Be honest.

[Homburg]

http://i238.photobucket.com/albums/ff83/HomburgHat/random%20crap/100_4925.jpg

Yes, that is what you think it is. Yes, it has been cut in half.

I don't really want to talk about it, and I don't particularly want a thread full of sympathy. I did not post this to garner hugs or support. I posted it to give people advice:

Be honest with your SO, even if it hurts, because the end result of lies is a whole lot of crying and heartache.

I'm gonna go somewhere and find some alone time.

 

[graceanne]

Um, ok. Not sure what's going on, but *hugs*

 

[nh23]

Oh, Homburg. I'm so sorry... *hugs*

 

[catalina_francisco]

http://i238.photobucket.com/albums/ff83/HomburgHat/random%20crap/100_4925.jpg

Yes, that is what you think it is. Yes, it has been cut in half.

I don't really want to talk about it, and I don't particularly want a thread full of sympathy. I did not post this to garner hugs or support. I posted it to give people advice:

Be honest with your SO, even if it hurts, because the end result of lies is a whole lot of crying and heartache.

I'm gonna go somewhere and find some alone time.

Hmmm, you do realise with posting just this little bit, that people's imagination is probably going to be a lot worse than whatever the reality is right now. I know it isn't anyone elses business, but when you put it out there, minds do wander. Hope you are OK and that it is all more emotional than need be, and things get back to where you are happier.

Catalina

 

[Homburg]

I understand, Catalina, but thank you for the advice.

No one's mind needs to wander. People can PM me if they wish. I'm just not interested in telling the story here in public.

And I really do not want sympathy or hugs or anything posted here. PM me.

My whole point was to show the consequences of a dishonesty.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Dishonest people suck

I could fill a book but then I've had lots of years to attract the dishonest types.

 

[HottieMama]

My PMs are open if you need to talk...

Until then, just know you have a friend.

 

[BiBunny]

If you need to talk and/or vent, my PM box is always open. You have always been great about listening to me. I'm sorry you're going through a tough time.

 

[FurryFury]

Sorry but you are so getting a *HUG*

That's just the way it goes here at Lit.

 

[graceanne]

Sorry but you are so getting a *HUG*

That's just the way it goes here at Lit.

Well put! *claps hands*

We'll hug you if we want, dammit!

*hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs**hugs*

So, there.

 

[Netzach]

PM away, I'm not the intrusive sort, though, so if you don't I just hope you hang in there and wish you well.

 

[Luvkitty33]

I know you don't want hugs, but it's in my nature, so.........................
BIG HUGS FOR YOU!!! Feel better!!

 

[Homburg]

There are some beautiful people on this board. Thank you, all of you.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Yes, we are all about hugs here {{{{{{Homburg}}}}}} We're also all here if you need to talk.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I'll add my hugs in here , too. Also my full agreement in the importance of honesty. Sometimes telling the truth hurts, and hearing the truth can hurt. But lies, deceit, and cover-ups hurt most of all and at least for me are unforgivable.

<<<HUGS>>>>

 

[LittleJade]

I am so very sorry...

 

[the_pet]

deceit ruins everything...

http://i120.photobucket.com/albums/o180/onesilentfeather/2potz81.gif

pet


sorry about your troubles

 

[bholderman]

Being a recent victim of the same thing, I feel for you, Homburg.

I'll add my hugs in here , too. Also my full agreement in the importance of honesty. Sometimes telling the truth hurts, and hearing the truth can hurt. But lies, deceit, and cover-ups hurt most of all and at least for me are unforgivable.

<<<HUGS>>>>

 

[myinnerslut]

i am really very sorry that you are upset right now.

 

[sexycaz22]

Like graceanne, I don't know what's happening here, but nonetheless, I wanted to add on the hugs-

{{{{HUGS}}}}

Sorry that you are going through a tough time.

My PMs are always open, too.

 

[northwoods_sub]

{{{{{Homburg}}}}}

So sorry that you are going through this.

Lies are the one thing that I cannot abide by.

 

[elusive_buttrfly]

Seems dishonesty is more common than ever anymore, especially on the net. A good friend of mine was just hurt deeply by someone he thought cared for him. I recently wrote a poem about it and submitted it on Lit.

Good luck to you, and I hope things get better. *hugs*

 

[Recidiva]

Homburg, I'm sorry.

I second the honesty vote. Third marriage. Learned the hard way.

Best of hopes for healing.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

I've been there, I know what it feels like.

Drop me a line if you need to, bro.

 

[Homburg]

Again, thank you all.

Most especially my heartfelt thanks to Catalina for sending words that gave me hope. Thank you so much, Catalina. You are truly a credit to this board and to our overall community.