BBW Love

[hentaifan]

I mean

I'm honored, thanks

Yeah that could get touchy if anyone gets ignorant..however, as long as YOU see her as beautiful and you love her.."FUCK WHAT ANYONE HAS TO SAY"!

I guess i'm over the whole "care what people say" about me. I got over that years ago!

Why should i care??!! Seriously, i'm grateful for the cool people i've met here, and the honest compliment always gets an honest thank you, i'm pretty humble in RL. But..

At the end of my day, NO ONE on this site is doing anything for me in RL, Opinions are like assholes, Some just smell worse than others.

I don't care who likes me or doesn't. I'm going to be me and "keep it real" regardless.

So with that being said, you should have this attitude too, & the only opinion your wife needs to care about..is yours.

Your absolutely fucking right about everything you've said here. She too doesnt care about what people say about her, unless of course if its somebody she doesnt know.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Now now, no wanting to cry, this is the present girl, and you are loved!

I think he meant he couldn't handle what people would say if ignorant comments were thrown about his wife. That's how i read and understood it.

If he was offering to show her to me, i don't think he'd leave her in a corner undefended if i were ignorant like some of these folks on here. He sees with his own eyes, what comes out of my mouth is "real deal". I'm guessing he wouldve been prepared had i said something like "i'm not impressed" so i'm sure his wanting to show her to me, wasn't a decesion he reached lightly..

I think you took him wrong.

I get nasty pm's saying all kinds of shit, IDGAF. These same idiots have NO girl in thier lives, NO sex life..I have it ALL! And i'm happy in my life, tis why i don't talk shit online LoL Seriously..how pathetic are some of these people.

Fair enough. Like I said I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. Afraid that I was letting my own past experiences color my reading of his post.

How are you today, Ms. Thang?!

 

[hentaifan]

oh okay

Fair enough. Like I said I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. Afraid that I was letting my own past experiences color my reading of his post.

How are you today, Ms. Thang?!

Understood

 

[Cipher]

Your absolutely fucking right about everything you've said here. She too doesnt care about what people say about her, unless of course if its somebody she doesnt know.

LoL Even then i'll tell someone i know or don't know to "Suck it"

I just simply don't care. I've told a few friends to "fuck off" for being ignorant in the past, idc, say something stupid, and i'll correct you..lol

I appreciate when people do the same to me, i try being a good person, and respectful, but people don't always and won't always see eye to eye.

I like your wife

 

[Cipher]

Fair enough. Like I said I was trying to give him the benefit of the doubt. Afraid that I was letting my own past experiences color my reading of his post.

How are you today, Ms. Thang?!

Hey babygirl, i'm good, just chillin until my neice gets dropped off in a few hours, we're gonna have a Harry Potter party LoL

How are you today?

 

[blulilacgrl]

Hey babygirl, i'm good, just chillin until my neice gets dropped off in a few hours, we're gonna have a Harry Potter party LoL

How are you today?

Good. I am chillin' as well. Tryin' to work up the energy to go clean. God! When is my house going to be frickin' clean?!?!

Will this cleaning ever end?

 

[Cipher]

Good. I am chillin' as well. Tryin' to work up the energy to go clean. God! When is my house going to be frickin' clean?!?!

Will this cleaning ever end?

Ivan cleaned lastnight, and i cleaned the 2 bathrooms earlier after i showered. He cleans on saturdays because i do it during the week. He works 12hr shifts during the week..somebodies gotta get the bad guys off the street..lol


I think if you're not motivated, put some dance music on and go thru your house like the tazmanian devil and just "get er done"!

 

[Prince Albert]

So how are 2 of the sexiest women of Lit doing?? Cipher & BluLilGirl????

 

[MidnightToker]

Well obviously, you have to be selective and try and ween out the douchebags, this is why i'm quick to point out things when guys come in here and "love" us..but fail to mention anything about us other than our body parts..

Idc that they think i'm "The Bitch" of the thread, maybe i am, maybe i'm the one here to let them know just because some bbw's are quick to believe a "hey you're cute", or "i love bbw's" and then ramble about our body parts and don't say "hey man, we're MORE than just body parts" But i've seen so many NOT say anything...well..i'm pretty assertive, i don't let shit slide. Why should i? I (We) deserve respect just like any other woman. Right? Right!

