bedroom games to play with Dom

[NewIndianSub]

Hi,

My Dom has asked me to come up with some games to play in the bedroom. Unfortunately whatever I've come across on the internet in general have been quite tame.

Does anyone have any ideas? Do let me know!

NIS

 

[victoria_cummings]

Care to share what you have come across, and what you consider tame first?

 

[subwannabe]

First, it seems kind of lazy for him to get you to do this. Sounds more like the job description of the dom rather than the sub. But, since there is no one size fits all, I'll give you my opinion which is you are kind of wasting your time trying to find a game that is already established. It's hard to find one that matches your interests. I think you should design and make your own game. You could keep it kind of simple by using either a deck of cards or some dice and then make a list of outcomes on paper as to what happens depending on what randomly comes up. Or, you could play some kind of version of strip poker or even buy a spinner and write down outcomes of what happens depending on what the spinner lands on. This way you can come up with outcomes that interest the two of you. Make easier outcomes for the things that would come up the most and special outcomes for things that come up more rarely (like a joker in cards for example or a yahtzee in dice). The easier outcomes could be the ones that you would enjoy the most and the less frequent outcomes could be very special treats that he would love the most, the ones that you wouldn't want to do on a regular basis but those once in a while treats that he would really look forward to. You could either design everything by yourself or he could help you pick out some of the outcomes as well. Guys usually like variety so make a bunch of different outcomes so that after playing several games you have experienced several different outcomes, forms of sex, or whatever it is you want.

 

[Etoile]

First, it seems kind of lazy for him to get you to do this. Sounds more like the job description of the dom rather than the sub.

And it yet seems quite common around here...

 

[gluttonne]

And it yet seems quite common around here...

I can't speak for everyone, but if I am in a D/s relationship and I make a request to my sub like this, it's not me trying to get her to "do my job". It's an assignment.

The exact parameters of this kind of relationship obviously vary. Without knowing a lot more about this particular relationship and the people in it, I couldn't speculate as to why he has asked this. Maybe he wants to encourage her (I'm assuming NIS is female, my apologies if I am wrong) to be creative, or to find out more about what she enjoys without seeming so "pedestrian" as to flat out ask. Maybe he's looking to collaborate on some fun-time activities. It may be that he thinks this will play to her strengths, or get her to implicitly consent to boundary expansion he hasn't thought of yet (her post here looks to me as though she is looking to do that).

NIS, the suggestions above sound like a decent start. If you'd like to speak more as to what you have done and enjoyed, and/or what doesn't seem that enticing that you've seen, you're sure to get either more concrete ideas or at least more suggestions as to where to look for inspiration. Good luck.

 

[kinkydreams667]

NewIndianSub,

Right, that's really strange, he ought to know, what he want you to do to you.

 

[Tech_Director]

You do realize we call it "playing" for a reason.

Hi,

My Dom has asked me to come up with some games to play in the bedroom. Unfortunately whatever I've come across on the internet in general have been quite tame.

Does anyone have any ideas? Do let me know!

NIS

Sorry but if you can't find something you both enjoy to do with all the variety of things available in BDSM and find yourself bored, maybe you're trying too hard.

 

[submit4pleasure]

My personal favorite is to strip naked, walk into whatever room he's in, kneel in front of him, gather my long hair together & place it in his hand like a leash. Looking up at him, "Use me, please."
Makes me shiver!! Tame, I know, but my past Doms (& Domme) loved the surprise/unexpected factor of it.