bf might be a cd

[alexandra4u69]

have any ladies here had a problem with a bf or hubby wearing womens undies. i know my bf has been in my drawer when Im gone and found some sperm on a few and then I found a pic on the digital camera of his of some guy jerkin himself (no face ) and wearing a thong (possably mine ). he is such a good lover and very unselfish in bed (might be a fem side t him ) actually I was quite aroused when I had seen the pic . any ideas?

 

[silverwhisper]

i'm not sure what you're asking, to be honest.

are you wondering whether this is a problem? cuz if that's the question, i say no.

are you irked that he's taking your undies and not sharing the experience w/ you? b/c there, i think you've got a point. it could be he doesn't know how you'd react to it and is hiding it from you.

if it's your camera then and he left 'em there (instead of downloading them to the computer and removing them from the camera), maybe that's his way of trying to find out what you think of it.

what do you think it's about?

ed

 

[alexandra4u69]

I really dont know what Im askin or feeling. are there a lot of guys out there that enjoy wearing ladies underwear or is it a freakish one in a million thing . have you ever tried it ? ever thought about it ? If you have a wife or gf , would you tell her or would you like to ? Im going to buy him a few pairs and see how he reacts .maybe make him wear them out under his jeans and then fuck his brains out in the car before we get home

 

[silverwhisper]

i think it's probably more common than a lot of guys are willing to admit, frankly.

i've done it, yeah. it doesn't do much for the women i've been with, but as they say, different strokes and all that.

ed

 

[four]

Communication is really all i can advise you. Talk to him, dont put him on the defensive. Just communicate how you feel and get his side of how he feels and whatnot. If its his fetish and you get turned on by it, then all is well. Its better than keeping secrets.

 

[3113]

I really dont know what Im askin or feeling. are there a lot of guys out there that enjoy wearing ladies underwear or is it a freakish one in a million thing . have you ever tried it ? ever thought about it ? If you have a wife or gf , would you tell her or would you like to ? Im going to buy him a few pairs and see how he reacts .maybe make him wear them out under his jeans and then fuck his brains out in the car before we get home

It's surprisingly common, but even if it wasn't, would it matter? There's nothing necessarily "femme" about it. CD's can be very macho in every other respect. And wanting to wear the panties doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to wear anything else, though he may.

It may not be a CD thing so much as a panty thing. Buying him panties may not do the job so much as giving him a pair of YOUR panties.

In short, as said, you need to communicate with him. Find out exactly what it is he's into. Tell him what you found and how hot it made you feel, what ideas it gave you; add in what you've told us, how wonderful you think he is as a lover. If he feels he can trust you, that you're not going to freak out on him, he'll be open with you and you two can take this to a whole new level.

And kudos to you that you're not only cool with it--but turned on. I think he's going to feel that he's found the love of his life. Please let us know what he says--if that's all right with him, of course. This is between the two of you, afterall.

 

[TBKahuna123]

I really dont know what Im askin or feeling. are there a lot of guys out there that enjoy wearing ladies underwear or is it a freakish one in a million thing . have you ever tried it ? ever thought about it ? If you have a wife or gf , would you tell her or would you like to ?

I do think it's rather common. While I haven't done it nor have any desire to do so, I think as far as kink's go this is pretty tame. It also sounds to me like this isn't a problem for you, but rather that you find it to be quite a turn on. If so, I think you may make his day!

I would just approach him in a gentle and loving way and bring it up. It will be akward at first, but just be sure he knows that you don't care, then ease into the fact that you find it arousing. He probably wants to tell you, but is scared to. I know if I had a fetish liek this, I would want to tell my SO, but I'd also be scared to if I didn't know how she'd react.

Im going to buy him a few pairs and see how he reacts .maybe make him wear them out under his jeans and then fuck his brains out in the car before we get home

Well I don't know about him but that kinda attitude would make me throw a thong on for ya, and I don't even like it!

Here's a thought though. You mentioned that you have found semen on your panties. Maybe it's not wearing women's panties in general, but yours specifically that gets him off. Food for thought...

 

[hogjack]

Shopping for clothes together will become even more of an adventure. Good for you!

 

[SubNebGuy]

I'm wearing panties right now...black lacy boyshorts, per my wife's command.

However, I'm the one who likes it. Its a lot more common than you think, and I wouldn't consider wearing panties exactly 'cross-dressing'. I'd call it a panty fetish.