I'm not one to believe "sweet nothings"..gimme a break, most these guys (no offense to anyone inparticular) on here find beauty in any female showing her pussy, ass, tits..of course most these guys wouldn't look at you in real life..this is free porn hun..most these guys only care about that. Sad but true reality..

But..as long as you love and accept & respect yourself above any and everyone, then you're all good!

I don't limit my suspicions to only this forum. People say mean ass shit online, they make friends with people they'd never otherwise have any contact with and they fall in love with what is essentially a complete stranger, all online.

I'm just pointing out that while there may be a tremendous amount of BBW "love" on this thread, whether it's for body parts or not, it doesn't translate in to the real world.

The internet is a great place to hide. You don't know if I am who I say I am, you just kinda have to take the other person's word for it. You may meet, and find out differently, but even then, you don't really know. For all those who have figured out what a woman wants to hear, how to say it and how to get her completely exposed, they abuse the women they find to be the weakest-fat girls. That's how you get older people and overweight people being taken for fools by Nigerian princes that need an emergency operation before he makes you his queen and Palestinian doctors that need bail money after being arrested for saving an Isreali child's life.

You're right in saying there are those who only see us for the big tits and ass, and couldn't care less about anything else about us.

But the ones who are worse are the ones that say they do-but don't. They never have and they never will.

 

[Prince Albert]

I don't limit my suspicions to only this forum. People say mean ass shit online, they make friends with people they'd never otherwise have any contact with and they fall in love with what is essentially a complete stranger, all online.

I'm just pointing out that while there may be a tremendous amount of BBW "love" on this thread, whether it's for body parts or not, it doesn't translate in to the real world.

The internet is a great place to hide. You don't know if I am who I say I am, you just kinda have to take the other person's word for it. You may meet, and find out differently, but even then, you don't really know. For all those who have figured out what a woman wants to hear, how to say it and how to get her completely exposed, they abuse the women they find to be the weakest-fat girls. That's how you get older people and overweight people being taken for fools by Nigerian princes that need an emergency operation before he makes you his queen and Palestinian doctors that need bail money after being arrested for saving an Isreali child's life.

You're right in saying there are those who only see us for the big tits and ass, and couldn't care less about anything else about us.

But the ones who are worse are the ones that say they do-but don't. They never have and they never will.

Well MindnightToker, I hope yo are wrong. I have dated "larger" women all my life, also being a larger man. I do agree with a lot of what you talked about in youur message about the internet. PS great song also.

 

[hentaifan]

not cool

I don't limit my suspicions to only this forum. People say mean ass shit online, they make friends with people they'd never otherwise have any contact with and they fall in love with what is essentially a complete stranger, all online.

I'm just pointing out that while there may be a tremendous amount of BBW "love" on this thread, whether it's for body parts or not, it doesn't translate in to the real world.

The internet is a great place to hide. You don't know if I am who I say I am, you just kinda have to take the other person's word for it. You may meet, and find out differently, but even then, you don't really know. For all those who have figured out what a woman wants to hear, how to say it and how to get her completely exposed, they abuse the women they find to be the weakest-fat girls. That's how you get older people and overweight people being taken for fools by Nigerian princes that need an emergency operation before he makes you his queen and Palestinian doctors that need bail money after being arrested for saving an Isreali child's life.

You're right in saying there are those who only see us for the big tits and ass, and couldn't care less about anything else about us.



But the ones who are worse are the ones that say they do-but don't. They never have and they never will.

people like that are complete assholes.

 

[Cipher]

I don't limit my suspicions to only this forum. People say mean ass shit online, they make friends with people they'd never otherwise have any contact with and they fall in love with what is essentially a complete stranger, all online.

I'm just pointing out that while there may be a tremendous amount of BBW "love" on this thread, whether it's for body parts or not, it doesn't translate in to the real world.

