Ben Wa Balls

[ponysslave]

I got in a playful argument with a woman I work with about Ben Wa Balls when she told me that she rolls them around in her hand for strength exercises. Perhaps I outed my inner freak when I laughed and told her she was using them incorrectly. Honestly thought they were for other purposes.

 

[cfuhrer]

I got in a playful argument with a woman I work with about Ben Wa Balls when she told me that she rolls them around in her hand for strength exercises. Perhaps I outed my inner freak when I laughed and told her she was using them incorrectly. Honestly thought they were for other purposes.

You were both right.

Hand strength
Pussy strength
Concentration/meditation
Dom enjoyment
Massage

Lots of uses

 

[Corbal]

I got in a playful argument with a woman I work with about Ben Wa Balls when she told me that she rolls them around in her hand for strength exercises. Perhaps I outed my inner freak when I laughed and told her she was using them incorrectly. Honestly thought they were for other purposes.

I know a chick that got them lodged in her pelvis... x-ray was pretty rad.

 

[ponysslave]

I know a chick that got them lodged in her pelvis... x-ray was pretty rad.

Woah. The x-ray is insane, I'm sure!

Interested to hear from others: The pair I have - the balls themselves are each about the size of a walnut - slightly smaller - and are weighted so when I move, the weight is supposed to shift and make them more difficult to keep in. However, they go up and just kinda stay up there and the challenge is gone. It's like a tampon (sorry guys) where I can't actually feel them. I feel like if they were smaller, they may serve more of the strengthening purpose because it would be more difficult to keep them in...is that correct?

 

[cfuhrer]

Woah. The x-ray is insane, I'm sure!

Interested to hear from others: The pair I have - the balls themselves are each about the size of a walnut - slightly smaller - and are weighted so when I move, the weight is supposed to shift and make them more difficult to keep in. However, they go up and just kinda stay up there and the challenge is gone. It's like a tampon (sorry guys) where I can't actually feel them. I feel like if they were smaller, they may serve more of the strengthening purpose because it would be more difficult to keep them in...is that correct?

Mine are a little smaller (jaw breaker candy or rubber bounce ball) and weighted and very hard to keep in, especially if I'm the slightest bit moist.

Do NOT get ones with bells in them, like mine, because when you move in any way other than a demure walk everyone wonders where the bell sounds are coming from. I think its gotten to where my Dom gets greater pleasure from seeing me blush and try to explain away the bells.

 

[mediocre]

Mine are a little smaller (jaw breaker candy or rubber bounce ball) and weighted and very hard to keep in, especially if I'm the slightest bit moist.

Do NOT get ones with bells in them, like mine, because when you move in any way other than a demure walk everyone wonders where the bell sounds are coming from. I think its gotten to where my Dom gets greater pleasure from seeing me blush and try to explain away the bells.

They can come with bells in them? Learn something new each day.

Now, can you get remote controlled vibrating ben wah balls, with bells or without?

 

[ponysslave]

Mine are a little smaller (jaw breaker candy or rubber bounce ball) and weighted and very hard to keep in, especially if I'm the slightest bit moist.

Do NOT get ones with bells in them, like mine, because when you move in any way other than a demure walk everyone wonders where the bell sounds are coming from. I think its gotten to where my Dom gets greater pleasure from seeing me blush and try to explain away the bells.

I'm sure M would love the bells for the same reason as your Dom. Haha - thanks for the info...I think a little shopping may be in order.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I use mine to exercise my hands...

But I wash them really well, first.

 

[ponysslave]

I use mine to exercise my hands...

But I wash them really well, first. [/QUOTE

LOL - you're silly.

 

[bailadora]

I got in a playful argument with a woman I work with about Ben Wa Balls when she told me that she rolls them around in her hand for strength exercises. Perhaps I outed my inner freak when I laughed and told her she was using them incorrectly. Honestly thought they were for other purposes.

I resemble that remark. In my early 20's, I bought a pair (the kind with bells) in a little oriental store after the shop keeper told me they were for hand strength.

I kept them on the display shelf with all the other tchotchkes until a friend discreetly pulled me aside one day and told me what ELSE they could be used for.

Mortified doesn't even BEGIN to describe it!

 

[Stella_Omega]

LOL - you're silly.

Well who knows where those things have been right?

 

[switchbitch]

I use mine to exercise my hands...

But I wash them really well, first.

