Bend Over Boyfriend...

[Baskin Robbins]

I really want to purchase this set. I have a few questions though.

1. Where is the best place to purchase it? Privacy is important.

2. I'm trying to open my wife's mind to some new experiences, is it really helpful?

3. How is it best to approach it? Should I watch it first?

4. Does anyone have any helpful advice to get the ball rolling?

I've been experimenting with myself for several years and know what I like. We've had anal sex with her on the receiving end and she enjoys it though not as often as I would like...

Any advice is welcome!

B.R.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

G.D. Should I post this elsewhere?

 

[Kinkiekev]

Sorry Im not familiar with Bend Over Boyfriend, but if its a video that offers what it sounds like... I want a copy!
I'm a bi-guy and remember the road I followed introducing my lady to anal stimulation.
It started with straight sex, doggie style. After a few hot smacks on her ass I tickled her hole with a wet thumb as we/she/I came. After a few times I slipped it in and she came instantly! Viola, she realized anal was hottt.
Then one night during an orals only session... These can be fun, but be sure and plan it before hand so nobody is disappointed... I made sure to concentrate on her first. I slipped her the thumb, pop-squeal-purr!
The next orals only night, same program. Then while she was giving me mine I suggested she try the same on me. If she hadn't been fully aware of anal pleasure she may have responded by running screaming to gather the villagers with torches and pitchforks. Instead she gently gave me what I wanted. After a few seconds of pretending like it hurt I came so hard I know I lost some IQ points.
I assume you are intimate enough with her by now to already have toys as part of your sexplay. Go shopping at the adult store or online with her and find an anal plug and/or a small dildo for 'her'. Again, work it into the scene for her and it should be easy to convince her to reciprocate for you. If not, find a new SO or if you're happy with the rest of the relationship enjoy fantasies with toys and masturbation Because when it comes down to it, a fulfilling relationship is worth more than a fulfilled fantasy (since fantasy made real often isn't nearly as great as you expect).

 

[Chi-Guy31]

I really want to purchase this set. I have a few questions though.

1. Where is the best place to purchase it? Privacy is important.

2. I'm trying to open my wife's mind to some new experiences, is it really helpful?

3. How is it best to approach it? Should I watch it first?

4. Does anyone have any helpful advice to get the ball rolling?

I've been experimenting with myself for several years and know what I like. We've had anal sex with her on the receiving end and she enjoys it though not as often as I would like...

Any advice is welcome!

B.R.

I would say for discreet ordering of volumes in this series, which I am familiar with and has garnered many rave reviews, you can try www.puckerup.com. I also found it listed here: http://www.gamelink.com/display_product.jhtml?id=214635&ref=adt&mall=st&src=gl, so hopefully this will help you out! It seems that it has helped many couples in pursuing this type of activity, so you are probably good to go with this, and is supposed to be great for instruction...

 

[SweetErika]

I really want to purchase this set. I have a few questions though.

1. Where is the best place to purchase it? Privacy is important.

2. I'm trying to open my wife's mind to some new experiences, is it really helpful?

3. How is it best to approach it? Should I watch it first?

4. Does anyone have any helpful advice to get the ball rolling?

I've been experimenting with myself for several years and know what I like. We've had anal sex with her on the receiving end and she enjoys it though not as often as I would like...

Any advice is welcome!

B.R.

Have you talked about this concept with her at all? How do you suspect she'd react if you said something like, "Honey, I was reading a story (or something) that mentioned anal and prostrate stimulation. The pleasure intrigues me, and I was wondering if it'd be something we could explore together"?

I would be far more comfortable with talking like that, or something like a game of writing down things we'd like to try and exchanging them, than my husband popping in a DVD. I might not react very well to that because I'd wonder why he felt he couldn't talk to me about it, or if it was something he'd really thought about and felt he'd been denied for a long time. Some people might feel deceived and usurped if their partner already has something ready to go like a video BEFORE they've been asked about it.

After he'd told me and we agreed to learn about it, I'd likely be okay with the video, though it certainly doesn't sound like it contains anything we couldn't learn online. I'd also rather do it myself than watch others do it (really, if it's not my partner, seeing it isn't any kind of a turn on for me), and recognize I have to experiment to learn what a partner likes and develop skills. Perhaps the best way to go about it after talking is to look online together, come across the video, and ask if she might be interested in it.

 

[Shankara20]

Sorry Im not familiar with Bend Over Boyfriend, but if its a video that offers what it sounds like... I want a copy!

It is a video - a great one for learing about how m/f couples can learn to play with a newbie male butt. It was produce in San Francisco several years ago and uses real life folks and trained people who know all about what to put where and how to help it feeeelll good. Google for the web site of Good Vibrations in San Francisco - a gay & het positive women owned sex toy/book/supply shop.

 

[SubNebGuy]

Well, we have Bend Over Boyfriend 2, and frankly, it was a waste of money. Watched it once, and never again.

It's just....not that good. Several of the couples are un-inspiring in their performance and hygiene. Several of the male actors seem very 'flamboyant'. i have no problem with gay men, but it wasn't the sort of portrayal I expected to see in a hetero strap-on flick.
My wife feels the same way.

I think the original Bend Over B/F was better, but we didn't buy it ever.
There's also a Boss Bitches series, and the one we rented was pretty good. More of domme/sub vibe between the couples, which is more our speed.

 

[Kinkiekev]

I just ran into this webpage and thought people here might enjoy it
http://www.girlincontrol.com/hun-27-11/ws.htm