The internet is a great place to hide. You don't know if I am who I say I am, you just kinda have to take the other person's word for it. You may meet, and find out differently, but even then, you don't really know. For all those who have figured out what a woman wants to hear, how to say it and how to get her completely exposed, they abuse the women they find to be the weakest-fat girls. That's how you get older people and overweight people being taken for fools by Nigerian princes that need an emergency operation before he makes you his queen and Palestinian doctors that need bail money after being arrested for saving an Isreali child's life.

You're right in saying there are those who only see us for the big tits and ass, and couldn't care less about anything else about us.

But the ones who are worse are the ones that say they do-but don't. They never have and they never will.

And this is why i'm grateful, i have a great man, who loves me in public..holds my hand, kisses me. I kissed a few frogs before i got my prince for sure.

As for nigerian princes and whatever else you were talking about..yeah idk anything about that..I've never been one to believe words. I'm more of a prove it to me. Actions are what catches my attention. And i'm saying this openly.."Cipher is NOBODIES sucka", I'm no bullshit. It takes alot to "impress" me.

Like i said, just because i get thrown a few compliments every now and then doesn't mean i'm "hungry" for them. I'm not very accomodating what guys on here want to see..i post what i feel like on my thread when i feel like posting. I get requests for cam and vids..IDGAF i'm NOT here for anyone's pleasure..but my own.
I'm NOT needy of approval, or needy for any guy's respect. I'm here simply because I want to be here. Idc what they want to see..not my job to please anyone on this site but myself. So posting pics is all they'll see. & if you ask me, they're fucking lucky they see what i do post.

More women on here need to "wake the fuck up" & realize that. But that's just my "stinking opinion"..

 

[blulilacgrl]

I don't limit my suspicions to only this forum. People say mean ass shit online, they make friends with people they'd never otherwise have any contact with and they fall in love with what is essentially a complete stranger, all online.

I'm just pointing out that while there may be a tremendous amount of BBW "love" on this thread, whether it's for body parts or not, it doesn't translate in to the real world.

The internet is a great place to hide. You don't know if I am who I say I am, you just kinda have to take the other person's word for it. You may meet, and find out differently, but even then, you don't really know. For all those who have figured out what a woman wants to hear, how to say it and how to get her completely exposed, they abuse the women they find to be the weakest-fat girls. That's how you get older people and overweight people being taken for fools by Nigerian princes that need an emergency operation before he makes you his queen and Palestinian doctors that need bail money after being arrested for saving an Isreali child's life.

You're right in saying there are those who only see us for the big tits and ass, and couldn't care less about anything else about us.

But the ones who are worse are the ones that say they do-but don't. They never have and they never will.

I will admit I have started at least 3 other responses to your post and walked away because I'm just not sure what you want to hear? Neither am I sure which part really irked me more

So I will start here.... the fat girls aren't the weakest girls. Anybody who is looking for someone to validate them is weak. Because you are giving your power away. You are leaving it to someone else to define you. I say this as a recovering "weak" person. I was weak not because I was fat but because I was looking for someone else to tell me I was pretty or smart or funny. That left me open and vulnerable to those who would use that "weakness", that insecurity, to their own advantage. But you don't have to be fat to have that "weakness" you just have to be insecure. And insecurities come in all shapes and sizes and genders.

And yes you can meet people online that you would never meet IRL, some good and some complete wankers. But you take the good and tell the bad to go piss off. Trust me I have had my share of the "internet vampires". The ones you want to take your time and sympathy, suck you dry and then disappear into the internet void. But I have also met some good people too. Or maybe they're not. Maybe they are bad people who haven't shown their true colors yet. But honestly even if they are, I will be okay because it's not a matter of what they are like. I am a good person regardless of their behavior. And I will still be a good person after they are long gone.

But what most stood out to me in your post, and maybe I am off base. But it sounds like you are hurting. I don't know what happened but something about your post made me want to put my arms around you and give you a big hug and say it's gonna be okay. You are going to be okay.

So even if you don't need it, I am giving you one anyway. Welcome to the thread MidnightToker. *big hug*

 

[Cipher]

Blu..yeah i was reading and wondering that too..sounds like she's had a few hurtin's put on her.

We all have. Women no matter what size..have been broken and shattered.

