Be my distraction? F4M

[westernbelle]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

 

[william1965]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

Hugs

 

[DoctorE3283]

Messaged you

 

[drbg17]

I totally understand and I sympathize as I go through that experience now myself. It sucks. Have a look at the ad I just posted a few minutes ago and you will understand why I posted it.

 

[TheEternalBeachBum]

WB,

First, best thoughts to you as you navigate the loss of someone you obviously cared about, whether romantically, platonically or otherwise. It’s a cliche, but still appropriate… it will get better with time.

Online relationships, perhaps due to their anonymity, are too often viewed as trivial, or secondary. Your feelings now scream the opposite; that even virtual relationships can matter, if you allow them, which you obviously did. I know I have great friends who only exist in my LIT world.

I won’t drone on here, so feel free to PM anytime. But regardless, I am rooting for you!

 

[penshockey1983]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

40s male here, love to chat about anything. I love humor and enjoy laughing about anything. I love dad jokes as well.

 

[westernbelle]

I wanted to say thank you to everyone who took the time to post here or to send me a private message. I wish I had the capacity to reply to each one of you, but I hope you will all understand that I don't right now, and extend me a little grace. I am really appreciative and I'm glad I posted, it really has helped me feel better. Thank you, all.

 

[william1965]

I wanted to say thank you to everyone who took the time to post here or to send me a private message. I wish I had the capacity to reply to each one of you, but I hope you will all understand that I don't right now, and extend me a little grace. I am really appreciative and I'm glad I posted, it really has helped me feel better. Thank you, all.

You are very welcome Glad you are feeling better

 

[Boredwithtnt]

Hope the messages at least brought you some cheer, sometimes it can be good to finally receive some needed attention.

 

[RealDealDom]

Oh wow! I know EXACTLY what you mean! We have to talk!

 

[DirtyDieselTech]

Unfortunately the only requirement you mentioned that I don't meet is the age as I am almost 35 but I really do hope that you find what you are looking for. I totally understand and have been in your shoes, atleast the break up part. It's not easy, having to move on n what not. I recently went through one myself. I'll never forget April 29 of this year.

 

[Funlvr74II]

Glad to hear you're feeling better. Door is always open.

 

[Boonerboy]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

You get an internet hug! Great to hear you are feeling better!!

 

[Gambit33]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

I know this exact feeling... I've lost someone close, they have vanished and I can't seem to find any of their other profiles... I've been trying to find them and apologize, but so far no luck. I know I messed up, and I just want to say I'm sorry. I feel like I meet almost all of your requirements for a potential distractor, I'm just not quite 40 yet. Is 36 close enough?

 

[Friedfred]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

I will let you lean on my shoulder and chat with you

 

[Sunset_Kira]

Sent you a message.

 

[soapylam]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

I know how it feels, I am personal messaging you. Let us get together and know each other deeply.

 

[Blueman5410]

Sadly, I KNOW how it feels. I understand there will be far too many folks to respond to--but let me know with a response at some point and we can chat some--if you wish. Please take care....

 

[ILuvTo69Her]

Sent you a message!

 

[Pace00Cel7]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

I know exactly how you feel. I am 48 male, married with 2 kids and have had to keep online relationships a secret. I have had 3 end sadly. 1 because my wife found our conversation. I would be very happy to trade stories with you if you are interested.

 

[Peachlover]

Hello! I have not done the secret online relationship thing, but I do align with everything you described. Although I am well beyond my forties if that matters. Let’s chat. Could be fun, and maybe more than that.

 

[fatherjohnaz]

I've been there before. It's not an easy road to travel, but at the end of this journey you have started, there is a beautiful place to sit and enjoy the rest of the day. Hold my hand as we walk the rocky road to that blissful place. I will be with you all the way, encouraging, loving, listening, and helping in any way I can.

Me

 

[Ranger75th]

Who knows what it’s like to have a secret online relationship end and have to just go on about your life, carrying those feelings of loss and heartbreak around inside without anyone knowing? When you just want to curl up in a ball and cry, but you can’t. I’m not looking for another relationship, just someone to commiserate on how hard breakups are, esp. when you can’t lean on your friends or family support like in an open, “normal” relationship… Someone to help fill that void that got left behind when things ended. Not gonna lie, though - the best potential distractor would be good-looking, active, smart, over 40, and possessing of a really good sense of humor. About me - I am mid 40’s, wife, mom, educated, professional. I would describe myself as very attractive, in shape, sexual, intelligent, and kind. Again, not looking for a replacement relationship, just temporary comfort and distraction as I lick my wounds.

50 male here. I also need someone to talk to and keep me distracted from the ongoing trash fires of my life.

 

[westernbelle]

My post really seemed to resonate with a lot of people, as evidenced by the many replies and messages I continue to receive. I just wanted to again express my thanks to everyone that reached out, especially those that shared their own experiences or offered kind words.