Be honest.

[catalina_francisco]

Again, thank you all.

Most especially my heartfelt thanks to Catalina for sending words that gave me hope. Thank you so much, Catalina. You are truly a credit to this board and to our overall community.

Awww shucks, you'll ruin my reputation as icy bitch from hell!! You're welcome.http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1372/535079392_f8b8c0b2d0_t.jpg

Catalina

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Dude.. take care of you and yours.

The rest will wait and keep the outside influences to a minimum - all they do is muddy the waters when clarity of thought is what is called for.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Awww shucks, you'll ruin my reputation as icy bitch from hell!!
Catalina

Your reputation is safe with me, cat

 

[BiBunny]

Awww shucks, you'll ruin my reputation as icy bitch from hell!! Your welcome.http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1372/535079392_f8b8c0b2d0_t.jpg

Catalina

Wait, wait...I thought that was me.

Homburg, my thoughts are still with you and yours.

 

[Homburg]

Things are more calm today. My folks are going to watch the kids, and my wife and I are going to go out and have dinner at a nice restaurant.

Kudos to catalina for the words on remembering why we started our journey in the first place. That hit me very, very hard, and made me remember a much younger her, and amuch younger me, and why that much younger me fell in love with her. That was something that I'd lost sight of in the anger and sense of betrayal, and something I needed to be reminded of.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Things are more calm today. My folks are going to watch the kids, and my wife and I are going to go out and have dinner at a nice restaurant.

Kudos to catalina for the words on remembering why we started our journey in the first place. That hit me very, very hard, and made me remember a much younger her, and amuch younger me, and why that much younger me fell in love with her. That was something that I'd lost sight of in the anger and sense of betrayal, and something I needed to be reminded of.

Glad things are better for you guys today. We were all worried. I send my love to the both of you

 

[rida]

Things are more calm today. My folks are going to watch the kids, and my wife and I are going to go out and have dinner at a nice restaurant.

Kudos to catalina for the words on remembering why we started our journey in the first place. That hit me very, very hard, and made me remember a much younger her, and amuch younger me, and why that much younger me fell in love with her. That was something that I'd lost sight of in the anger and sense of betrayal, and something I needed to be reminded of.

I have not been in your shoes and cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. But Catalina was spot on making you remember why you fell in love in the first place.

Whenever I feel like I cannot handle my marriage anymore, whenever I think that I rather be alone than having to deal with another day of those struggles and stresses ... I get myself to remember why I felt in love with my Husband, why I moved across continents to be with him, and what did I see us achieve in our relationship that made me know that he was The One.

Great that you can have time alone the two of you. Talk it over, go down memory lane. From the glimpse into your relationship that transpare from your posts and pics, you have a something precious and wonderful going on. Look at this ordeal as a step toward something even more so.

 

[Homburg]

Great that you can have time alone the two of you. Talk it over, go down memory lane. From the glimpse into your relationship that transpare from your posts and pics, you have a something precious and wonderful going on. Look at this ordeal as a step toward something even more so.

Her parents are out of town, and I went over to their house to feed the cat, and I found myself wandering around the house remembering how much time we spent there, all of these incredible conversations, little stolen moments, tapping on her bedroom window, coming by even just for a few minutes to tuck her in and give her a kiss good night. Just the silly stuff that young people in love do.

And then I stood in the foyer looking at this picture of he rin her wedding dress. She looked so beautiful. I don't think I told her that, as I was too busy trying to not throw up from nerves.

I need to remember these things. Need to.

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And, on an utterly unrelated note, if the guy you're seeing is married, and isn't telling his wife about you, is sneaking around on her to see you, and sneaking off on company time to hang out with you, he's probably not an honest and forthright guy. A friend of mine is in the process of hurting because of this very fact.

I'm not saying that people shouldn't do this. It's my life, do whatcha want. I'm just saying don't expect that guy to be honest and forthright with you, y'know? Be prepared for the heartache, and realise that the fault isn't yours, it's his. Your only error was in getting together with him in the first place.