Been to a cumming out party?

[Hitchiker69]

I'm not sure how I got this notion in my head, but I have the impression there used to be 'cumming out' parties for new gay guys. Maybe in the 60's or 70's.
They would celebrate the seduction of a new guy into the gay lifestyle, once he's accepted his gay identity.
I imagine a dozen of so naked guys enjoying the new 'recruit'...sucking him, letting him suck all the cocks he wants... fucking him...whatever he wants or can handle. Sort of an initiation into the gay life.

Am I just imagining this? Any of you older guys done this?

 

[yukonnights]

I'm not sure how I got this notion in my head, but I have the impression there used to be 'cumming out' parties for new gay guys. Maybe in the 60's or 70's.
They would celebrate the seduction of a new guy into the gay lifestyle, once he's accepted his gay identity.
I imagine a dozen of so naked guys enjoying the new 'recruit'...sucking him, letting him suck all the cocks he wants... fucking him...whatever he wants or can handle. Sort of an initiation into the gay life.

Am I just imagining this? Any of you older guys done this?

I've never heard of this, although it probably has occurred more than a few times. Sounds like a great story idea though

I hope these 'notions in your head' don't mean your getting lonely and longing for those bygone days

 

[Hitchiker69]

I don't know if I'm longing for bygone days, but I'd love to go to a gay orgy, especially if I were the center of attention.
Imagine the beauty of meeting a dozen new gay guys, adding them to my address book for later reference, and meanwhile sucking as many of them as I can handle in one night. And fucking or getting fucked and spit roasted all night long.

Heaven!

 

[jackstud]

You have sexy thoughts Hitch

 

[tristantrotsky]

Cumming-Out

We were holidaying in Crete recently and we visited a Gay Bar in Heraklion which was a great place to hang out, very relaxed and chilled with same-sex couples dancing in the dimmed lighting. Half-way through the evening a group from a neighboring table get up on the stage, and – rather worse for ouzos, one of them announces that it’s his friend's Gay Coming-Out Party, and to celebrate, he would be in the end cubicle of the toilets and would suck-off anyone who cares to enter. The guy in question seems a little embarrassed and there is much laughter and cheers. Then things settle back to normal, but I was intrigued. Unable to contain my curiosity I later get up and go across to the toilets. There are three cubicles, with a row of rather unpleasant-looking guys queuing up outside of the third, from which disgusting gurgling noises could be heard. Some of the waiting guys already have their cocks out and they’re wanking in impatience. Even as I watch, a grinning guy comes out, buckling up his pants, and another eagerly goes in. I return to the Bar and tell my friend what I've seen. He suggests I set up in the adjoining cubicle and help the young guy out by sucking some of the cocks myself. I was more concerned for the lad himself. How many cocks did he suck that night…? And if I were in his place, how many could I have taken…?

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

This post caught my eye -- its something my wife has talked about, when I'm more comfortable with all of this.

 

[Sunnyade]

This post caught my eye -- its something my wife has talked about, when I'm more comfortable with all of this.

Not cumming out parties as such. I have seen video of a new guy being introduced to a group. Sort of like an initiation thing.

 

[Miss_Sasha_P]

When the 'Ellen' episode was shown in the UK Channel Four had a whole host of programs about coming out and how to come out, and I think that parties were mentioned there. Although I haven't ever really encountered one.

 

[CaffeinatedHub45]

Not cumming out parties as such. I have seen video of a new guy being introduced to a group. Sort of like an initiation thing.

Initiation was the exact word that she used!

 

[spraybomb13]

Cumming out

When I first embraced my Bi side, I attended an all guy pool party. I had only sucked a cock, so this was jumping in head first! Lol The host posted online, so I reached out and explained my situation. He said it was a no pressure type of gathering and he would make sure I was comfortable. Only rule was that it was a totally nude event. I mustered up the courage and attended that weekend. It was very exciting and erotic for sure. Everyone made me comfortable and welcome. The real fun began once they all found out I was a virgin!

 

[fitandfresh]

I don't know if I'm longing for bygone days, but I'd love to go to a gay orgy, especially if I were the center of attention.
Imagine the beauty of meeting a dozen new gay guys, adding them to my address book for later reference, and meanwhile sucking as many of them as I can handle in one night. And fucking or getting fucked and spit roasted all night long.

Heaven!

You do know that you aren't helping me or any other bi or bi curious old guys lol.....

 

[rncforthree]

I heard of a former co-workers brother passing away and stopped by his house to offer my condolences. Some other guy answered the door and after checking to see if I was okay to enter, I was let in. The coworker and a few other guys were on the couch, all nude. He mentioned that they were in the middle of an orgy but stopped to talk. He told me that he was gay, which I pretty much always knew, and that he'd had a crush (for lack of a better word) on me when we worked together. He offered himself and his friends to see if this was something that I enjoyed by having them split up, one on my cock, one on my asshole and one on each nipple just to see if I liked it. I declined, and probably still would today, but it didn't seem like a bad way to spend an hour or so.

