Betrayed

[symbolicflame]

I am feeling betrayed. I went for an interview this week and was told that the job was 95% mine. I had the qualifications and such. After that I went over to a "friends" house and was talking about it. She then proceeded to tell her boyfriend about the job when he got home and he went and applied. And since he worked with him this summer he got the job. It was only a weekend job, but the bitch knew I needed this job to help with income. I feel so fucking betrayed. I do not want to even talk to this woman right now. He has a full time job through the week and they knew I only worked part-time, going to college full time and trying to raise a child. Just another reason I am gay, the men suck. (ok there are exceptions here )

 

[briar_rose]

thats really screwed up *huggles*

 

[symbolicflame]

Will take the huggles and return a snuggle.

 

[bi golly]

I am feeling betrayed. I went for an interview this week and was told that the job was 95% mine. I had the qualifications and such. After that I went over to a "friends" house and was talking about it. She then proceeded to tell her boyfriend about the job when he got home and he went and applied. And since he worked with him this summer he got the job. It was only a weekend job, but the bitch knew I needed this job to help with income. I feel so fucking betrayed. I do not want to even talk to this woman right now. He has a full time job through the week and they knew I only worked part-time, going to college full time and trying to raise a child. Just another reason I am gay, the men suck. (ok there are exceptions here )

That is messed up.

I have been married twice, and they each brought an STD home.

It isn't the gender, it's the person.

 

[Wolfman1982]

symbolicflame: Don´t hate men, just think this instead, some people are the scum of the Earth. And others like me, wouldn´t even do anything to hurt another person, since it hurts me in the end. Doing anything like that. And I am a man, and well flamey, don´t worry. if you ever want some huggles, cuddles, and snuggles

then I am around, so just PM me, and well screw it, not all men are scum, just some

 

[human_male]

Err, so it was your female friend that betrayed you, yet only the man sucks in this situation? That right?

And naturally it follows that since one sucks, we all do. I mean that's a given.

 

[symbolicflame]

I have calmed down quite alot, but still not ready to talk to both of them. I feel that I will in the future about it. I think it was underhanded to do what they did. He has a great job and makes a lot of money, enough that the g-friend does not have to work. Me on the other hand am struggling to live paycheck to paycheck, and with school started, had all that expense. (Whoever said a public education is free: lies) It cost me $80 to enroll my daughter, a third grader!

PS.

Err, so it was your female friend that betrayed you, yet only the man sucks in this situation? That right?

And naturally it follows that since one sucks, we all do. I mean that's a given.

You did not read all of my post:

Just another reason I am gay, the men suck. (ok there are exceptions here )

 

[symbolicflame]

symbolicflame: Don´t hate men, just think this instead, some people are the scum of the Earth. And others like me, wouldn´t even do anything to hurt another person, since it hurts me in the end. Doing anything like that. And I am a man, and well flamey, don´t worry. if you ever want some huggles, cuddles, and snuggles

then I am around, so just PM me, and well screw it, not all men are scum, just some

I take your snuggles, cuddles and huggles and give you a big fat (without tongue....lol )

 

[symbolicflame]

That is messed up.

I have been married twice, and they each brought an STD home.

It isn't the gender, it's the person.

I hope you found someone that is true to you and treats you like a QUEEN!

 

[human_male]

You did not read all of my post:

I did note that you said there are exception, but I did note you said men suck. I just thought it odd that you could say "I feel so fucking betrayed. I do not want to even talk to this woman right now." and then end with "Just another reason I am gay, the men suck." as if at the end of the day it's all the guy's fault regardless. I obviously don't know all the details though. Maybe she did it because she was afraid how he might react if he found out, or something. Have you spoken to her and told her what a shitty thing that was to do to a friend?

Anyway I didn't mean to pick at your post, it's obviously been an upsetting experience. Personally I don't think I could get past something like that but that's just me.

 

[symbolicflame]

I did note that you said there are exception, but I did note you said men suck. I just thought it odd that you could say "I feel so fucking betrayed. I do not want to even talk to this woman right now." and then end with "Just another reason I am gay, the men suck." as if at the end of the day it's all the guy's fault regardless. I obviously don't know all the details though. Maybe she did it because she was afraid how he might react if he found out, or something. Have you spoken to her and told her what a shitty thing that was to do to a friend?

Anyway I didn't mean to pick at your post, it's obviously been an upsetting experience. Personally I don't think I could get past something like that but that's just me.

Have not spoken to her yet, and will refrain from doing so for at least a week. I know my temper and what I am capable of saying sometimes. It will be very hard for me not to answer the phone if she calls (I doubt it though, she is probably scared because of my temper in the past)
I can get past this with time I think, BUT does that mean we are going to remain friends? No, I doubt that. I learned that if you do not want to get hurt do not place those around you that will hurt you. I believe if she was a true friend she would of never done anything like this. I know I could never do it to someone. It is just too "sneaky and lowlife"
But one good thing I know today is this:
I am in recovery and have been for almost three years. In fact Sept. 13 it will be three years that I hav been sober. The thing I know is no matter what I can get through it without heading to the bottle. I headed to a meeting and felt lots better.

 

[human_male]

Have not spoken to her yet, and will refrain from doing so for at least a week. I know my temper and what I am capable of saying sometimes. It will be very hard for me not to answer the phone if she calls (I doubt it though, she is probably scared because of my temper in the past)
I can get past this with time I think, BUT does that mean we are going to remain friends? No, I doubt that. I learned that if you do not want to get hurt do not place those around you that will hurt you. I believe if she was a true friend she would of never done anything like this. I know I could never do it to someone. It is just too "sneaky and lowlife"
But one good thing I know today is this:
I am in recovery and have been for almost three years. In fact Sept. 13 it will be three years that I hav been sober. The thing I know is no matter what I can get through it without heading to the bottle. I headed to a meeting and felt lots better.

Yeah I think it's a wise move to not be around her anymore. Friends like that you don't need.

Congratulations on your sobriety.

 

[symbolicflame]

Yeah I think it's a wise move to not be around her anymore. Friends like that you don't need.

Congratulations on your sobriety.

My S.O. said "with friends like that who needs enemies?" I agree!
And thank you.

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

well it could always be a weird misunderstanding and talking with her first would be nice, but whatever, you know the situation better than me.
But i dont understand how easily you can break off the friendship. Yes it was probably her fault and all, but you could at least speak with her to make everything clear before you start anouncing the end of your friendship..