what the future holds!

So talk to him outside of the bedroom and see if he still indulges you. If so, great!! If not, I know some good books you might like!!
 
If your marriage was good, why have an affair?

Because I had repressed my desire to be with a woman for years. One day I acted on them and it lead to an affair that I have never regretted. Unfortunately he couldn't understand my need for a woman's touch.
 
Because I had repressed my desire to be with a woman for years. One day I acted on them and it lead to an affair that I have never regretted. Unfortunately he couldn't understand my need for a woman's touch.

Thank the Goddess I have my Billy-boy.
 
Thank you for resurrecting this thread!

I'm a bi bbw submissive poly mom. (whew!) I have two teenagers, and I've survived so far. I'm married to my Master but he's more than willing to allow me to fulfill my 'bi side'. The trick is finding someone who will understand our situation. Not that it even has to be 'ours.' My guy says that while he'd love the chance to watch or even share, he's perfectly okay with allowing me to go off on my own.

I need to work on this. It's been way too long since I've been with another woman.
 
Thank you for resurrecting this thread!

I'm a bi bbw submissive poly mom. (whew!) I have two teenagers, and I've survived so far. I'm married to my Master but he's more than willing to allow me to fulfill my 'bi side'. The trick is finding someone who will understand our situation. Not that it even has to be 'ours.' My guy says that while he'd love the chance to watch or even share, he's perfectly okay with allowing me to go off on my own.

I need to work on this. It's been way too long since I've been with another woman.

See my PM.
 
I'm a bi-mom in southern Indiana--near KY. I'm 37 with two very young children. I finally "came out" to my hubby a few years ago. This year, I finally had my first lady friend. We've since parted ways (she lived pretty far away, etc.), so I've been looking around. Hubby is very supportive of me now--we had to have some serious talks. But he understands. We've talked of having a 3some, but haven't found anyone yet. I'd still love to have another lady friend to myself. Nice to meet you all.
 
I'm a bi-mom in southern Indiana--near KY. I'm 37 with two very young children. I finally "came out" to my hubby a few years ago. This year, I finally had my first lady friend. We've since parted ways (she lived pretty far away, etc.), so I've been looking around. Hubby is very supportive of me now--we had to have some serious talks. But he understands. We've talked of having a 3some, but haven't found anyone yet. I'd still love to have another lady friend to myself. Nice to meet you all.

Good luck in your search....C
 
HI,
I am new here and a BImom. I am looking to meet a nice lady to chat with. Why dont you drop me a line and lets chat and see what happens.
 
Hello. Just saying hello to all the ladies out there. I'm a 32 yr old seperated (soon to be divorced (thank goddness)) mother of 2. Send me a message if you'd like to get to know me better.
 
Hello to all the Moms..

I'm a bi-mom in southern Indiana--near KY. I'm 37 with two very young children. I finally "came out" to my hubby a few years ago. This year, I finally had my first lady friend. We've since parted ways (she lived pretty far away, etc.), so I've been looking around. Hubby is very supportive of me now--we had to have some serious talks. But he understands. We've talked of having a 3some, but haven't found anyone yet. I'd still love to have another lady friend to myself. Nice to meet you all.

HI,
I am new here and a BImom. I am looking to meet a nice lady to chat with. Why dont you drop me a line and lets chat and see what happens.

Hello. Just saying hello to all the ladies out there. I'm a 32 yr old seperated (soon to be divorced (thank goddness)) mother of 2. Send me a message if you'd like to get to know me better.

im not one, but id love to chat with some :p


WOW!! Lots of new faces (well, names for now!) on the thread!!!

Welcome to Barbi, Blu, Lisa, Curvy and Baby!!!!! I am a 42 yr old bi mom married for 17 years. My husband is very supportive of me exploring my newfound bi side (was curious for years!!). He too would like to be involved, but is happy to let me go do one on one!!!
 
Sigh. I only regret that I don't have time to read and enjoy this whole thread. I wish my wife would read it, though, so we could get beyond the pillow talk...
 
WOW!! Lots of new faces (well, names for now!) on the thread!!!

Welcome to Barbi, Blu, Lisa, Curvy and Baby!!!!! I am a 42 yr old bi mom married for 17 years. My husband is very supportive of me exploring my newfound bi side (was curious for years!!). He too would like to be involved, but is happy to let me go do one on one!!!

that is sweet :rose:
 
Great site

older bi mom. none of friends know....sometimes I feel like a crazy lady when I think about sex so much. can't wait to go out of town San Francisco and play there. Los Angeles here. do phone with girls I meet online, but mostly chicken out. did have a lover from my neighborhood, but turned out she was a teacher at my kid's school. She taught him. Too close for comfort. but hOTTT!
 
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