realmint
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My husband and I heard a comment in a news report about girls that were, "sexualized." I thought about that expression and had a few thoughts I wanted to share.
When human's are born they have sexual organs that are not developed. They do not have awareness of sex or sexual desire. At some age they will be told sexual basics but that is not really being sexualized. After thinking about it it occurred to me that in a general sense sexualization for most people probably takes place at the moment of their first orgasm. Each orgasm in life lights up a portion of our brain and we are flooded with beautiful sensation. But the moment of first orgasm is unique in what it accomplishes. The brain lights up with the same intense sensation of pleasure but it also lights up with awareness that there is such a pleasure. In that instant, I think it is fair to say that, a person's life changes and in that instant they are sexualized.
That may not be the sense of the word in the news comment that I mentioned. That context was about something abusive. And sadly many times the moment of sexualization could be the result of some form of abuse. But the reality is that no matter how it takes place we all have our first orgasm and in that instant we become changed in the most basic way. I had coffee this morning think back to that moment in my own life. That beautiful moment when I became sexualized.
When human's are born they have sexual organs that are not developed. They do not have awareness of sex or sexual desire. At some age they will be told sexual basics but that is not really being sexualized. After thinking about it it occurred to me that in a general sense sexualization for most people probably takes place at the moment of their first orgasm. Each orgasm in life lights up a portion of our brain and we are flooded with beautiful sensation. But the moment of first orgasm is unique in what it accomplishes. The brain lights up with the same intense sensation of pleasure but it also lights up with awareness that there is such a pleasure. In that instant, I think it is fair to say that, a person's life changes and in that instant they are sexualized.
That may not be the sense of the word in the news comment that I mentioned. That context was about something abusive. And sadly many times the moment of sexualization could be the result of some form of abuse. But the reality is that no matter how it takes place we all have our first orgasm and in that instant we become changed in the most basic way. I had coffee this morning think back to that moment in my own life. That beautiful moment when I became sexualized.
