OK, Listen up!!! I am a newbie to this place and I get that to a lot of the readers this place is a fantasy, where one can spend 2 hours or so jerking off to the desires and pictures that are located all over these boards.
That said....there are many on these boards who are seriously hoping to find out that they are not alone and are either looking for someone to help them discover who they are and sort it all out. Those people have experiences that possibly have awakened other feelings within them and confusion reigns supreme. Therefore...if you ask me about who I am, I'm going to tell you. If I explain to you that because of one experience, it's taught me about what I like and what I don't and I base my questions to you on those experiences....don't freak out and say "I'm too much" for you, or you're out of my league...WHAT LEAGUE. I don't have a league....I'm trying to find out who I am for Gosh sakes.
If I say I'm a woman, looking for a woman in my area....DO NOT PM ME and say you are a guy, available if I want to keep my options open.
I know this is a game to a lot of people. I get that. But to some of us, it's very real, especially for those that have the word "curious" in their tag line. THINK BEFORE YOU RESPOND. Because seriously....we already think we are effed up (at least I do).
Finally....if you live in one continent, and I live in another...you can pretty much take it for granted that we are never going to meet up, so chill out. People can get hurt when you jump to conclusions.
Thank you. Still extremely hurt by today's events...but I'll get over it. Right now I am taking myself too seriously, but as a cancer survivor...I have discovered the life is to short to not figure out who you are, what you want and then go get it.
That said....there are many on these boards who are seriously hoping to find out that they are not alone and are either looking for someone to help them discover who they are and sort it all out. Those people have experiences that possibly have awakened other feelings within them and confusion reigns supreme. Therefore...if you ask me about who I am, I'm going to tell you. If I explain to you that because of one experience, it's taught me about what I like and what I don't and I base my questions to you on those experiences....don't freak out and say "I'm too much" for you, or you're out of my league...WHAT LEAGUE. I don't have a league....I'm trying to find out who I am for Gosh sakes.
If I say I'm a woman, looking for a woman in my area....DO NOT PM ME and say you are a guy, available if I want to keep my options open.
I know this is a game to a lot of people. I get that. But to some of us, it's very real, especially for those that have the word "curious" in their tag line. THINK BEFORE YOU RESPOND. Because seriously....we already think we are effed up (at least I do).
Finally....if you live in one continent, and I live in another...you can pretty much take it for granted that we are never going to meet up, so chill out. People can get hurt when you jump to conclusions.
Thank you. Still extremely hurt by today's events...but I'll get over it. Right now I am taking myself too seriously, but as a cancer survivor...I have discovered the life is to short to not figure out who you are, what you want and then go get it.