Bi-curious?

Thor69

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I spent 9 months trying to get out and the rest of my life trying to get in... Now, the switch has been turn off and I am left "hanging." My first m/m experience was when I was a young teenage, with my cousin...my hormones were 300% raging and it was very, very exciting. I have realized that being BI opens another door of opportunities...and for you?????
 
Could not agree more!! I put up a post a few weeks ago looking for another bi-curious guy here in Atlanta. Had a couple of good replies, met one guy and we are definitely gonna hook up, soon. Looking forward to it. I had one experience a long time ago, was great. Been married for a while and decided to explore that side of me now. I agree that it opens up a lot of possibilities, all pleasurable for two guys who are looking for the same thing. Your post didn't say if you were looking or just seeing if others were. To everyone out there, go for the pleasure, yours and your partners! :D
 
absolutely, I put up many posts for a guy in Sacramento, but no such luck. Congrats to the poster above me though for at least getting a response.
 
Hey y'all

Great to see the responses to this Thread...am I looking, you bet...seems, even at the age of 53, I am constently horny...just writing this, "junior" is wide-awake. I recently placed a local ad and I received several responses...met one guy in Wilmington twice...second time just last night....really great guy, professional, married and bi-curious...seems he likes this side of the street although he hasn't yet "tasted" the flavor. I am not one who favors chat rooms...I want the real thing...love to hear about the first times...mine was with my cousin, when I was a young teenager...just like now...it was always "bonerville." Fuck, it's 3:30 a.m. and I have a raging hard-on...
 
I am not bi curious but I respect anyone who is because if they feel something for someone who is of the same gender then i beleive they should act on it. true love only comes once.
 
well its not that I feel emotional ties to guys, because I don't. Frienship, sure, but emotional relationship ties? no. I just don't feel that way about guys. This may sound snobbish or put me in a bad light, but this is my feelings on this matter and my feelings alone and you can't criticize me for them: I think guys are good enough to fuck, but not to have a relationship with. Women on the other hand, I want the full experience with them, not just the sex, I want a emotional, fulfilling relationship with a women before sex even comes into the equation. I know it doesn't make sense to many people, but this is what I believe and how I feel about sex with either male or females. I can probably do a male no problem without any regrets, but females.......I'd have to know them, I'd want to be a part of their life and become a mate or whatever before taking them to bed. Believe it or not, sex with the opposite sex is more special to me than sex with the same sex. Just my weird way of thinking, I guess.
 
Zidane said:
well its not that I feel emotional ties to guys, because I don't. Frienship, sure, but emotional relationship ties? no. I just don't feel that way about guys. This may sound snobbish or put me in a bad light, but this is my feelings on this matter and my feelings alone and you can't criticize me for them: I think guys are good enough to fuck, but not to have a relationship with. Women on the other hand, I want the full experience with them, not just the sex, I want a emotional, fulfilling relationship with a women before sex even comes into the equation. I know it doesn't make sense to many people, but this is what I believe and how I feel about sex with either male or females. I can probably do a male no problem without any regrets, but females.......I'd have to know them, I'd want to be a part of their life and become a mate or whatever before taking them to bed. Believe it or not, sex with the opposite sex is more special to me than sex with the same sex. Just my weird way of thinking, I guess.

You are incredibly strange but you do keep me amused - keep it up, young man!;)
 
Zidane - definitely no insult - maybe "weird compliment" describes it well.
 
It's "up"

...and looking...an open mind learns more..***** is short...get smart fast!
 
BiCurious Too

Zidane, I think you have it right, at least as far as I am concerned. It's too bad you are all the way in Sacramento and I'm on the East Coast - I've been reading your posts and think we have a fair deal in common.

Thor, as for you - that must've been a hell of an experience (and with your cousin!). Thanks for starting the thread.
 
I've never posted on the boards before but do check them out from time to time and felt a need to reply to this thread. I too am married and been haveing Bi curious thoughts...not for a relationship, but for the sexual aspect of it.I have had a couple of experiences with male friends,(when i was young growing up) but have'nt had any in my adult life.If any of you guys want to talk about it let me know,maybe we can email or PM.
Thought i would throw my 2 cents in....


~Silencer~
 
East Coast...Seems like London today

Hi Thor, too far down to Raleigh - maybe a 15 hour schlepp. Silencer, how about registering?? Then we can learn a little more about you.

Still nursing my fantasies and waiting for the right opportunity. I think you're right, Thor - you have to go out and get it. Chat rooms are not everything...

