Bi-Curious dropouts?

[jbandersnatch]

There are plenty of stories and posts about how marvelous first bi bj experiences are, and how life patterns have changed as a result. But are there those first bi experiences that have affirmed the the 'doer' is not bi, or at least will never do it again? What about the down side of bi experimentation? Those folks probably don't read these posts, tho'. Any thoughts?

 

[karuna]

It's an interesting question. I have definately had disappointing experiences with men.

Notably, I have had to concede that men are guilty of much of what straight women accuse them: carelessness about appearance, crudeness, inability to communicate, poor ethics when it comes to sex. Most of the limits on my experiences with men have been due to men being coarse, clueless cads who think that when the pants come off, the rules of civilization no longer apply.

I mostly stick to girls just because they're civilized and friendly. Even in intenet chatrooms, they are more likely to write whole words, and even sentences. I don't want to have a conversation, much less a sexual experience, with anyone who thinks "a/s/l?" is an introduction.

Honestly, I'd like to suck more cock, but the problem is that cocks have guys attached to them. And "guys" tend to be cretins who don't change their socks, who fart while you're jacking them off, and who can't carry on a conversation and have a hard-on at the same time.

If I wasn't such an optimistic pervert, I'd give up completely.

karuna

 

[John Doe]

It's an interesting question. I have definately had disappointing experiences with men.

Notably, I have had to concede that men are guilty of much of what straight women accuse them: carelessness about appearance, crudeness, inability to communicate, poor ethics when it comes to sex. Most of the limits on my experiences with men have been due to men being coarse, clueless cads who think that when the pants come off, the rules of civilization no longer apply.

I mostly stick to girls just because they're civilized and friendly. Even in intenet chatrooms, they are more likely to write whole words, and even sentences. I don't want to have a conversation, much less a sexual experience, with anyone who thinks "a/s/l?" is an introduction.

Honestly, I'd like to suck more cock, but the problem is that cocks have guys attached to them. And "guys" tend to be cretins who don't change their socks, who fart while you're jacking them off, and who can't carry on a conversation and have a hard-on at the same time.

If I wasn't such an optimistic pervert, I'd give up completely.

karuna

Those are boys, not men.

 

[apexpark]

Those are boys, not men.

i guess that means im a boy.

 

[thickspear]

most of my experiences have been positive..and the ones who weren't very nice were easy to forget...

 

[John Doe]

i guess that means im a boy.

Nah, it just means you're a helluva catch.

 

[twiggy_the_spider]

disapointing bi experience..? she went back to her abusive wanker of a boyfriend. i hate that.

 

[Harrowborg]

There are plenty of stories and posts about how marvelous first bi bj experiences are, and how life patterns have changed as a result. But are there those first bi experiences that have affirmed the the 'doer' is not bi, or at least will never do it again? What about the down side of bi experimentation? Those folks probably don't read these posts, tho'. Any thoughts?

I've had bad experience with both men and women, um, there definetly was a point when I first kissed a guy, 'experimenting' with my bi side I was like, OMG, I'm kissing a guy, but, at the time I didn't think I'm never doing this again. If you like the person that much that you feel comfortable to try things with, it doesn't really matter what genitals are between their legs.

 

[apexpark]

Re: Re: Bi-Curious dropouts?

I've had bad experience with both men and women, um, there definetly was a point when I first kissed a guy, 'experimenting' with my bi side I was like, OMG, I'm kissing a guy, but, at the time I didn't think I'm never doing this again. If you like the person that much that you feel comfortable to try things with, it doesn't really matter what genitals are between their legs.

i had the whole "OMG i'm kissing a guy! this is so...sinful!" feeling as well. than again i was 13 and naive.

 

[Harrowborg]

I was 17 at the time but still very naive lol.

 

[Sycamore]

Never been with a guy but bloody curious.

'She' would have to be dressed in 'girlie' gear though.

An erect cock in little panties......Lovely.

 

[kjken]

I dont really get into the kissing the guy thing. Maybe thats the one thing that didnt turn me off of the the whole "bi" thing. I have always wanted to explore my bi side and found out I like it (in moderation).