bi fantasizing about older
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NymzanSusauren
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Okay...
I don't know about the whole father/uncle thing, but I like a man about 7 to 13 years my senior. Immaturity and anal don't get along very well...
I don't know about the whole father/uncle thing, but I like a man about 7 to 13 years my senior. Immaturity and anal don't get along very well...
When I was young, I prefered older lovers, ones who could teach me something and could take me to new pleasurable heights. Now that I am older, I prefer lovers in the same age group as I did during my youth. We have more in common and I've discovered, there are still many things to be learned; therefore, my fantasies run along the same route.
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Oh! crap here I am agreeing with Bill 3250 again, wish I could get to a thread before him then maybe he could agree with me. I also like men or women in my age group the best.
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Agree with all
I have not yet been able to go forward with my bi fantasies and make them happen as of yet but I agree with all of you. I would much rather be with someone in my age range than some one younger. That goes for male and females. I just think that I would be much more comfortable with them.
I have not yet been able to go forward with my bi fantasies and make them happen as of yet but I agree with all of you. I would much rather be with someone in my age range than some one younger. That goes for male and females. I just think that I would be much more comfortable with them.
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My comments are somewhat similar to a few other posts...
I didn't deliberately go for older guys when I was younger, but it just seemed the common thing for me. For one thing, I couldn't relate to lots of guys my own age. Many were self absorbed, or were into things that I found immature: cars, stereo's, partying, getting drunk and/or doing drugs, and of course only their own orgasms.
Older guys for me was usually 30+. By that time guys at least start to find things that interest them beyond instant gratification. Then in all fairness they also seem to take more of an interest in others. Now maybe some of that is just that they have mastered the art of seduction and are making a lot of this "really like you", "find you very interesting".... stuff up. I don't know for sure. On the flip side with some younger guys they think that just because they have a hard cock and haven't gotten out of shape yet that the world wants them desperately. (Again, these are not absolutes, there are always examples of very generous younger men and selfish older men.)
I really never cared for the older guys who are obsessed with youth. If they are open to it, that is fine. However, the obsessed ones are almost to the point of obnoxious. You younger guys probably still refer to them as trolls. I saw it first hand when I was young, and I observe it now that I'm older. I think they are chasing their youth that they miss. I miss it too, but I have to be a realist. It also chokes me up when some of these old guy says they still have the stamina of their youth. (Such a person must have had a low sex drive in their youth.) When I was 17, I got off 17 times in 24 hours -- after reading my first gay softbound porn story book. There is no way in hell at 31 years later I could do that same thing -- even if I used Viagra.
I don't think that older men are sexually better lovers. It didn't take me that long to become a good lover in my youth. The bottom line is to pay attention to your partner's whether your 21 or 90. Just because a partner is another dude doesn't mean he reacts or responds to things just the same as you do. That is why you have to pay VERY CLOSE attention.
I do think that physically it also helped that I was a top where my older partners took the bottom role. No matter what age you are there is a limit to how many times you can top someone in a day. (I'm not bringing up Viagra.) Where as a bottom does not have that limit -- other than the fact that you shouldn't do it if you are getting the least bit sore. (A guy in the bottom role should never go to the point that they are hurting or any of that stuff because you can really hurt yourself.) So being young and able to top at any time requested meant that it was a good compatibility for any older man in the bottom role who had a high desire for sex. When you have an older guy that is a top and a younger guy who is a bottom, the younger guy is more likely to feel unfulfilled IF he has a very high sex drive. I think that is one of the reasons that some younger guys have a hard time settling down. It isn't just the desire for variety, but because they cannot find someone to keep up with their hormonal drives.
In all fairness, the bottom line for why I enjoyed these older guys was just the level of affection that I got from these older guys. They really seemed to care for "ME". Even at my age now, I look back and I hope it was genuine interest. However, if it wasn't then at least I can say I had some great sex.
If I wasn't in a great relationship now (my partner is exactly only 5 months older) and thus single again, I would most likely go sexually/romantically for guys my age or older. At my age, I'd probably not get the same level of affirmation that I got from my older partners when I was young, but by my age you also better have your own self-worth.