Fuck, i know i have..and the man i'm in love with..is still repairing what was broken by these stupid mother fuckers that shattered me, everyday my heart heals a little more.

There was a time i needed to take a step back before i met Ivan, and my motto to keep me going was "I can do bad all by myself" So i stayed single and "getting me right with me" again.


Shout out to all the real deal guys who aren't afraid to hold our hands in public, kiss our lips, & see us as beautiful women, not just "beautiful" body parts.
Thank you, for being there and really "seeing us"!



And to those "false prophets" out there, thinking you're funny playing games..
You're NOT funny at all. You're the pathetic loser preying on innocent women! GET A LIFE MOTHER FUCKER!


LMAO I'm awesome.

 

[hentaifan]

Blu..yeah i was reading and wondering that too..sounds like she's had a few hurtin's put on her.

We all have. Women no matter what size..have been broken and shattered.

Fuck, i know i have..and the man i'm in love with..is still repairing what was broken by these stupid mother fuckers that shattered me, everyday my heart heals a little more.

There was a time i needed to take a step back before i met Ivan, and my motto to keep me going was "I can do bad all by myself" So i stayed single and "getting me right with me" again.


Shout out to all the real deal guys who aren't afraid to hold our hands in public, kiss our lips, & see us as beautiful women, not just "beautiful" body parts.
Thank you, for being there and really "seeing us"!






And to those "false prophets" out there, thinking you're funny playing games..
You're NOT funny at all. You're the pathetic loser preying on innocent women! GET A LIFE MOTHER FUCKER!


LMAO I'm awesome.

I'm as real as they come. I may not explain myself correctly at times because I am terrible with words. anyway, you are awesome Cipher (hugs)

 

[Cipher]

I'm as real as they come. I may not explain myself correctly at times because I am terrible with words. anyway, you are awesome Cipher (hugs)

I know you are hentai, i've seen who you're hugged up with in all your pics.
She is indeed a pretty girl

And the world needs more real deal guys.

I hope with the small validation i've given you, and my Ivan, & the small few that married bbw's, some of these women hang on to the hope they meet men like you guys.

Hang in there bbw sisters, there is someone out there for you, and they'll legitly love you for you.



Thanks, *Hugs* back

 

[hentaifan]

people

just need to get the wool pulled from their eyes so they can see everything in a new light. Its really not that hard to see who is beautiful out there. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. man fuck that saying, if you like what you see, perhaps you (men) should be thinking with your other head. Thinking about their feelings. just thinking about them, getting to know them, understanding where they are coming from and why they feel the way they do about themselves. Its not hard to get hurt no matter what kind of person you are. We are all human, with needs and wants and desires. is that so hard to want? I mean seriously. "look at her, shes so big, nobody would ever want her." seriously? You want to say that amongst your friends behind the girls' back? thats disrespectful all in its self. Perhaps you should ask "why does she look like that, did something happen to cause that" I dont fucking understand why people automatically think that the curvy sexy BBW's out there, eat too much.... Pisses me the fuck off... and my quotations werent too or from anybody, they just came from my head.

 

[Cipher]

just need to get the wool pulled from their eyes so they can see everything in a new light. Its really not that hard to see who is beautiful out there. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. man fuck that saying, if you like what you see, perhaps you (men) should be thinking with your other head. Thinking about their feelings. just thinking about them, getting to know them, understanding where they are coming from and why they feel the way they do about themselves. Its not hard to get hurt no matter what kind of person you are. We are all human, with needs and wants and desires. is that so hard to want? I mean seriously. "look at her, shes so big, nobody would ever want her." seriously? You want to say that amongst your friends behind the girls' back? thats disrespectful all in its self. Perhaps you should ask "why does she look like that, did something happen to cause that" I dont fucking understand why people automatically think that the curvy sexy BBW's out there, eat too much.... Pisses me the fuck off... and my quotations werent too or from anybody, they just came from my head.

That's a normal stigma, that bbw's over eat, or we're lazy. That's a stereotype that will never go away. So be it. I know i'm not lazy or eat all day. So again IDGAF what "they" say.

