Bi hints?

[Uncut1969]

How do you know if men are interested or curious or what sign can I give that’s not to obvious!

 

[J1biboi]

How do you know if men are interested or curious or what sign can I give that’s not to obvious!

I you discover that sign, there's a whole lot of us that would like to know what it is!

 

[caymancts]

if we could just solve this simple equation......

 

[easyoff]

Sometimes alcohol works...lol

 

[Bisexguy70]

thats hard because the men that are bi are usually in the closet about it. Its hard to strike a conversation about sucking cock or wanting to get screwed. I suppose you could ask what kind of porn the guy watches. If he admits to tranny porn, or gay lesbians, You could just say wow, i saw this one porn actor and he had a-huge cock. Then the convo turns into talking about dicks. Then you go down that rabbit hole. Hopefully it turns into meeting him somewhere and you end up enjoying each other. I suppose thats a dream scenario. If you ask me ill come right out and admit im bi.

 

[ericrodman101]

A conversation about porn is a good idea. Otherwise you have to hang out in places where guys look for other guys. Finding a guy who‘s interested in other guys on the train or in an elevator or waiting in line for groceries only happens once in a lifetime or every day in porn. Saunas, certain swimming pool change rooms, gay beaches and beats, etc. You will spend a lot of time looking in the wrong places when you can pluck up the courage to look in the right places.

 

[quix581]

When I was younger, I used to find men at the urinal in public toilets. It was so easy! Once I learnt the look that interested guys gave me, I could pick them up on the street or in the park. Now that I’m older, it’s harder and I’m more wary too. I wouldn’t do the crazy things that I did when I was younger
I have always wondered about that thing that guys do with their trouser button and whether that’s a subtle signal

 

[easyoff]

Single men walking the local mall early in the morning is a good place to look

 

[quix581]

Thanks for the tip. I have wondered if men walking the river bank at night might also be good but it feels risky

 

[Wageslave]

Or just go to a sauna

 

[bobbyinhouston]

I like going to the gym but I try to be careful. I wish that there was a way to meet others.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

I like going to the gym but I try to be careful. I wish that there was a way to meet others.

Gay clothing optional resorts can be a place to meet guys who might be responsive to your needs and desires. It provides an opportunity to get to know a guy and share interests before engaging in any activity.

 

[quix581]

I would love to know where these resorts are

 

[starfish71]

It seems that going to a place (club, resort, bar, etc) that caters to the community is a little more than a “hint”. That is a more overt sign… the assumption would be that if you are there you are open to engaging at some level…

When I was in college, bandannas where though to be a signal of sort… but could also go sideways quickly, as not all who wore a bandanna were in fact signaling…

I have no “gaydar” so who knows how many glances that stayed longer than others, or a casual adjustment of the package I may have missed…

 

[quix581]

I wonder if smiling at people who hold a passing glance for a beat or two longer than is comfortable/normal. Then if there’s a misunderstanding, you can say that you thought you knew them from somewhere

 

[BlueEyes1969]

I would love to know where these resorts are

Southern CA Palm Springs, Cathedral City and San Diego.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

It seems that going to a place (club, resort, bar, etc) that caters to the community is a little more than a “hint”. That is a more overt sign… the assumption would be that if you are there you are open to engaging at some level…

When I was in college, bandannas where though to be a signal of sort… but could also go sideways quickly, as not all who wore a bandanna were in fact signaling…

I have no “gaydar” so who knows how many glances that stayed longer than others, or a casual adjustment of the package I may have missed…

Most of these resorts respect those who are "curious" or "searching". Seeing what's available can offer options to explore. They are not as overt as ABS or Gloryhole spots.

 

[fungent1103]

Just have a sense of humor, and flirt a little. We shouldn't really have to do to much. I have been thinking about this
and what I'm thinking is the main thing is to remember to do it.
Just be cool and start any conversation with a guy that you find attractive and see where it goes.

I need to find a younger guy, to have fun with. A couple guys at the gym are starting to catch my eye.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Just have a sense of humor, and flirt a little. We shouldn't really have to do to much. I have been thinking about this
and what I'm thinking is the main thing is to remember to do it.
Just be cool and start any conversation with a guy that you find attractive and see where it goes.

I need to find a younger guy, to have fun with. A couple guys at the gym are starting to catch my eye.

Exactly! I have met some of the best buddies that way