BBW Love

[NikiCole]

I've dated skinny women, large women, skinny men, large men, I like them all. Some more then others, but everyone of them have a unique attribute that draws me to them. I did notice that my time with a bbw last longer and more active in the bedroom. I didn't feel like I would break them. I "dated" one skinny woman, but she had no hips and little bee stings for breast. Reminded me of my ex husband.... Well I've had my blub for the day.

xoxo
Niki

 

[NikiCole]

ok another blurb....

Why do some men, not all but some who love a big'un find it hard to admit it in public?

Niki

 

[mutato]

My problem is always that I'm friends with that sleekly cute athletic girl that EVERY fucking guy wants, even back in highschool.
Currently the bestie is a talk athletic redhead who is just adorable and has the personality to match..so even if I meet a guy who seems into me, inevitably once they meet her they are blinded.
Or if we go out together I am completely invisible, or worse I get pity attention from wingmen so their friend can have my friend.



I have never been with a guy who I felt truly liked my body

From my own personal experiences, since the time I started noticing girls (and that was back in the 80s when the fitness craze was in full swing), every woman I've ever dated, loved, or lusted after has been a BBW. I am one guy who would desire you, not her.

The best explanation as to why I prefer BBW women is that to me, with their amazing curves, they are far more feminine than the women American society and culture appears to idolize these days.

 

[mutato]

Why do some men, not all but some who love a big'un find it hard to admit it in public?

Niki

In my humble opinion, it's because they have little or no self-confidence and are intimidated by society's pressure to be attracted to the type of women that our culture idolizes.

 

[morinphen]

To all of the curvy ladies on this thread...

I have always had a thing for curvier women. Don't know why, just the way I am wired I guess. Something about a woman with hips will do it to me every time.

I married my wife not because she is a bbw, but because her and I had found a connection that I never had with any other woman. We both love watching baseball and hockey, and going bowling (we actually met at a bowling alley).

I understand there needs to be an attraction in order to get things going. But rest assured ladies, when you meet the one you are supposed to be with, what you look like/weigh/whatever will not matter.

Far be it for me to tell anyone what to do, but if you are feeling bad about being unable to find that special person, try going places and do activities that are fun and you are interested in, maybe there will be someone there who shares your interests/hobbies and you find something in common and go from there. Ever notice how you never really find what you're looking for until you stop looking for it?

After reading a lot of the posts from you lovely ladies, I would be proud to call any of you my friends. You are beautiful and do not let anyone tell you otherwise.

Sorry for the length of this post, just felt like I should say what has been on my mind after reading this thread.

 

[crazy4cock]

Well said, when it happens it will be for many reasons not just attraction but common likes and shared views.
I have always been a BBW and have always been lucky to find men who want me.
Love always strikes when you least expect it...Met my husband at volleyball game...you never know.

 

[ohiorobert]

Bbw

I would shout from the roof tops that I love BBW....and be proud to have her on my arm

 

[NikiCole]

Good evening lovelies!! How is everyone?? Hope everyone is well. I am hopelessly bored tonight. Can't sleep...

 

[NikiCole]

Morning lovelies. Again, I am bored.

 

[Lookinguphill]

Morning lovelies. Again, I am bored.

Good Morning Niki. How are you doing this morning?

 

[NikiCole]

Hello, everyone. I survived the horrible winds here last night. How are you all this afternoon? Since it seems kinda quiet in here I think I will ask a few questions...

BBWs, what sexual position is best? On top, missionary, from behind. I am not a huge fan of riding. I always feel like I'm gonna crush a guy. And missionary is boring to me unless I'm tied up.

 

[braincum]

How else could I take in your wondrous Curves?

X-ed out, my bad

 

[RjThoughts]

As a big and strong enough guy (6' 1", 213 lbs) to respond strongly and avidly to your large, lithe, lovely form gyrating upon my stiff rod as you strode me, the only question would be which position would give you more sensuous pleasure, facing me or riding me cowboy backwards...mmmmm....

Wow, quite the personal answer. She asked GENERAL questions, not what would you do to her.

 

[braincum]

Oops

Overly enthusiastic, I guess.

My bad.

Later...

 

[NikiCole]

um... wow.

Thank you Rj, it was my fault though, asking a question like that , I knew it would illicit some responses like that. But I generally am interested.

 

[Bugsexygirl12]

Mmm I'm a horny BBw who always love som fun

 

[RjThoughts]

Thank you Rj, it was my fault though, asking a question like that , I knew it would illicit some responses like that. But I generally am interested.

AS the husband of a curvy lady, I know what you were going for, asking what positions the ladies like. She asked a similar question on a different Forum, and received over 100 direct messages, all of which were poorly written and never correctly answered her question.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Like I needed another thread to subscribe to...

Ok storm has passed and I'm stalking RJ a bit Thought I'd post in here and say "howdy" ..

 

[RjThoughts]

For the trolls and lurkers:

The next one that PMs a lady that answers Niki's question will have their account sent to a moderator for harassment!

Get it!

Do NOT harass the women, because if you do, they won't be in here. Be satisfied with what they say.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

Hello, everyone. I survived the horrible winds here last night. How are you all this afternoon? Since it seems kinda quiet in here I think I will ask a few questions...

BBWs, what sexual position is best? On top, missionary, from behind. I am not a huge fan of riding. I always feel like I'm gonna crush a guy. And missionary is boring to me unless I'm tied up.

OK, let me preface this by saying I started not to respond because sexual openness is often mistaken here..

However, I'll take my chances. I'm 5"2', 226 and I prefer doggie style. There are a number of reasons for this, but one if them *is* comfort, more pleasure for me, and access to other regions..lol

I don't like "riding" either. I do not think it's because of my weight, though. It's just uncomfortable for me AND my legs get tired. I suppose if I had bars or gym rings mounted above the bed, I could use my arms more to support myself, as opposed to just squatting or leaning forward onto his chest. Both of those things present other problems..

Missionary is boring, but legs up and over my shoulders isn't bad, but it can hurt. I have a posterior uterus, which might also be why doggie and anal suit me..who knows.

HTH, Nikki.

 

[big_heart_nerd]

happy to see the BBW love "growing" (ha pun) as a chubby chaser and a bbw lover myself I will not this die down. however it is growing so much even in the porn ring so there may be hope for man kind stand proud and get those skeletons a big mac and love the joys of being a chubby chaser

 

[NikiCole]

You know the bars or rings seem like a good idea. I know using the wall behind a guy for balance is good, but if you have hardwood floors, the bed can move....

 

[big_heart_nerd]

You know the bars or rings seem like a good idea. I know using the wall behind a guy for balance is good, but if you have hardwood floors, the bed can move....

when you hear the walls knocking don't come on knocking

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

You know the bars or rings seem like a good idea. I know using the wall behind a guy for balance is good, but if you have hardwood floors, the bed can move....

Well, that was my point..
In hindsight, I suppose it *is* my weight that makes certain positions problematic, but mostly because I'm just generally out of shape.. like the legs getting tired, that sort of thing. Once you've got jelly legs... well it's no fun to bounce around..lol. I think the bar hanging is actually a very good idea.

Besides, what better way to get your cardio AND your strength training in??

 

[NikiCole]

Besides, what better way to get your cardio AND your strength training in??

So very true.. lol