People are the way they are for a reason.
I'm a fucking hard ass, because this is simply who i am. I kick ass and take names later. I have always defended what's right. And always will.
I will go head to head with anyone, anytime. What's right is right. And if someone's being mistreated, i gotta put the brakes on that.

Some bbw's are afraid of being confronted, or sticking up for themselves. I know it might be what they've been brainwashed into believing, or because they have low self esteem.
But now is the time to say say "fuck it" don't be afraid. You want to be respected, demand it. You don't want to be looked at as "easy/needy" STOP putting yourself out there. The time for being the victim is over. I keep trying to emphasize that, but i get excuses thrown at me "well you don't know what i've been through, i'm not like you"..Well um, i've been through things, i wasn't born made of teflon LoL! I woke up one day and said "FUCK THIS SHIT" THIS IS MY LIFE!

But ya know..i guess that's where "the rare breed" gets thrown at me..

 

[hentaifan]

well put

That's a normal stigma, that bbw's over eat, or we're lazy. That's a stereotype that will never go away. So be it. I know i'm not lazy or eat all day. So again IDGAF what "they" say.

People are the way they are for a reason.
I'm a fucking hard ass, because this is simply who i am. I kick ass and take names later. I have always defended what's right. And always will.
I will go head to head with anyone, anytime. What's right is right. And if someone's being mistreated, i gotta put the brakes on that.

Some bbw's are afraid of being confronted, or sticking up for themselves. I know it might be what they've been brainwashed into believing, or because they have low self esteem.
But now is the time to say say "fuck it" don't be afraid. You want to be respected, demand it. You don't want to be looked at as "easy/needy" STOP putting yourself out there. The time for being the victim is over. I keep trying to emphasize that, but i get excuses thrown at me "well you don't know what i've been through, i'm not like you"..Well um, i've been through things, i wasn't born made of teflon LoL! I woke up one day and said "FUCK THIS SHIT" THIS IS MY LIFE!



But ya know..i guess that's where "the rare breed" gets thrown at me..

you are very strong Cipher, but you dont need a hentai fan to tell you that, you already know.

 

[blulilacgrl]

I dont fucking understand why people automatically think that the curvy sexy BBW's out there, eat too much....

Ummm...because there are morons out there who don't understand that metabolism is not a one size fit all. That people's bodies and lifestyles are different, thus creating different bodies period.

What is considered healthy for most is crap food for me. And the reverse is also probably true. But people have this idea that some things are universal. *shrugs* I am tired of trying to educate the ignorant. Fuck 'em

 

[hentaifan]

Ummm...because there are morons out there who don't understand that metabolism is not a one size fit all. That people's bodies and lifestyles are different, thus creating different bodies period.

What is considered healthy for most is crap food for me. And the reverse is also probably true. But people have this idea that some things are universal. *shrugs* I am tired of trying to educate the ignorant. Fuck 'em

Ignorance breeds stupidity which breeds idiots. Common sense fails those who are ignorant. They see what ever they want to see but are blind to the truth. so yeah fuck em. I love you ladies out there

 

[Cipher]

you are very strong Cipher, but you dont need a hentai fan to tell you that, you already know.

Thank you Sir

 

[Cipher]

Ummm...because there are morons out there who don't understand that metabolism is not a one size fit all. That people's bodies and lifestyles are different, thus creating different bodies period.

What is considered healthy for most is crap food for me. And the reverse is also probably true. But people have this idea that some things are universal. *shrugs* I am tired of trying to educate the ignorant. Fuck 'em

Yuuup! Fuck' em.


You got drinks tonight girl? I do..i'm feel lovely, Ivan's laughing at me telling me i need to stop typing before he puts me under arrest..LMAO He's funny..

 

[blulilacgrl]

Yuuup! Fuck' em.


You got drinks tonight girl? I do..i'm feel lovely, Ivan's laughing at me telling me i need to stop typing before he puts me under arrest..LMAO He's funny..

Ooohhh handcuffs and everything? [laughs]

And yes, I am grabbing the wine as I type.

 

[Cipher]

Ooohhh handcuffs and everything? [laughs]

And yes, I am grabbing the wine as I type.

LoL Yeah girl, and these are "for real" cuffs