Being Made to Show Off

[hotallova]

I'm not sure if this really fits into BDSM, as I don't have much knowledge about that lifestyle. My fantasy, and it is a big fantasy, is being watched. Being made to show myself off in public, expose myself, masturbate, and have sex, in public, and particularly public areas where this would be the least expected (ie a boob flash in a club is not that uncommon, but running naked across a highway at 8:30 in the morning, wow). By being made I don't really mean physically forced. I'm not into pain and violence. It would be through trickery, blackmail, bribery, a desire to please or mind control.

I have never done anything exhibitionist before. I did not feel attractive when I was younger and never liked to show off my body. This has changed in the last 2 years and I have come to believe that yes I am quite sexy. I am only small (5'3), and have small breasts (12 b cup in Australian measurements, not sure what that would be in other countries). However, I also have slim hips and a nice little bum. I have grown my hair long, halfway down my back, and it is blonde, though dyed. I also visit a solarium, to keep my tan now that its winter here, and the gym to keep fit. I beleive that if I was to show off my body now men would want to look. However, I still have my hang-ups from my early teens. I find myself with a body I have put a lot of effort into, and no-one to show it to. I have just come out of a long term relationship with a guy who was quite conservative, and definitly does not approve of this sort of thing, which added to the feeling that I should keep myself covered and quiet.

I basically think about this fantasy every day, and would love for it to be real. But I do feel it is a bit silly, and wonder if I really would have the nerve to show myself off, even if ordered to. What do you all think? Is there any other girls, or guys, in this situation? Are there anyone who thinks this is hot, or just dumb? Let me know if your interested in this, or have an opinion on it, either from the point of view of wanting to show of, or who would like to give the instructions.

 

[h_i_s]

i wouldn't run across a highway naked here. Many here are terrible drivers to begin with. They don't need naked people running out in front of their vehicles.... in order for someone to get killed. It's too risky .. so i wouldn't do it.

i can relate to having similar feelings about body image vs. confidence though. i like my body a whole lot more now at age 37 .... than i did at age 27, or age 17 even.

It doesn't make you dumb, or sound silly to me. Everyone has desires and fantasies, some more and some less extreme than others ... at least you KNOW what your's ARE. Some live their whole lives and keep their's a secret from everyone ... sometimes that includes their spouse. i think that IS dumb. You just need to find yourself in a relationship with someone you can be comfortable enough with, where trust is present as well as solid communication, so that you can share these desires with them. Otherwise, it's less likely the fantasies can be transformed into something real.

It's not dumb, and yes ... i'd say it's hot. i can see how being coerced to expose oneself to others would be a turn on. It's not something we do in our relationship here, although the idea does hold some interest for me.

 

[Masters_aphrodite]

i am much more comfortable with my body now at 34 than i was early on as well. Master has made me expose myself. The feelings that it brings out are several and all rolled up into one. It is hot, arousing, embarrassing all rolled into one and several other things too. Sometimes Master will drive with the top down and make me pull my skirt up exposing myself and touching me as He is driving. i do not look over but i can hear the truck keeping up with Master and right next to U/us and Master tells me that the driver is looking. Sometimes Master will drive like this off the interstate. Stopping at redlights and it is so hard not to cover myself. The workers on the light poles looking down in the car at me. Yes, it is arousing and it clearly lets me know who i belong to at the same time (as if i would ever forget *smiles*).

 

[hotallova]

Thanx for your response! It was cool to here your thoughts on my fantasy both from an erotic side and a down right nasty side! Sounds like your having some great fun aphrodite, going naked in a car would definitly be hot. I am curious about you having a Master. I don't know much about master/slave stuff and what's involved in that kinda relationship, but it definitly sounds like an interesting experience.

I suppose what I sorta need is a Master who's really only interested in exhibitionism also, as I'm not that interested in the other aspects of BDSM (from what I know about it anyway.

Love to hear more from anyone's who's tried my fantasy, or wants to make someone try it. The emotons racing through your body must be incredible when you show off in public.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I basically think about this fantasy every day, and would love for it to be real. But I do feel it is a bit silly, and wonder if I really would have the nerve to show myself off, even if ordered to. What do you all think? Is there any other girls, or guys, in this situation? Are there anyone who thinks this is hot, or just dumb? Let me know if your interested in this, or have an opinion on it, either from the point of view of wanting to show of, or who would like to give the instructions.

While not very popular amongst the BDSM crowd, the swinging community is ALL about exhibitionism and voyeurism. You'd find a serious outlet for your fantasies there. I loved going to the local dance club, having men and women staring at me, being a object. I liked watching, and being watched. It felt secretive. Special.

On the BDSM side of things, scening in front of others; and watching others scene gives me that same special feeling. It's not quite as intimate, but I love the feeling that what I'm doing is special.

~Anelize

 

[hotallova]

Swingers clubs, wow I'm just realising how conservative my sex lif he sbeen! It would definitly be hot though to do it in front of a crowd. However, going to a swingers club would be a choice, rather than being 'made' to do it. So I suppose in my fantasy I would be blackmailed or tricked into going.

I agree about going dancing. I have only just started getting out again, and enjoy the attention I get. I haven't really 'gone wild' yet though with my dancing or dress style, but I have seen the girls that do and it looks sooooo hot.

I'm thinking of getting some slutty looking clothes, just slutty enough so that they push the boundaries of whats socially exceptable to wear in public. I'm trying to get the courage up to go shopping for them, I always get too embarrassed and don't know what to pick!

 

[Moleculor]

Sounds like you just need a guy to go shopping with you so he can pick and choose what you buy. *shrug*

As for whether or not it fits into BDSM, eh, so many things these days are fuzzy and ill-defined, that it's just best to call yourself kinky, since far too many people start assuming the wrong things when you claim to be into BDSM.

As for an -interest- in making someone show themselves off, yeah, the idea is an attractive one. Any of the blackmail, trickery, mind-control stuff.

 

[hotallova]

I've never found getting a guy to shopping with me an easy task!

Glad to hear your into the blackmail, trickery thing Molecular. I think being made to go naked in public by those means would be incredibly hot, for me, the guy telling me to do it, and for any passer bys as well!

 

[Richard49]

being made to do anything is a D/s thing

To enjoy at any level masterbating etc
to an audience .... IMHO is a D/s thing

It was something I enjoyed making my submissives do
well not allowing them to climax till i gave them premission