Beginner in Anal Stimulation

[JackintheOCCA]

Hey Everyone,
So this is my first post and thread on lit. I am a 23/m and straight but I would like to try some anal stimulation. I am not in position where I can buy sex toys to experiment with, so I have two question. What are some things I can try at home? (keep in mind I live with house-mates) Secondly does anyone know how to make any sex toys at home? Thanks any comments or suggestions would be appreciated.

 

[JackintheOCCA]

huh?

Really wouldn't they swell and get soft?

 

[Chicklet]

Tampons are a bad idea, because the anus is naturally a dryer place, and the tampon will suck absolutely any fluid out. It will be uncomfortable and unhealthy coming out.

I suggest your fingers. Fingers, even your own, can go a long, long way towards pleasure.

Without raising any suspicion, you can get a box of latex (or non latex) gloves, or even use a condom on your hand, and get quite a bit of stimulation that way.

Nobody's going to question the purchase of a box of gloves, or the fact that you have them anywhere.

For other house-hold toy ideas, try the search feature in either this, or the GLBT forum (a lot of men throw ideas back and forth in the GLBT - and no, playing with your butt doesn't make you bi or gay.)

 

[SweetErika]

Really wouldn't they swell and get soft?

Not if you buy Playtex brand, or another brand that comes in a plastic applicator and play with them without discharging them from the applicator.

I wouldn't suggest using Tampax, or another brand that comes in a cardboard applicator. The cardboard applicator has a rough edge, and is more likely to swell or fall apart with lubrication.

There is a Household Toys and Lube thread in The Blank Manual sticky (also at the top of the main How To page). Keep in mind that some of the suggestions are tongue-in-cheek.

Here's a story w/ instructions for several toys: http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=268624

Here are some previous threads on homemade toys:
Homemade anal toys
Homemade dildo

Also, you could find some Crayola Model Magic modeling foam or something similar and make your own dildo/butt plug. Here, craft stores like Michael's and Joanne Fabrics and Crafts always hav 40-50% off coupons in the Sunday paper and mail, so one can get enough to make a ton of toys for under $20. Make the toys, let them dry, slip a condom on, lube it up and go to town! We made a bunch of vibe attachments and toys a few years back and they work great because the foam is firm but has some give.

You're looking for anything that's very smooth (no rough edges or points, firm but not too hard, has a good handle to grip and ideally has a flared base so it won't slip all the way in and get stuck. Think veggies, candles, even popsicles, etc. Make sure you cover things in condoms to keep yourself, and the objects, safe. You don't want to put things like soap or food in your ass, or have something like a candle break off or get lost in there.

There are much better lubes than Vaseline and KY Jelly. Pick up a water-based or silicone lube (which won't destroy condoms or stain fabrics) at Walmart, online, or anywhere else.

You don't need much money to buy an anal toy or three. For instance, on Amazon.com, for $20 INCLUDING shipping, you can get several toys; just look for the items that advertise free super saver shipping. See if this link to a search for anal toys will work for you. Also google 'anal toys lowest prices free shipping' to see what you can find and check out eBay's Mature Audiences section (under Everything Else; you might have to do a FREE age verification with a credit card).

If you're worried about being discreet, all sex toy retailers sheep in plain packages, so nosy housemates won't know what you're getting unless they open your package.

 

[mynameiskate]

Uhhh....I'm not too sure about tampons, but definitely use lube.