Being Single

[MaddyBaby]

Well, I am now single.... for the first time in 6 and a half years. It's only been two days and I feel completely odd. For the past 6 and a half years, I've gone from one relationship to another with absolutely no break. It's not that I had to be with someone, it's just the way things worked out.

Now that I am single... it may sound funny, but I am not quite sure what to do. I know what I want in my life... but I am not quite sure how to do it. It's hard in the Lesbian community... I don't know. I guess I just feel odd. I do know that it's okay to be single... but for some reason, everyone keeps asking me who I am going to see next. Who cares? Why does everyone worry about who I am going to see next? Do they think that seeing someone else will cure me of this current heartache? No, not so much. It will only mask the inevitable, no?

Anyway... I just had to make some commentary... Sometimes it's good to talk about feelings. Ugh, who knows.

 

[Mistress]

Pounces on Maddy and tackles her in snuggles

Where the hell you been cutie?

 

[MaddyBaby]

Been going through things I wish I weren't... you know, the usual. Out living my life and experiencing things... Nothing big, I suppose. It is wonderful to see all of my familiar friends around here though. Makes me feel better.

 

[ub6ibfine]

heart ache is a disease theres no prescription for...
...in some ways you could see another lover as a
way to mask something. but its easier to get over
with someone with someone else for a lot of people.
an then for some another person makes them only
want the last more. it depends on you. but no you
dont have too worry about what other people ask
you. in this day belive it or not people to many people
are really to many chances to get fucked in various
ways more bad then good. it hurts to lose someone
you care about but if you have really lost them then
you have to move on. its took me almost a year or
two to acknowledge this fact but its true no matter
how much i dont want to admit it. *L* well hope it
works out for you..

 

[nasty1]

The single community welcomes you. Let's see, I'm 23, been single for 21 of those years. But, when you can't perform sex, because, you have a ridiculously small penis & testicals, then, why be in a relationship? I HATE not being in 1, but, since I have "deformities," I don't have much of a damn choice.

 

[Mistress]

Kisses Maddy on her adorable little nose and smiles

I still wub you....

Now if only you were in Kentucky... ROAR baby ROAR!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

*hugs!*

Maddy... screw the people who tell you you ought to be seeing someone, and don't ever feel pressure to date. Like you said, there are things you want to do, so do them. You've got time, and double the resources (as you're not sharing them)... have fun!

 

[Mistress]

The single community welcomes you. Let's see, I'm 23, been single for 21 of those years. But, when you can't perform sex, because, you have a ridiculously small penis & testicals, then, why be in a relationship? I HATE not being in 1, but, since I have "deformities," I don't have much of a damn choice.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Thanks, UB... it's nice to hear other people's perspective on this subject. But you know... I wouldn't want to use someone else to be the rebound for my residule feelings. I don't want to hurt anyone like I've been hurt. Yay for singleness.

 

[Mistress]

*hugs!*

Maddy... screw the people who tell you you ought to be seeing someone, and don't ever feel pressure to date. Like you said, there are things you want to do, so do them. You've got time, and double the resources (as you're not sharing them)... have fun!

ooooooooo Boobies.......

 

[Ms_Lilith]

The single community welcomes you. Let's see, I'm 23, been single for 21 of those years. But, when you can't perform sex, because, you have a ridiculously small penis & testicals, then, why be in a relationship? I HATE not being in 1, but, since I have "deformities," I don't have much of a damn choice.

Love isn't about sex, and I believe you'll find it. Why? Because you're a sweet person. You've brought smiles to many faces, and I know that you must touch the people around you.

 

[MaddyBaby]

Good to see you, Vix. I've missed ya. I get sick of people, period. Maybe I should become a hermit for the next year. Then I could really get my shit sorted out, hm? LOL. Screw people.

 

[Mistress]

Good to see you, Vix. I've missed ya. I get sick of people, period. Maybe I should become a hermit for the next year. Then I could really get my shit sorted out, hm? LOL. Screw people.

