BDSM in Real Life

[Sir_Winston54]

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[catalina_francisco]

I don't like how they've encroached into our personal lives, but they have. It's just something some of us have to deal with.

Yep, and what some don't realise is just how much our lives are checked out even for the average Mr & Mrs. Joneses. Use your credit card or ATM card to pay for something instead of cash and be sure someone is taking note of that information...where you have been, what you bought, where you bought it etc. It is becoming more and more a big brother society everyday with privacy and anonymity things of the past.

The plus is, you don't have to see a picture of the real me. It's FRIGHTENING, and not in a good way.

LOL, I am sure it is far from frightening, though I am sure it is Domly enough to keep fair maidens in line.

Catalina

 

[smart_and_sexytxgirl]

I'm curious through all this talk, what is so wring with people knowing you like rough, kinky sex?
I mean unless you are married, or making videos (available to students, clients, co-workers, etc) or doing something illegal, big fucking deal. I like sex, often kinky sex, so sue me! The world needs more sex.
See I say we need a day, complete with a parade. Get over it
Am I desensitized?

Note: as my friend said the other day "there's a difference between being a slut and being sexual, and you are sexual, big deal" amen girl!

I would say you are desensitized. There are people in my life who would never look at me the same if they knew about this side of my life. That's why I'm careful.

I wasn't just addressing you, it was society as a whole.

And I get the professionalism thing. I even get the parenting thing.
I'm not saying we should practice our kink in front of the world, there's a time and place for that (just like vanilla sex) it's common sense :/
But who cares if someone sees you at a munch? Is it so awful to be curious or sexual? You aren't fucking everyone right there at the restaurant.
I guess I am desensitized but I'm also somewhat private.

It's not wrong to be curious. I'm just insanely cautious where some things are concerned.

I don't need to get over anything, but I think perhaps you are more than a little naive if you do not understand why some may not want to shout to the rooftops they are living in a kink related relationship. As much as some of us are happy and proud of our relationships, just like the vanilla folk are, there are professions that are not that proud and understanding, and some who even would view you as a risk....and even some regular employers who just do not want staff working for them which they feel do not measure up to their ethics, morals or ideals. If you are someone who is employed by someone like that, or in a profession where it could be seen as a huge liability (and there are many which people invest a lot of money, effort and time into training for and reaching a level of professionalism in their field) that is only safe when dealt with through ending your employment and possibly any chance of working in your profession again, it is smarter to take that into account before exposing yourself and risking your loss of income and financial future. It can also result in the loss of children in custody battles or through governent agencies deeming you a risk to your children's well being because of your kink.

Personally I am not someone who is wishing and hoping for the world to accept my kink and embrace me for it, or kink in general...it would not change anything in my life, nor do I tend to care if others would approve or not....but I do need to be aware of repercussions if it comes to the attention of certain people and act accordingly. And yes, in some places it is illegal, but even in places it is legal, it can still be used against those involved to ruin and end careers and employment so that seems to hold little protection.

Catalina

Amen! You took the words right out of my mouth!