BDSM: You are a...

[HandsInTheDark]

http://bdsmtest.org/

The questions are a bit simpleminded and there's no deep analysis being done - it basically tallies your answers and gives you back percentages. It might be useful in thinking about characters and describing them. It didn't ask for an email address, yay. Note: 8 pages of multiple choice questions.

There weren't any real surprises in the answers I got.

 

[le_kitty]

http://bdsmtest.org/

The questions are a bit simpleminded and there's no deep analysis being done - it basically tallies your answers and gives you back percentages. It might be useful in thinking about characters and describing them. It didn't ask for an email address, yay. Note: 8 pages of multiple choice questions.

There weren't any real surprises in the answers I got.

I saw this and I thought wouldn't this be in the BDSM forum and then I saw your reference to character creation. I've done the quiz for myself but never for my characters, although making a profile for them does seem intriguing now. The results were no surprise, though I found the order and quantitive quality interesting.

 

[Ewobbit]

Ayup. No real surprises.

 

[Darkniciad]

It's geared toward the truly serious, that's for sure. For someone who just crosses the boundaries every so often to put a little spice in things, it's a lot of "edge-of-neutral" or full-on disagree.

No real surprises with voyeur/exhibitionist near the top, ( my wife was a camgirl when I met her ) all the slave/master/masochist/sadist/pet/owner stuff in single digits at the bottom, and a few things like bondage hovering around in the middle at about the same percentage as vanilla.

Even most of those middle things would have been down in the bottom before I met my wife.

Obvious reasons are obvious

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Over the years of my professional career I knew 1000s of fucked up people in the grips of the law, mental health, and addictions. And the cops, therapists, and judges aint nuthin to brag about.

I also know high functioning people...my kids and grandkids...who act right and treat others right.

Depicting winners and losers is no problem.

 

[49greg]

Back in the mid nineties, right after my first wife and I divorced, I spent a lot of time and money on prodigy and AOL chat rooms. I ventured into the BDSM rooms a few times and it was immediately obvious that those people took themselves very seriously.

In the rooms there was no humor or fun exchanges like in other rooms. At least none that I could get. There seemed to be a strict hierarchy and forced politeness that bordered on the bizarre. (BBW rooms were the most sexy, articulate and entertaining.) The few times I'd mentioned using bondage as a nothing more than a "bedroom game" to break the monotony, I got a LOT of cold shoulders. Could feel the keyboard getting frigid.

 

[PervOtaku]

Back in the mid nineties, right after my first wife and I divorced, I spent a lot of time and money on prodigy and AOL chat rooms. I ventured into the BDSM rooms a few times and it was immediately obvious that those people took themselves very seriously.

In the rooms there was no humor or fun exchanges like in other rooms. At least none that I could get. There seemed to be a strict hierarchy and forced politeness that bordered on the bizarre. (BBW rooms were the most sexy, articulate and entertaining.) The few times I'd mentioned using bondage as a nothing more than a "bedroom game" to break the monotony, I got a LOT of cold shoulders. Could feel the keyboard getting frigid.

I've always pretty much assumed that the hardcore slavery stuff and the so-called "lifestyle" practitioners is only a small group in real life, though much better represented in BDSM fiction. Most people, myself included, wouldn't be able to keep it going on that level for very long.

Every hobby has a core group of people for which it is serious business, the difference you'll find is how well they are able to recognize that it's not serious business to other people, to be accepting of that, and to be cordial to people who are new, just curious, or merely dabbling.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

My high scores are PRIMAL, VANILLA, EXHIBITIONIST, and DOMINANT.

I'm instinctual...true. In JIMWORLD folks know who they are and what to do. If I don't know how to do it, I learn from the best. Its the most natural thing in the world to submit to a real master. but most of us know if youre the real deal or a poser.

 

[HandsInTheDark]

Back in the mid nineties, right after my first wife and I divorced, I spent a lot of time and money on prodigy and AOL chat rooms. I ventured into the BDSM rooms a few times and it was immediately obvious that those people took themselves very seriously.

In the rooms there was no humor or fun exchanges like in other rooms. At least none that I could get. There seemed to be a strict hierarchy and forced politeness that bordered on the bizarre. (BBW rooms were the most sexy, articulate and entertaining.) The few times I'd mentioned using bondage as a nothing more than a "bedroom game" to break the monotony, I got a LOT of cold shoulders. Could feel the keyboard getting frigid.

I've never fully understood this. If you aren't procreating, the only points of sex are bonding or fun. Bonding is too personal to share online and fun isn't supposed to be all that serious. So the über serious This is how it's Done folk strike me as off base.

That said, there's real and somewhat justifiable contempt for those who only roleplay it vs those who practice. Roleplay is great, just don't bring it up with lifestylers.

Dominants like to dominate, hence the name. Unfortunately some forget that the only domination they should be practicing is with their own submissive. They try to dominate the Internet and tell people how sex is supposed to be done. Online communities seem to get infected by this mindset very easily.

 

[TxRad]

I've never fully understood this. If you aren't procreating, the only points of sex are bonding or fun. Bonding is too personal to share online and fun isn't supposed to be all that serious. So the über serious This is how it's Done folk strike me as off base.

That said, there's real and somewhat justifiable contempt for those who only roleplay it vs those who practice. Roleplay is great, just don't bring it up with lifestylers.

Dominants like to dominate, hence the name. Unfortunately some forget that the only domination they should be practicing is with their own submissive. They try to dominate the Internet and tell people how sex is supposed to be done. Online communities seem to get infected by this mindset very easily.

Don't make the mistake of assuming Doms on a website are even in the lifestyle. Most of the ones I've met in real life are the most open minded people you can imagine. They are interested in all modes of life. They are people watchers and understand far more about motives than most so called trained people.

I've sat in on several D/s chat rooms and it didn't take long to tell the posers from the real.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

I've never fully understood this. If you aren't procreating, the only points of sex are bonding or fun. Bonding is too personal to share online and fun isn't supposed to be all that serious. So the über serious This is how it's Done folk strike me as off base.

That said, there's real and somewhat justifiable contempt for those who only roleplay it vs those who practice. Roleplay is great, just don't bring it up with lifestylers.

Dominants like to dominate, hence the name. Unfortunately some forget that the only domination they should be practicing is with their own submissive. They try to dominate the Internet and tell people how sex is supposed to be done. Online communities seem to get infected by this mindset very easily.

You don't understand real dominance or real submission. Lemme put it this way, if God joined LIT and posted, YOUR COMMENT SUX what would be your reaction, KISS MY ASS TROLL! or GEE THANKS, BIG GUY!

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Don't make the mistake of assuming Doms on a website are even in the lifestyle. Most of the ones I've met in real life are the most open minded people you can imagine. They are interested in all modes of life. They are people watchers and understand far more about motives than most so called trained people.

I've sat in on several D/s chat rooms and it didn't take long to tell the posers from the real.

Naaah. Real Doms know, real subs know.

 

[TxRad]

Naaah. Real Doms know, real subs know.

Duh, that's what I said.