I really did care for young guys even when I was young, but it was from a "protective" older brother or father standpoint -- not sexual. I don't think I would hang around a younger guy one-on-one who is bi or gay. I wouldn't want him to think I had a sexual interest. There are times you want to do something good that doesn't involve sex or money or power. That is the nature of the relationship of a parent to his/her kids or a pet owner to his/her animals. I think too many young guys see older guys as wanting to use them -- and with good reason as there are way too many trolls that only are thinking about getting their rocks off with a youthful body. It is kind of sad because I think as we get older we like to think we have non-sexual things to pass on to future generations so that our lives had more meaning than we were just born on day X and died on day Y. The kind of life stuff that parents pass onto kids, but that people who don't have kids (such as many gay people) wish they could pass on to someone.
I didn't deliberately go for older guys when I was younger, but it just seemed the common thing for me. For one thing, I couldn't relate to lots of guys my own age. Many were self absorbed, or were into things that I found immature: cars, stereo's, partying, getting drunk and/or doing drugs, and of course only their own orgasms.
Older guys for me was usually 30+. By that time guys at least start to find things that interest them beyond instant gratification. Then in all fairness they also seem to take more of an interest in others. Now maybe some of that is just that they have mastered the art of seduction and are making a lot of this "really like you", "find you very interesting".... stuff up. I don't know for sure. On the flip side with some younger guys they think that just because they have a hard cock and haven't gotten out of shape yet that the world wants them desperately. (Again, these are not absolutes, there are always examples of very generous younger men and selfish older men.)
I really never cared for the older guys who are obsessed with youth. If they are open to it, that is fine. However, the obsessed ones are almost to the point of obnoxious. You younger guys probably still refer to them as trolls. I saw it first hand when I was young, and I observe it now that I'm older. I think they are chasing their youth that they miss. I miss it too, but I have to be a realist. It also chokes me up when some of these old guy says they still have the stamina of their youth. (Such a person must have had a low sex drive in their youth.) When I was 17, I got off 17 times in 24 hours -- after reading my first gay softbound porn story book. There is no way in hell at 31 years later I could do that same thing -- even if I used Viagra.
I don't think that older men are sexually better lovers. It didn't take me that long to become a good lover in my youth. The bottom line is to pay attention to your partner's whether your 21 or 90. Just because a partner is another dude doesn't mean he reacts or responds to things just the same as you do. That is why you have to pay VERY CLOSE attention.
I do think that physically it also helped that I was a top where my older partners took the bottom role. No matter what age you are there is a limit to how many times you can top someone in a day. (I'm not bringing up Viagra.) Where as a bottom does not have that limit -- other than the fact that you shouldn't do it if you are getting the least bit sore. (A guy in the bottom role should never go to the point that they are hurting or any of that stuff because you can really hurt yourself.) So being young and able to top at any time requested meant that it was a good compatibility for any older man in the bottom role who had a high desire for sex. When you have an older guy that is a top and a younger guy who is a bottom, the younger guy is more likely to feel unfulfilled IF he has a very high sex drive. I think that is one of the reasons that some younger guys have a hard time settling down. It isn't just the desire for variety, but because they cannot find someone to keep up with their hormonal drives.
In all fairness, the bottom line for why I enjoyed these older guys was just the level of affection that I got from these older guys. They really seemed to care for "ME". Even at my age now, I look back and I hope it was genuine interest. However, if it wasn't then at least I can say I had some great sex.
If I wasn't in a great relationship now (my partner is exactly only 5 months older) and thus single again, I would most likely go sexually/romantically for guys my age or older. At my age, I'd probably not get the same level of affirmation that I got from my older partners when I was young, but by my age you also better have your own self-worth.
I really did care for young guys even when I was young, but it was from a "protective" older brother or father standpoint -- not sexual. I don't think I would hang around a younger guy one-on-one who is bi or gay. I wouldn't want him to think I had a sexual interest. There are times you want to do something good that doesn't involve sex or money or power. That is the nature of the relationship of a parent to his/her kids or a pet owner to his/her animals. I think too many young guys see older guys as wanting to use them -- and with good reason as there are way too many trolls that only are thinking about getting their rocks off with a youthful body. It is kind of sad because I think as we get older we like to think we have non-sexual things to pass on to future generations so that our lives had more meaning than we were just born on day X and died on day Y. The kind of life stuff that parents pass onto kids, but that people who don't have kids (such as many gay people) wish they could pass on to someone.
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Personally I would go for younger maybe 25-39 range
NightOfPassion2
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I guess I'm almost one of the older guys...I like a little younger...not too young (early 30's)...late 20s is hot also....but not much older...unless in good shape...
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I like the daddy thing too. Nice, big, burly, hairy daddy bear.