I'm a Hermit...no really a real Crab and everything Nods slowly and wiggles her eyebrows Wanna, be hermits together?

 

[MzChrista]

Well, I am now single.... for the first time in 6 and a half years. It's only been two days and I feel completely odd. For the past 6 and a half years, I've gone from one relationship to another with absolutely no break. It's not that I had to be with someone, it's just the way things worked out.

Now that I am single... it may sound funny, but I am not quite sure what to do. I know what I want in my life... but I am not quite sure how to do it. It's hard in the Lesbian community... I don't know. I guess I just feel odd. I do know that it's okay to be single... but for some reason, everyone keeps asking me who I am going to see next. Who cares? Why does everyone worry about who I am going to see next? Do they think that seeing someone else will cure me of this current heartache? No, not so much. It will only mask the inevitable, no?

Anyway... I just had to make some commentary... Sometimes it's good to talk about feelings. Ugh, who knows.

Sorry you are sad. Its hard I know. I had a totally perfect GF and I fucked up and shes gone and I been single 2 years and it looks to stay that way. People always want me to meet some friend they think I should hook up with like, Im les and shes les and thats all it takes.
I cant say much but you not alone.

 

[LukkyKnight]

LTNS.

Take awhile to get used to a different perspective. Hang out here with us a bit, we've been missing you.

 

[Liontamr]

I'll trade anyone my friends for their friends.. My friends seem as though they could care less if I am able to find a girlfriend or even meet a girl in public.

Kinda sucks being the last single person in a group of friends who all have SO's

 

[nasty1]

Love isn't about sex, and I believe you'll find it. Why? Because you're a sweet person. You've brought smiles to many faces, and I know that you must touch the people around you.

I appreciate your kindness, but, I have such a self-esteem problem, that I'm deathly afraid of even approaching woman about dating. So, unless someone hooks me up, or, they come to me,(and, when I drop the bomb on them, they don't go running off,) then, I suppose I'll continue being single. I WILL say, that, I DID date someone that I ACTUALLY approached. It was a guy, but, he dumped me a few months ago. I don't know exactly why, but, the fact that I can't really have sex is what I think it was. He said he didn't care, but, that was the last I saw of him. So, I put 2 & 2 together...

 

[Zephan]

I just came out of a 15 year relationship. I realized that I really have only been single for 2 years in my whole life. It was hard at first. I guess I really didn't know how to be single. It took some time but I have to say I really like not having one SO at this point in my life. I have been able to focus alot more attention on other areas of my life. Things that were just as important but always seemed to be put on the back burner. My career is in high gear. I am going out, making lots of new friends, dating. I honestly am happier than I have been in a very long time. I know it won't last forever. While it is here though I am going to take full advantage. I missed alot of life by getting married way to early. Thank God I am not too old to live some of what I missed now. Take care Maddy. Be happy. You know when you are ready you will find some one. Some one special. You are way too cute not to!

 

[nasty1]

Anyway

THe point I was trying to make was, that well I was in that relationship, I was CONSTANTLY worried, because he would leave for long periods of time, and, not call,(now I know where he was. So, only having to worry about me is kinda nice, though, I would REALLY like to be in another relationship.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

yeah...

Vixenshe said is right.

Just take your time. Some one else will come along.

PowrDragn

 

[nasty1]

Re: yeah...

Vixenshe said is right.

Just take your time. Some one else will come along.

PowrDragn

Maybe it's true that woman don't give a damn about sex, but, I don't have the balls to find out.

 

[Worm]

Go out, party, meet new people...the sooner you do this the better off you will be.

 

[Zephan]

Go out, party, meet new people...the sooner you do this the better off you will be.

Sage advice from the worm!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Lasz]

She Lives!

Well I guess if you ever went back to guys you could always date me

 

[DustyWolfe]

*hugs* I'm really quite sorry Maddy. If there is anything at all I can do for you please let me know okay?