BDSM, the thrill of masochistic submission, your experience please.

[welshman]

I’m like to hear from women who enjoy being powerless, blindfolded, spanked, etc.
What goes on in your mind? This may sound corny but I’m thinking of writing a sequel to my story ‘Special Evening’ and I need some help getting into the mind of the female submissive receiving; enjoying; her first taste of more intense and elaborate BDSM (from a loving husband). So I’m asking for you to share your real experiences, how you responded, the fear/arousal conflict etc. Thanks.

 

[welshman]

...or a link to a good story, written from experience by a sub...?

 

[welshman]

Or, perhaps, you prefer a different approach?

I give all duteous women who found their will compelled to click on my thread no choice but to contribute as I ask.

Where's the smiley with the whip?....


I’d like to hear from women who enjoy being powerless, blindfolded, spanked, etc.
What goes on in your mind? This may sound corny but I’m thinking of writing a sequel to my story ‘Special Evening’ and I need some help getting into the mind of the female submissive receiving; enjoying; her first taste of more intense and elaborate BDSM (from a loving husband). So I’m asking for you to share your real experiences, how you responded, the fear/arousal conflict etc. Thanks.

 

[Killishandra]

Sorry, I don't have any real S&M experience (other than getting slapped on the butt during vanilla sex, and getting slap-happy with my friends) but I wonder why you'd ask for a link to a story when you're kinda already *on* a story-site.

I hope someone steps in here and contributes first-hand, though.

Good luck!

 

[welshman]

Sorry, I don't have any real S&M experience (other than getting slapped on the butt during vanilla sex, and getting slap-happy with my friends) but I wonder why you'd ask for a link to a story when you're kinda already *on* a story-site.

I hope someone steps in here and contributes first-hand, though.

Good luck!

I need to know someone who's already read a story that's good rather than trawl through them...

 

[catalina_francisco]

Maybe try some of the recommendations in the Shameless Plug thread at the top of BDSM Cafe...or read some of ours if so inclined. Have fun.

Catalinahttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/liebe/b18.gif

 

[Etoile]

Or, perhaps, you prefer a different approach?

I give all duteous women who found their will compelled to click on my thread no choice but to contribute as I ask.

I understand what you were going for with this tactic - it's frustrating to see people have been viewing your thread but not responding - but for future reference this would probably only serve to get our respective danders up.

For me, my first real BDSM experience (beyond a few tyings-up, beyond some light ass-slapping) was a violation. I had consented to wax play, but I said I didn't want to be penetrated. Once I was tied up and had wax all over me, though, the top whispered in my ear: "I know you said not to penetrate you, but I'm going to do it anyway." (We had an audience for this.) The actual penetration was ever so gentle - probably just a finger - but my mind was screaming oh my god, this can't be happening, I said I didn't want to do this... Did I like it? I don't know. It was a mixture of pleasure (at the act), anger (at the violation), and surprise (that I enjoyed it).

I don't know if that helps at all...I guess it touches on your fear/arousal thing a bit.

 

[welshman]

I understand what you were going for with this tactic - it's frustrating to see people have been viewing your thread but not responding - but for future reference this would probably only serve to get our respective danders up.

Hopefully your collective dander are located at the edges of your lovely lips so to raise a smile, such was my clumsy intent.

I think I shall write my story and seek an experienced editor to peruse and comment on it before I submit (!) and amend if comments suggest.

 

[welshman]

Maybe try some of the recommendations in the Shameless Plug thread at the top of BDSM Cafe...or read some of ours if so inclined. Have fun.

Catalinahttp://www.smilies4you.de/content/liebe/b18.gif

Thank you, I shall browse

 

[Masters_aphrodite]

Online journal

Feel free to read my online journal. Yesterday's entry Master used me quite hard.

It may be more than you are looking for or may help fill in some answers.
Good luck on your story.

http://www.fire-runner.com/cgi-bin/journals/journal?user=Masters_aphrodite