I don't wear bras, garters, stockings, skirts, blouses, wigs or make-up...none of that interests me.

Womens panties are just damn sexy...in fact I find photos of women in their panties just as arousing as shots of un-clothed vaginal penetration.

Some guys wanna sniff panties, some wanna jerk off with em, some jerk off wearing em, some (like me) wear em when their wife is gonna punish them, prior to strapping one on and giving it to me good.

But the real question, that was already mentioned...is "if he is...does it matter?" even if he is a CD, that doesn't make him gay, or even bi. Its just a kink/fetish.
His adventure for something beyond vanilla sex is likely why he's already a good lover.

 

[BlueSugar]

I'd say he was definetly trying to see how you would react, if it was such a secret he would keep it that way.

If you're fine with it, snatch a pair of men's tighty whities and stuff a sock in it and let the real games begin.

less out there then that?
try talking with him about the picture, he is probably a nervous wreck since you haven't said anything yet.

 

[human_male]

If it's your bf it's not a big deal, except he's ruining your undies. But are you sure it's him? What if it's some other guy that sneaks into your room, jacks off in your undies and takes a picture of himself in them? How closely have you examined that photo, hmmmm?

Is there a slightly iffy cousin or uncle in the household?

 

[TBKahuna123]

If it's your bf it's not a big deal, except he's ruining your undies. But are you sure it's him? What if it's some other guy that sneaks into your room, jacks off in your undies and takes a picture of himself in them? How closely have you examined that photo, hmmmm?

Is there a slightly iffy cousin or uncle in the household?

NIce, HM. Way to complicate things!!!

 

[Guest]

 

[bisexplicit]

Um, anyone else think, the title meant that her boyfriend might be a compact disc?

 

[Guest]

 

[silverwhisper]

if paris hilton had a recording contract, she'd do it.

ed

 

[trishcd]

The answer is......................

have any ladies here had a problem with a bf or hubby wearing womens undies. i know my bf has been in my drawer when Im gone and found some sperm on a few and then I found a pic on the digital camera of his of some guy jerkin himself (no face ) and wearing a thong (possably mine ). he is such a good lover and very unselfish in bed (might be a fem side t him ) actually I was quite aroused when I had seen the pic . any ideas?

i think it's probably more common than a lot of guys are willing to admit, frankly.

i've done it, yeah. it doesn't do much for the women i've been with, but as they say, different strokes and all that.

ed

I would like to invite you to check out my thread....the name say's it all. You would be suprised at the number of women who are turned on by it. Hey it's no big deal...we didn't raise a fuss when women ditched their dresses for pants. Ever see June Cleaver in Blue Jeans? Or Harriet from Ozzie and Harriet.....not to mention all the women on I love lucy always wore dresses......so whats the big deal if a guy wants to wear something soft and silky. For Chripe's Sake's ...Chill out....alexandra4u69 and give your guy some breathing room....*****'s too short.

 

[mark7087]

i do

I wear womens underware quite often. My fiance' knows all about it, and when she is at the store, often buys some for me. I dont think it does much for her, but she knows it gets me off. Sometimes she will even grab a couple of pairs and jerk me off with them. Try to bring it out in the open, there could be alot of fun in it for you both.

 

[lemmesee]

I sometimes use my girl-friend's to jerk off WITH, I wrap them around myself, rub myself, and then squirt into them as I release....

 

[tn_bi_fun]

have you talked to him about it yet?

 

[FurryFury]

I once came home to see my man in some lingerie I never wear jacking off at the computer.
Most of the women I know would have thrown him out over that. I just wanted to know what it meant.

(Men are so stupid sometimes because they either want to get caught or don't think or whatever. *shrugs*)

When he explained himself I was fine with it.

However I'd be pretty pissed if someone were going in my drawer, making a mess and leaving it. To me that's pretty rude. At least put them in the dirty clothes ya bitch, you know?

Geez.

Or if you want me to see them put them out on the bed but don't put them back in with my clean underwear and mix the whole fucking mess into more of a mess.

*gets out ruler looks around like she's ready to discipline someone*

 

[garbage can]

have any ladies here had a problem with a bf or hubby wearing womens undies. i know my bf has been in my drawer when Im gone and found some sperm on a few and then I found a pic on the digital camera of his of some guy jerkin himself (no face ) and wearing a thong (possably mine ). he is such a good lover and very unselfish in bed (might be a fem side t him ) actually I was quite aroused when I had seen the pic . any ideas?