Pissing rain all day up here.
 
well, I'd rather be safe than sorry, and simply stay back and check out people in chat rooms. I'd rather not take a chance with someone without getting to know them extensively online (maybe 4-5 weeks at least?), because I once had a friend who was bi curious long before I ever was. And he was so eager to be fucked by a guy he pretty much went out with the first guy he came across in our area. I will spare the details, but it was basically a 'gay hater' who had lured him in and he was killed. The cops followed some leads but it didn't lead anywhere and the guy is still out there. So that makes me more than cautious about all of this now that I'm bicurious like my friend. If I learn one thing from my friend's life, its to be careful and never rush into things.
 
:D im bi and ive never loked back on life without a smile i had my first bi way [as i like to call it] back when i was 16,some 25 years ago and im still doing it my bi way .nice to be here. :D
 
Life can be rough

Zidane, sorry about your friend.

There are two sides to everything and an experience spun one way can be great, the opposite can be bad. It depends upon the situation and time.

Don't let what happened to your friend slow you down too much (and I, as well, should not let my lack of experience slow down my realization of my fantasies).

I am pn2357, but with a new username - didn't like the first one.
 
BI-CURIOUS HERE

I am also very bi-curious. I'm 38 and married. I have just lately hinted to my wife some of my interests in exploreing oral sex on a guy. She didn't seem turned off by the idea, but did think that I wouldn't do it if I had the chance.
I brought the subject up by saying that a threesome with another guy could open alot of new doors to us when it comes to sex. We already have a great sex and do explore with the use of toys. I do not have any interest in being romantic with another man, but have always been turned on with seeing a hard stiff cock and wondering how it would feel in my mouth.
I know we all have our feelings on a persons sexual preferance, yet as a person who loves sex and all the wonderfull feelings it has to offer each person, I think if a person is excited by something, they should at least give it a try once to know if the fantasy was as good as the real thing.
As for me, I am going to keep talking with my wife and see if we can find a guy we would both like to share and explore a BI threesome with.
 
Bi

I had my first time when i was 13 and very horny my best friend and i were slepping in my trailer on a hot summer knight we were shareing te back bed and my brother and his broher were in the other beds but back to me i felt his hand rub my butt and he reached around and started to stroke my dck and it got hard quick so i turned over and stroked his dick and we moved close together so are dickscould touch we both shot cum all over each other we rolled over and fell asleep for 5 mins. i rolled over and started sliding my dick inbetween his but cheeks and legs and moved back and forth until i shot my cum all over his balls and butt cheeks and he did the same we have been doing this for 30 yrs. he is married and i'm not. but i do love my women just as much.
 
Hi me again i have only givin a hand job to one other man but i'm not going out looking for another man but if on comes along and things clicked i would do it with another nothing is wrong with it men and men relations are different than men and women what ever rocks your world
 
It's great to see that there are other men that are curious too...thought it was just me latley :confused:
Not really sure if i'm just curious or if i would actually go through with it...i guess if the right person came along i would concider it.


PS: Notice i did register...:p




~silencer~
 
Geeez, reading these posts of 'first times' has relly been exciting as I have looked back in my life to consider my Bi encounters. I am a 58, y/o MBiWM, with a great marriage(she does not Know and would NOT approve) that still seeks out the occasional cock to suck. I have done the anal thing, in fact my first time was at a sleep over with my best friend, sharing the same bed and he boneholed me, but I have found that I am a cum eater. I perfer 6" and smaller cocks that I can bring off in 20 minutes or less. While I do like the feel of a cock in my mouth, I want the prize. No M2M kissing and such, just let's get it own, recip not a request.
I have found that chat lines have offerred me a variety of contacts, but I have rules: No outside sex, public bathrooms, automobiles...only their place or their office. I think this offers the best security I can find against meanness and stings. I look for 45 y/o and over and must meet in a public place before sex. This offers me additional security. I learn a lot in that meeting and decide if it seems right for ME.
So far, so good. I figure I have connected with more than 50 guys since my first time, no stings, no shake downs for money, no phone calls with 'bad' messages, no underage, no blackmail and no disease.
Be careful and enjoy is my sugestion. If two adult folks consent, then have it . Cheers, kinsey2
 
I believe there are more married men who would enjoy the experience of male sex than most of us realize. It is great to see so many positive postings to this thread in such a short period of time. Although I have yet to experience the joy of male sex, I have longed for the opportunity for many years. I am sure we all enjoy hearing from others with similar feelings so don't be affraid to post your thoughts. Perhaps we can find a way to set up a better forum to communicate.
 
well least to say I'm interested in having male sex at least once. As I said in a earlier thread, I'd love to have sex with a guy, but for a female, the relationship has got to be a part of it too. (read the other post for the full details on that philosophy) o_O
 
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