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[joanne355]

CD in Boston seeks women and other CD/TVs

Talll, attractive CD invites interested women and other CDs to email and meet in the Boston area. I'm open minded and like intellectual stimulation as well as sensual fulfillment and would esp. enjoy meeting groups of women for dressing fun and role switching. I am not really a sub but enjoy assertive women.
Joanne

 

[Julien]

seeking

Attractive male Dom in Denver, 38 years old, seeking a submissive female for discreet play. Married or single. Message me or email me at julien_miller@hotmail.com

 

[Crue Jones]

Looking for Partner

Hello all, I am new to the board here and looking for someone. I am 21 year old bi-curious sub male, 5'10" 170 lbs in SoCal. Lookin for someone for light anal play and bdsm for cyber that could lead to discreet playtime. Email me if interested at radcrue1@yahoo.com

 

[SilverHyperion]

Hello All

I'm a 21 year old female who is interested in finding a Dom for a real time relationship, not just play. I give a lot of myself in relationships and try to please my Master in any way possible. I'm interested in almost everything, I think my only hard limits are sex before marriage, play rape, urine or feces play, and electroshock. I havent had much experience in a D/s relationship, so everything is still sort of new and I would like to learn. I live in Ohio, near the Michigan line. I look forward to replies

 

[TheCyberPoet]

I'm a 21 year old female who is interested in finding a Dom for a real time relationship, not just play.... my only hard limits are sex before marriage...

For Gawd's sake, get married and then go find a Dom... Just teasing.
Just be cautious -- you will (a) have a hard time finding a Dom who is willing to deal with that limitation, and (b) any Dom truly worth his salt can change your mind.

Best Wishes,
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[SilverHyperion]

Honestly the one Dom I had was working on that and it would have worked probably except that he then said he wasnt ready for a relationship and all that mumbo jumbo but what can you do? Keep on moving . And I expected to get that reaction too, most people find that hilarious like "how old are you?" and "are you sure your a virgin?" hahaha, its funny, but I wanted to add that because its an important thing to me and I wouldnt like to mislead anyone about what they would get. I like honesty but yes, its funny and what you wrote made me laugh too .

 

[TheCyberPoet]

It's not your age combined with your virginity that raised my eyebrows, but the expectation of having a true Dom while successfully retaining your virginity. I can appreciate the need and desire for at minimum a concerted, long-term relationship as a prerequisite (or, better yet, love), but specifically waiting for marriage may easily become tantamount to rushing someone into marriage simply for the purpose of sex as reward. I'm sure that by now you've heard all the cliches, such as "would you ever buy a car without driving it first?" and the inverse, "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" In the end, they are nothing more than cliches.
The reality is that sex is inherently pleasurable (whether as a part of devine providence or inherent design), that the bible does not specify whether to retain your virginity until marriage (the religious views are attributes of the practitioners, not the manual), and that it is a person issue for each person to decide for themselves (if they are lucky enough not to have it robbed from them by rape, date rape, etc). The first time can be either a joy or quite painful and disillusioning, depending on how knowledgeable and patient your partner is concerning foreplay, dilation, lubricants, et cetera -- and the actual circumstances of the event.
I won't be stupid enough to ask if you are sure you are a virgin -- in my mind, you are the only one capable of deciding that status for yourself.

My sub came to me a virgin, but like yourself, with a desire for perversions unfulfilled. At first I refused to take her virginity, and required that she beg three days in a row before I was willing, taking time each day to explain the complete ramifications of such a decision in order to make sure she was emotionally comfortable with it before proceeding. That was many years ago, and she has matured and grown wonderfully since then... But like yourself, she originally had an expectation of retaining her virginity until marriage. The point: your expectations will be changed by the right Dom.

Best Wishes,
=-= The CyberPoet

 

[Guest]

Though it's more rare in this day and age, there are still people who wait for marriage (or, at least, love) before they have sex. Why should a D/s relationship be any different than a 'nilla one?

Any true Dom will respect her wishes. After all, it is us subs who do hold the true control of the relationship.

 

[Laurab]

Until

Though it's more rare in this day and age, there are still people who wait for marriage (or, at least, love) before they have sex. Why should a D/s relationship be any different than a 'nilla one?

Any true Dom will respect her wishes. After all, it is us subs who do hold the true control of the relationship.

