BDSM dating web sites

[SubmissiveDove5]

Well, Master has asked me to find a girlfriend for myself (and for him in the future). I have been looking for someone, but I haven't had much success so far. I was just wondering if anyone could suggest some sites specializing in BDSM? I have already opened an account at alt.com. Are there any others. I am looking for someone who lives close by and who doesn't mind relocating.

 

[catalina_francisco]

It is not the easiest thing to do as many women do not like to feel they are being recruited to fulfil a male fantasy, or are being used under the guise of something else. This is not necessarily saying that is what the aim is of your Dominant, but as it is the most common scenario it is how many female submissives see it and thus are wary of replying. Best option is to be 100% honest in your advert and communication, and find someone who is looking for the same as you both want to find. If you are in any doubt as to where it will lead, tell them...it usually is appreciated and understood better than if they begin to suspect the future is an unknown quantity. As in all things, honesty encourages trust which is necessary.

As to sites...there are various. The common thing is to go for the big sites with the thought bigger must be better. LOL, not always. Master and I met through moonkissed which is a small site. We had both been on larger sites such as Alt with little success, but a lot of frustration with meeting people who did not fit what we wanted. More recently we have very happily had success from a larger site, but it is not a given. There are several sites now which are exclusively BDSM oriented....the more you are on, the more chances you have of finding the right one for you. Good luck with your search...patience is a virtue in these things and is worth it when you are rewarded with a submissive who understands and shares your goals and desires.

Catalina