Bdsm

[Kitte]

Just curious [read nosey] lil ol me again wondering about the perversions of my fellow Literoticans.

So tell me how do you feel about BDSM and do you post or lurk over in BDSM talk?

 

[Guest]

It brings back the memory of when I was a prisoner of war in Chechynia

 

[islandman]

I lurk. It fascinates me, but i'm not willing to admit it yet.

 

[Bob_Bytchin]

B&D...yes, it is interesting, and my wife and I experiment. But we're not pros by any means.

S&M?...no, we really don't delve into pain for pleasure. Little bites and nibbles aren't really S&M.

D&S....yes, we both love Dominance and Submission. Neither of us is the master or sub....we take turns and try to come up with new, exciting roleplaying experiences.

D&D...oh yeah, I love D&D, especially AD&D.

 

[Ishmael]

I'm a sexual empath so bondage and D/s do interest me.

I'm just not interested in the BDSM forum. Not based on any particular prejudice. I'm just not interested.

With the right partner I'm sure that we can experiment together to our mutual satisfaction.

Ishmael

 

[Lancecastor]

I think most of what goes on in BDSM is actually quite commonplace in most happy bedrooms.

The wierd shit that scares people comes from:

1. Puritanical western culture that makes us think it's "bad"

2. Superficial BDSM types with all their jargon, obtuse rules and judgementalism masking emotionally fucked up & abusive behavior

3. Extreme BDSM types into snuff, blood, etc.

Most bdsm stuff is totally normal and leads to nothing more dangerous than the most intense orgasms you've ever had.

Lance " Try It, You'll Like It!" Castor

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Yes, I have been to the BDSM Board, I think I posted once a long time ago.

I go in and read some of the threads but .. I am not much into BDSM .. I just go to read when the other boards are slow..

 

[bad kitty]

(love the new av Lance)

Yeah we are into BDSM, and yes I lurk and post at BDSM Talk. Not too much lately since the place has changed a bit and my mentor has left. We are totally into D/s and bondage, but I don't care for much S&M . Mild to moderate S&M is good though.

 

[morninggirl5]

I don't think many of the people who aren't interested in BDSM are going to even open your thread to respond in the poll.

I could be wrong though.


The other option might be "I'm interested in BDSM, but i no longer post at the BDSM Talk forum here."

 

[Laurel]

I think it's great when people can express themselves sexually and engage in whatever sexplay they desire.

Personally, it's not my taste. Too much roleplay & props, not enough actual sex. Plus I'm not really a sub or a Dom - I don't take direction for shit, and I'm too lazy to boss anyone around. But for those who are into it, I completely and unequivocably support your right to do whatever you like with the consenting partner of your choice.

 

[A Desert Rose]

The guy with the chest

has hit the mark with his post regarding BDSM and that particular forum.

The guy with the great face (Ishmael) has also posted in a manner I would agree with. ~smiling~

 

[lovetoread]

I go to it.

I post on it.

I enjoy it.

 

[Kitte]

I go to it.

I post on it.

I enjoy it.

And I for one am very glad you do

 

[MissTaken]

You will find me there.

Somedays, I enjoy the forum.
Somedays, I hate it.

I am not giving up on it though.

I do enjoy many facets of BDSM. No person truly enjoys them all, but all people have their kinks.

I think many people are into "BDSM", but chose not to use monikers, titles, names or anything of that nature.

They just enjoy their relationshps as they enjoy them.
As do we all.

 

[Sillyman]

I'm not one for the BDSM forum, as it keeps scaring me off one way or another the way people talk about it on the GB. As for BDSM itself, I enjoy almost all sexual practices, although I'm not one to let my sexual behaviours spill over into other facets of my life.



And yes, I like D&D too.

 

[patient1]

I don't identify with the various roles, & I consider sex & violence seperate activities.

Even so , I admire the communication & trust required in those relationships. I used to have a number of friends on that forum, & I'd visit to read up on them, & occaisonally post.

 

[perks]

I used to go over there, and sometimes still lurk. However, it's uncomfortable. The unity is gone.

 

[Sillyman]

Before, the unity was scary. I got to intimidated to want to post there since I wasn't part of the group.

Now the politics of that board seem scary. THe GB has it's own alliances and cliques without me going over there to re-learn a new set.

 

[islandman]

I used to go over there, and sometimes still lurk.

Was that you peeking in my bedroom window?????




don't you just love being taken out of context?

 

[perks]

Was that you peeking in my bedroom window?????




don't you just love being taken out of context?

I don't have to peek, I've already seen, contextboy.

 

[Quimmy]

Um, sometimes I like to please my girl all day. Like drawing her a scented bath and feeding her peeled grapes all afternoon, then attending to her other "needs".

And other times, I find it thrilling to lay back relax and let her do all the work.

I suppose that would be D/s. But most of the time, it's pretty equal.

The BDSM board creeps me out though. Bondage is a huge turnoff. Like someone said, those props and crap. Yuck. If there was an interesting discussion though, I'd lurk.