Until the sub falls for his/her dom/domme and isn't that what being a sub is all about willing giving complete control of themselves to their master/mistress It's a gift

 

[Guest]

Yes, submission is a gift.

By the way, have you ventured to Lit's Amateur Pic board?

 

[aerofreak]

I know this is just a random post, but...
is anyone gonna actually use the nice, new, short threads that MissTaken went to all the trouble to start?

for those people actively searching for that special someone, I have had much better luck with the new threads than with this one (one boy replied from here, but I've gotten 4 from the other thread).

just a thought for people looking for Dom/mes or subs - it's much easier than wading through all of these posts.

subs seeking Dom/mes - http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=127850

for Dom/mes seeking subs - http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=127849

 

[Domain Master]

I know this is just a random post, but...
is anyone gonna actually use the nice, new, short threads that MissTaken went to all the trouble to start?

for those people actively searching for that special someone, I have had much better luck with the new threads than with this one (one boy replied from here, but I've gotten 4 from the other thread).

just a thought for people looking for Dom/mes or subs - it's much easier than wading through all of these posts.

Yeah but, some of us like "wading through all of these posts" 'cos that's where we meet and keep in touch with friends old and new, Personally, I find these threads much more rewarding than the "Dom wants sub or sub looking for Dom" classified ads.
but, each to his/her own that's what i say so, i will refrain from offering you the advice to stay on there if you think it's that much better!
As far as I'm concerned, i like to correspond with anybody and everybody so, thanks for airing your thoughts and giving me something to respond to/disagree with.

DM.

 

[aerofreak]

well, I obviously still keep track of this thread, since I'm posting on it, but for My Girlfriend and Me, at least, the other threads have produced more replies (although this one has given some very good advice).

 

[Laurab]

I get there

Yes, submission is a gift.

By the way, have you ventured to Lit's Amateur Pic board?

as often as I can honey thanks for asking

 

[Guest]

I was asking because you have posted pics to most of your posts within this "ad".

 

[Domain Master]

Why should a D/s relationship be any different than a 'nilla one?
Any true Dom will respect her wishes. After all, it is us subs who do hold the true control of the relationship.

That is so very true BB, I whilst being Dom do know that My sub(s) is the one/are the ones, in charge of any given situation! no Dom worth Hissalt would ever take His sub beyond her limit or even ask her to something she would not be entirely comfortable with.
The myth that it is always the Dom that is in charge is just that,to caring, considerate and consetual people in a Dom/sub relationship! although limits are there to be stretched a little from time to time or otherwise how would our "play" ever progress?

DM.

 

[Guest]

Although limits are there to be stretched a little from time to time or otherwise how would our "play" ever progress?

Absolutely! There are still things I hold as limits with some Doms but not all.

 

[plzur her]

Re: I get there

as often as I can honey thanks for asking

Great Pic laura... I believe your sub.. but you look like you could make one awesome domme!! Very hot pic.. love it and thanks for sharing!

 

[Laurab]

I enjoy posting pics

I was asking because you have posted pics to most of your posts within this "ad".

And i like that you or anyone who would possibly look at the thread would be able to get a picture(pardon the pun) of who is speaking when I choose to post something like your avatar it gives an idea of whom I am talking to but thanks for asking.

 

[Guest]

Yes, avatars give people an idea of who you are. Even if someone doen't post their own pic on it other people still get an idea of their personality.

I have nothing wrong with a person posting a pic of themselves on their personal ad, but to post a pic on each post you make when there IS an Amateur Pic board is different.

 

[silken_kitten]

I fully agree with you on that Blessed
Very good point

Why don't you wander on over to the Am Pic board Laurab
we will welcome you with open arms

 

[blitzzzkreig]

small point

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[MissTaken]

Hey, look!

New digs for us!

I like how the interior decorator spiffed up the joint.

Great curtains and matching living room furniture.

All the beverages and condiments are readily available.

How cool is that?

Enjoy everyone and expect to see more of me on this thread.

I tended not to post when it was supposedly strictly personals, but for chit chat and discussion, I am here!

Thanks Blessed!

 

[~Dream~]

hi there Miss T , Blessed , sweet Silken , Hope all is going wonderful for you all..Its a beautiful nite here in Wisconsin where I am at a Wiccan coven meeting .. Blessed be

 

[SmirkingJack]

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