A man looking to explore his sexuality

[Q9331]

Hi there

I am really looking to explore my sexuality and looking to get into the gay/bisexual lifestyle. Does anyone have advice on where to start with this new part of my life?

Thanks for the info if you had been here previously.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

Hi there

I am really looking to explore my sexuality and looking to get into the gay/bisexual lifestyle. Does anyone have advice on where to start with this new part of my life?

Thanks for the info if you had been here previously.

Have you actually done anything with another man yet or only fantasized? Are you single or married? Are you in a large city or a small town? If you could give us some more information, it would help us in giving you advice. Also, how old are you? I'm married and love helping other married men explore their sexuality.

 

[saintcero]

Hi there

I am really looking to explore my sexuality and looking to get into the gay/bisexual lifestyle. Does anyone have advice on where to start with this new part of my life?

Thanks for the info if you had been here previously.

SilverDaddies would be a good place to start. Just get a subscription for $5 per month and see who is near you.

 

[mtsnowrider]

SilverDaddies would be a good place to start. Just get a subscription for $5 per month and see who is near you.

Or check it out for free

 

[HenryApril]

Squirt.org is a great site. You can engage in hot chat, post pix and videos, and it has guides to local bathhouses, ABS, and places to hook up. I never used it for the purpose, but you can arrange dates/meets there

 

[Terrylipstick]

Sniffles and Adam 4adam are sometimes good (I’ve had both good and bad experiences with both). Check out any nearby adult bookstores…. Find a booth with a gloryhole, drop your tokens and be patient. Cock will come

 

[Terrylipstick]

And sucking your first one through a hole in the wall will give you a disconnect that may help you do it your first time. It worked for me and dozens of guys I’ve talked to and chatted with. It’s hit or miss sometimes…. See if you line it

 

[Bisexguy70]

Hi there

I am really looking to explore my sexuality and looking to get into the gay/bisexual lifestyle. Does anyone have advice on where to start with this new part of my life?

Thanks for the info if you had been here previously.

This id a good start. I discovered my bi side almost 9 yrs ago. Ive had some incredible experiences. Lucky started on cl personals where i found my FWB. But since they dont exist, its a little more difficult if you just wsnt NSA hook ups. But know theres a lot of men in your position.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

Sniffles and Adam 4adam are sometimes good (I’ve had both good and bad experiences with both). Check out any nearby adult bookstores…. Find a booth with a gloryhole, drop your tokens and be patient. Cock will come

I agree about Sniffies and Adam4Adam. Good and bad experiences on both. Be really careful, and especially NEVER use your phone number! If anyone asks to call or text, drop them right away. Never share that kind of information with anyone until you've gotten to know them to the point you can actually trust them with that kind of information. If you use an email address, make sure it's an "anonymous" one completely unconnected with anything else in your life. If you're on the downlow, you have to keep things unconnected. That's why I play only with other married men.

 

[Terrylipstick]

I agree about Sniffies and Adam4Adam. Good and bad experiences on both. Be really careful, and especially NEVER use your phone number! If anyone asks to call or text, drop them right away. Never share that kind of information with anyone until you've gotten to know them to the point you can actually trust them with that kind of information. If you use an email address, make sure it's an "anonymous" one completely unconnected with anything else in your life. If you're on the downlow, you have to keep things unconnected. That's why I play only with other married men.

Outstanding advice

 

[Jacktrew]

Honestly, I would start out here or in reddit. Find groups and things that interest you. Reach out to guys that seem to match. Most would be glad to chat until you can be comfortable enough to meet up in real life for a cup of coffee.

Don't feel pressured to join or get an app. Too much for free out there and filled with guys that will take it slow and how you want it.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I agree about Sniffies and Adam4Adam. Good and bad experiences on both. Be really careful, and especially NEVER use your phone number! If anyone asks to call or text, drop them right away. Never share that kind of information with anyone until you've gotten to know them to the point you can actually trust them with that kind of information. If you use an email address, make sure it's an "anonymous" one completely unconnected with anything else in your life. If you're on the downlow, you have to keep things unconnected. That's why I play only with other married men.

I had that exact bad experience in adam 4 adam. A dumb move i gave my ph number to this guy. Next thing you know the guys cyber bullying me and black mailed me. He sent a text showing all kinds of info about where I lived, property values and threatened to use that info against me. Scared the out of me!!

Good advice!!

 

[starfish71]

What do you see as the “lifestyle”? That could mean anything from engaging in physical activities to marching in pride parades…

 

[Good_Feet]

If you're in my area I'll give you a hand. And a mouth.

 

[paulman999]

PM me to discuss and for some suggestions…

 

[RIPAphrodite]

Hi there

I am really looking to explore my sexuality and looking to get into the gay/bisexual lifestyle. Does anyone have advice on where to start with this new part of my life?

Thanks for the info if you had been here previously.

Beautiful post

 

[ImpishSeraph]

I prefer sucking cock with my panties off, but I it's ok for him to still have them on

 

[Jacktrew]

I had that exact bad experience in adam 4 adam. A dumb move i gave my ph number to this guy. Next thing you know the guys cyber bullying me and black mailed me. He sent a text showing all kinds of info about where I lived, property values and threatened to use that info against me. Scared the out of me!!

Good advice!!

And those are exactly the reasons most guys prefer a level of anonymity to real life connections.

 

[Britva415]

I am really looking to explore my sexuality and looking to get into the gay/bisexual lifestyle. Does anyone have advice on where to start with this new part of my life?

Look for Patrick Marano's Youtube channel. He has tons of videos about what to expect from cruising, bathhouses, apps and all kinds of different aspects of men having sex with men.