I see it this way. A lot of the sexual practices on this forum are 3 standard deviations from normal (slighty abnormal).

The question is.....can you live with the abnormality?.... And, are there any other abnormalities?

 

[TBKahuna123]

For Chripe's Sake's ...Chill out....alexandra4u69 and give your guy some breathing room....*****'s too short.

What part of "actually I was quite aroused when I had seen the pic" didn't you get? Sure sounds to me like she's not freaking out, just getting a little wet over the situation. Hell if I had a fetish that I was scared my wife would find out about and it actually got her all hot and bothered, I'd WANT her to know about it! What could be a better outcome than that?

 

[alexandra4u69]

your ssoooooo right TbKahuna

your right TBKahuna
Im not upset ,mad, angry or whatever. Im a little intrigued and I cant believe all the guys here who are into that (keep sending pics guys). a whole new world has opened up for me and I could disreguard it or embrace it . the latter is a good alternative .

 

[mreneetg]

54 Reasons to have a Crossdresser/tgirl for loving

1. You can have your own private slumber parties.

2. If he wears a skirt it's easy access.

3. He always envies you because he would rather be wearing what you are
wearing.

4. You can have a girlfriend as well as a boyfriend who doesn't mind
waiting while you take your time shopping.

5. You can double your wardrobe if he's the same size as you!

6. You never have to worry about cheating on you with another woman. He IS
the other woman!!

7. You always have a girlfriend to go shopping and have lunch with!!

8. He'll NEVER object to being a clothes dummy and wearing a dress while
you hem it.

9. While shopping, you can test a new shade of nail polish on him and he
doesn't complain or ask to see a matching lipstick.

10. He'll rarely have that scratchy five o'clock shadow.

11. He'll never ask you to have a threesome with another woman as long as
he can wear the lingerie.

12. He will be sympathetic about your excess body hair.

13. He won't tear your lingerie when removing it from you.

14. He won't mind waiting on you or your girlfriends, and he won't forget
to curtsey.

15. If you need a slip for that new dress you bought, he happens to have
the perfect one, and lets you borrow it.

16. You can switch off wearing the high heels while on a long shopping spree.

17. A man in a dress makes a good cook.

18. He loves to smell perfume and will give you an honest opinion.

19. You can test a new shade of lipstick on him.

20. If you purchase something for your home, it will never be too feminine.

21. At least the toilet seat will be down.

22. He is a lot easier to buy gifts for.

23. He knows just the right way to make love, takes his time and knows just
what makes you tick!

24. He will understand much better that the best thing a girl can have when
she feels down is new clothes.

25. If he buy's you clothes, you know he sizes them right.

26. You can take him to the hair salon with you and he will sit quietly
while you both get your hair done, and he will never complain. In fact he
will thank you.

27. The only time he will ever care if you wear curlers to bed is if he has
to wear the oversized rollers.

28. He understands why you don't care for spending 8 hours a day in
pantyhose and high heels.

29. Never complains about leaving delicate underwear out to dry.

30. You have a girlfriend who doesn't get PMS.

31. He will not only shop with you but pay the bill as well!

32. He knows how to handle delicates when he does the laundry.

33. Satin and velvet are more snuggly than denim and wool.

34. He understands the need for quality cosmetics.

35. You have even more excuses to go shopping, and he will even carry the
bags.

36. You can borrow his jewelry, clothes & makeup.

37. He understands why you go through so many pairs of stockings.

38. He no longer expects you to get ready for a night on the town in 15
minutes or less.

39. The world needs more feminists in lipstick.

40. You can take the Cosmo quizzes together.

41. You can ask him how an outfit looks, and get an intelligent response.

42. His new friends don't spend all day watching football.

43. He knows to walk slow when you're wearing heels.

44. If he says "Hon, you look nice." you know he really means it.

45. He can spot makeup smudges better than any other guy.

46. He's like having a live in cosmetologist.

47. He loves to go shopping with you and watch you try on clothes.

48. He knows how to treat a lady with care, sensitivity and respect.

49. He's a girl friend that will stick around, and won't flake out on you
or stab you in the back.

50. He loves to dress up and have long chat sessions.

51. You can have a threesome without adding another partner.

52. If you've ever been bi-curious you can experiment a little.

53. You know one of you will have a tissue with you when you need it.

54. Dress him up in a French Maid's Uniform and you have a house cleaner
for the day.