 

[fitandfresh]

I heard of a former co-workers brother passing away and stopped by his house to offer my condolences. Some other guy answered the door and after checking to see if I was okay to enter, I was let in. The coworker and a few other guys were on the couch, all nude. He mentioned that they were in the middle of an orgy but stopped to talk. He told me that he was gay, which I pretty much always knew, and that he'd had a crush (for lack of a better word) on me when we worked together. He offered himself and his friends to see if this was something that I enjoyed by having them split up, one on my cock, one on my asshole and one on each nipple just to see if I liked it. I declined, and probably still would today, but it didn't seem like a bad way to spend an hour or so.

Wow!.....hope you don't regret it later........must have been hard lol

 

[J1biboi]

I'm not sure how I got this notion in my head, but I have the impression there used to be 'cumming out' parties for new gay guys. Maybe in the 60's or 70's.
They would celebrate the seduction of a new guy into the gay lifestyle, once he's accepted his gay identity.
I imagine a dozen of so naked guys enjoying the new 'recruit'...sucking him, letting him suck all the cocks he wants... fucking him...whatever he wants or can handle. Sort of an initiation into the gay life.

Am I just imagining this? Any of you older guys done this?

I've never heard of it but it sounds like a fun idea.

 

[meme62626]

When I first embraced my Bi side, I attended an all guy pool party. I had only sucked a cock, so this was jumping in head first! Lol The host posted online, so I reached out and explained my situation. He said it was a no pressure type of gathering and he would make sure I was comfortable. Only rule was that it was a totally nude event. I mustered up the courage and attended that weekend. It was very exciting and erotic for sure. Everyone made me comfortable and welcome. The real fun began once they all found out I was a virgin!

That's a story I'd like to hear about . I'm in kik more if you want to share..

 

[rncforthree]

Wow!.....hope you don't regret it later........must have been hard lol

I haven't regretted it yet. It was a good many years ago, I was probably right at 30 and now I'm in my mid fifties, and he was at least 60 at the time, his friends were closer to his age than mine but not old looking. They were all obviously gay though. The co-worker did kiss me though, which definitely caught me off guard. I hadn't thought for a second when I stopped by there that I'd end up with some guys tongue in my mouth, his naked body pressed up against mine and him rubbing my cock through my pants. It wasn't a long kiss, but since I'm not rude I did kiss back. It was different. In his defense, he had some reason to believe that I may have been open to it. I went through a very short period where my first wife was trying to get me into wearing those gartered stockings, I wore a pair one day under my work clothes and for some reason decided to stop by his house and showed them to him by pulling up my pants leg. The white lace didn't go well with work boots. I always knew that he was extremely open about sex, so I thought I'd get his opinion. His opinion was that everyone should do what they want as long as it's not hurting anyone, unless the one being hurt is into that kind of stuff.

 

[spraybomb13]

That's a story I'd like to hear about . I'm in kik more if you want to share..

No kik here, but feel free to PM!

 

[CharlieBoker]

Kind of a coming out party.......

35 years ago I had a sexual affair with a much older married guy, Robert, when I was only 18-19. He was a trusted friend of my parents and he was my first real gay lover. He really tutored me sexually and brought me out of myself, allowing me to let myself go and give myself to him totally. Once he'd had me a few times and knew that I was fully receptive he suggested that I meet a couple of his gay friends, again much older guys.

It wasn't a coming out party as such but I think he wanted to share me and expand my horizons at the same time. He took me to his friend's house one evening where there were a few people sat around drinking wine, chatting and listening to classical music. Later on, after everyone but Robert and I had left, John the host put on some gay porn videos which was the first time I'd seen any.

It definitely did the trick to get us all in the mood, particularly me, the horny 18 year old. I quickly became the centre of attention and enjoyed being stripped and having my body worshipped by two much older men. In return, I sucked each of their cocks while the other watched and ended up getting my first ever experience of a spit roast. I sucked John's cock as he sat on the sofa while Robert fucked me from behind.

I had sex with another of Robert's friends too but that first night was the start and an initiation of sorts!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Coming Out

My friend and I were holidaying in Crete and we visited a Gay Bar in Heraklion which was a great place to hang out, very relaxed and chilled with same-sex couples dancing in the dimmed lighting. Half-way through the evening a group from a neighboring table get up on the stage, and – rather worse for ouzos, one of them announces that it’s his friend's Gay Coming-Out Party, and to celebrate, he would be in the end cubicle of the toilets and would suck-off anyone who cares to enter. The guy in question seems a little embarrassed and there is much laughter and cheers. Then things settle back to normal, but I was intrigued. Unable to contain my curiosity I later get up and go across to the toilets. There are three cubicles, with a row of rather unpleasant-looking guys queuing up outside of the third, from which disgusting gurgling noises could be heard. Some of the waiting guys already have their cocks out and they’re wanking in impatience. Even as I watch, a grinning guy comes out, buckling up his pants, and another eagerly goes in. I return to the Bar and tell my friend what I've seen. He suggests I set up in the adjoining cubicle and help the young guy out by sucking some of the cocks myself. I was more concerned for the lad himself. How many cocks did he suck that night…? And if I were in his place, how many could I have taken…?