Bi-curious what do I do

[Sexydama4U]

My husband is curious about being anal penetrated. Whatwill feel better for himand me a strap on or a toy.

 

[Safe_Bet]

My husband is curious about being anal penetrated. Whatwill feel better for himand me a strap on or a toy.

Honey, your husband wanting you to stick something in his ass isn't bi-curious. That's a kink or a fetish.

Bi-curious would be him wanting a MAN to stick something in his ass (most probably his cock). Being bi means he wants to have sex with you and/or a man, not you and/or a toy.

Good luck with that, BTW. You might want to try the Fetish & Sexuality Forum.

 

[mc44k]

I think Safe Bet is correct. If your husband is bi curious he is wanting a cock, not just something inserted in his ass. Did he say "bi curious" or was that something you thought of when he said he wanted to do anal? That is just my opinion.

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Unlike the first 2 posts I understand your husband may be Bi Curious, does not want to go outside of the marriage and this is a reasonable substitute. Now in my opinion a strap on is better due to 2 factors.
1. Speed, with a strap on the in and out motion is normal. With a hand held toy you can get carried away, go to fast without enough lubrication and it can get uncomfortable.
2. There is more of a sense of being fucked by another person then just "I have a dildo in my ass. "

I suggest the Share. No reason both of you cannot get off enjoying the fantasy.

 

[bidaddy]

My husband is curious about being anal penetrated. Whatwill feel better for himand me a strap on or a toy.

I would start with a toy and get him used to it first but you do want to use the strapon once he is use to it , because it will give him more of a guy fucking him feeling . I also thought it was hot to see a women fucking me hard in the ass and watching her tits bounceing around as well. What ever the choice just have fun. wish i could be there to help..mmm

 

[Stella_Omega]

Let your husband know that thousands and thousands of men like anal stimulation and are still prefectly, happily straight. Wanting to feel something up the butt is not what makes a man bisexual. Wanting to be close with and have sex with another man is bisexuality.

That said, get yourself a couple of toys. I suggest the aneros (or a cheaper knockoff,) for starters. You might like it yourself! Also, get something like the Share, or another one of the more modern double-pleasure dildos. And get a harness, too. You can play with it in yourself, play with it in him, play with it in both of you. When you first do him, I suggest holding it in your hand, watching what's happening, getting him and you used to these new games, before you strap it into a harness. The harness really makes a difference, for comfort and control, even though you supposedly don't need it...

 

[klippert]

Im guessing you have already started with fingers. either way...start with a toy and good lube....and KY isn't good lube

 

[Sexydama4U]

Thanks for all of the advice..we went shopping to an adult store we
bought a toy..he liked it and said he was "curious" to try a real cock..
We ll work on getting him use to it first before we try it with another guy.

 

[brw02]

If your man wants to feel a cock in his ass, you should be the one driving the cock. If the woman he loves is the one pounding his ass, he doesn't need a man.

 

[zhutt]

Astroglide is a pretty good lube. The important thing is you both have fun, don't worry about how to "classify" it.

 

[lynn-23]

Thanks for all of the advice..we went shopping to an adult store we
bought a toy..he liked it and said he was "curious" to try a real cock..
We ll work on getting him use to it first before we try it with another guy.

Interesting. How do you feel about this interest of his?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Interesting. How do you feel about this interest of his?

This thread is seven months old, honey.

 

[lynn-23]

This thread is seven months old, honey.

I realize that. But there is no harm in seeing if she was still around. It was an interesting situation.

 

[photobuff56]

If your man wants to feel a cock in his ass, you should be the one driving the cock. If the woman he loves is the one pounding his ass, he doesn't need a man.

Ya but its not a real one