I love reading your posts your turn of phrase always gives me the giggles

 

[switchbitch]

once had a dommy friend who had a definite kink for Ben Wa balls. He had multiple sets and he liked to see just how many he could stuff inside and then for his entertainment he would make his subby girl skip around the room on tiptoes endeavouring not to lose them. Every one that dropped had to be picked up using only the pussy,every time she slowed her skipping, dropped a ball or failed to pick one up again a split tailed whip was there to encourage her to continue the entertainment.it was wicked nice hmmm tapping my chin with one finger and thinking about reliving the scenario with a particularly cheeky subby girl of my acquaintance. That could be a giggle

 

[ponysslave]

once had a dommy friend who had a definite kink for Ben Wa balls. He had multiple sets and he liked to see just how many he could stuff inside and then for his entertainment he would make his subby girl skip around the room on tiptoes endeavouring not to lose them. Every one that dropped had to be picked up using only the pussy,every time she slowed her skipping, dropped a ball or failed to pick one up again a split tailed whip was there to encourage her to continue the entertainment.it was wicked nice hmmm tapping my chin with one finger and thinking about reliving the scenario with a particularly cheeky subby girl of my acquaintance. That could be a giggle

I did have a hard time keeping them in once when, after going to dinner with them inside, M realized it wasn't much of a struggle, so when we got home, he made me strip & do jumping jacks.

 

[switchbitch]

I did have a hard time keeping them in once when, after going to dinner with them inside, M realized it wasn't much of a struggle, so when we got home, he made me strip & do jumping jacks.

ooh love that too ! Cheeky one is so going to have a challenging weekend.

 

[waaitg]

I use mine to exercise my hands...

But I wash them really well, first.

I agree with you Stella.

It is very important to always wash your hands well *innocent smile*

W~

 

[Cyalith]

I have these from fun factory: http://www.funfactoryusa.com/tags/8#

I like that they have a string and are connected. But then, they are usually pretty easy to keep in, and I guess that takes away some of the fun.

Though they certainly make doing my chores more stimulating.

 

[sterculius]

I use mine to exercise my hands...

But I wash them really well, first.

I like to suck on my wife's Ben-wa balls. Kinda like kegels to exercise my mouth and jaw muscles, but I purposely don't wash them beforehand because I KNOW where they've been. (At least I think I know where they've been)

 

[troubledone]

I got in a playful argument with a woman I work with about Ben Wa Balls when she told me that she rolls them around in her hand for strength exercises. Perhaps I outed my inner freak when I laughed and told her she was using them incorrectly. Honestly thought they were for other purposes.

You were both right.

Hand strength
Pussy strength
Concentration/meditation
Dom enjoyment
Massage

Lots of uses

The only use these balls have is in exercising the mind

 

[kurious_red]

Other uses

My Ben wa balls are incased and have a tail. During play he decided to put them in my ass with the tail hanging out. I have gotten to enjoy it and sometimes he has me wearing them all day.

 

[ponysslave]

My Ben wa balls are incased and have a tail. During play he decided to put them in my ass with the tail hanging out. I have gotten to enjoy it and sometimes he has me wearing them all day.

Beautiful image, Kurious. Where did you find them?

 

[MichaelWest]

I could tell the story of the night at dinner, her large brassy ball in, the short skirt, the demur walk to the restroom, the sound of that ball hitting the hard tile floor, the metallic versus ceramic bouncing sound and my matter-of-fact retrieval and deposit in my pocket. The cost of dinner was worth that glorious look of embarrassment. A night some mildly sadistic tops dream of for years.

 

[dcy]

So could some of the women enlighten me how hard it is to wear these during normal activities? (i.e. grocery shopping) And do they give some extra feeling or is it just a way to train the muscles?

I have a task in mind for a remote sub, but since my experience with ben wa balls is limited, I would like to know how hard a task this is and if it is at least a bit stimulating, or just he idea is the stimulant.

 

[Pelagie]

I also have the Fun Factory ones. For me, they stay in until I remove them. To get optimal enjoyment, I have to be moving around so that the the little balls inside of them vibrate. Otherwise, it's like wearing a tampon (there but not really doing anything). So the more activity I'm doing the better. I don't want to wear them if I'm just going to sit around all day.

 

[Jade_Riley]

I have some and honestly they do nothing for me but I think my problem is that they're too big. I may have to get the smaller ones instead. And omg, i just realised that my grandparents have some oriental style decorative ones at their house haha! Eww