BBW Love

[Cipher]

Bi. I don't really get out of my area much, but hopefully this weekend - if the weather is nice - I can have a look-see.

Oh i see, that kinda sucks girl..Hope you get out and find a full figured cutie

 

[chellbarr]

Oh i see, that kinda sucks girl..Hope you get out and find a full figured cutie

Any tips for ensnaring the lovely lasses?

 

[RjThoughts]

Any tips for ensnaring the lovely lasses?

Be truthful

 

[chellbarr]

Be truthful

Always am.

 

[Cipher]

Any tips for ensnaring the lovely lasses?

Well..idk if asking me is a good idea LMAO!
I've been told i'm a rare "breed" of female LoL

Seriously, What Rj said, be honest, and one turn off for me, don't over do it with compliments. Be yourself girl..and it will be all good.

I wish you luck, and keep me/us posted on the goings on LoL

If you weren't so far away, i'd help you go look

I'm routing for you!

 

[chellbarr]

Well..idk if asking me is a good idea LMAO!
I've been told i'm a rare "breed" of female LoL

Seriously, What Rj said, be honest, and one turn off for me, don't over do it with compliments. Be yourself girl..and it will be all good.

I wish you luck, and keep me/us posted on the goings on LoL

If you weren't so far away, i'd help you go look

I'm routing for you!

Thanks very much. I'm always wary when talking to girls because I have to keep in mind that may not be bi/les, and I'll look weird if I start trying to chat them up.

Mind if I ask rare in what sense?

 

[Cipher]

Thanks very much. I'm always wary when talking to girls because I have to keep in mind that may not be bi/les, and I'll look weird if I start trying to chat them up.

Mind if I ask rare in what sense?

Yw

Do you not have any clubs/pubs geared towards LGBT lifestyles?

I was just kidding about being rare LoL

 

[chellbarr]

Yw

Do you not have any clubs/pubs geared towards LGBT lifestyles?

I was just kidding about being rare LoL

Honestly, I've never thought to look it up. I just tend to meet people and things happen. Or get recommended by friends.

 

[Cipher]

Honestly, I've never thought to look it up. I just tend to meet people and things happen. Or get recommended by friends.

Girl, you need to look it up! LoL It wouldnt hurt!

 

[chellbarr]

Girl, you need to look it up! LoL It wouldnt hurt!

I'm definitely gonna now.

 

[Prince Albert]

Well..idk if asking me is a good idea LMAO!
I've been told i'm a rare "breed" of female LoL

Seriously, What Rj said, be honest, and one turn off for me, don't over do it with compliments. Be yourself girl..and it will be all good.

I wish you luck, and keep me/us posted on the goings on LoL

If you weren't so far away, i'd help you go look

I'm routing for you!

Yes very rare:: Sexy, vivacious, sexy, gorgeous, sexy, taken, sexy, funny, sexy, humorous, sexy, photogenic, ssexy, beautiful!!! Did I mention sexy?????

 

[Cipher]

Yes very rare:: Sexy, vivacious, sexy, gorgeous, sexy, taken, sexy, funny, sexy, humorous, sexy, photogenic, ssexy, beautiful!!! Did I mention sexy?????

LoL! Wow! Thanks!

And extra LOL @ "taken "
Sorry about that LoL I'll go yell at my guy for you LoL!

 

[Prince Albert]

LoL! Wow! Thanks!

And extra LOL @ "taken "
Sorry about that LoL I'll go yell at my guy for you LoL!

No problem sweetie;(Or just screw his brains out for me so I can dream it was me making love to you!!!!

 

[Cipher]

No problem sweetie;(Or just screw his brains out for me so I can dream it was me making love to you!!!!

LoL..Umm..

And well..if thats what you dream..

 

[MidnightToker]

I've always wondered-the men who tell me I'm beautiful in the online world, who watch me touch myself on cam, who see me shower and look at my pictures online and say I'm so hot and that they want to come fuck me...would they really?

Because I've been around 26 years. And I've been a fat girl for 20 of them. And categorized as morbidly obese for the last 8...and I can count on one hand the times any man has come up to me IN PERSON and said something kind.

No, what I truly have come to believe is that while you may say you love big women on here, you most likely wouldn't go near one in a non-binary sense with a ten foot pole. And that's the saddest part of all.

 

[ty5550]

I've always wondered-the men who tell me I'm beautiful in the online world, who watch me touch myself on cam, who see me shower and look at my pictures online and say I'm so hot and that they want to come fuck me...would they really?

Because I've been around 26 years. And I've been a fat girl for 20 of them. And categorized as morbidly obese for the last 8...and I can count on one hand the times any man has come up to me IN PERSON and said something kind.

No, what I truly have come to believe is that while you may say you love big women on here, you most likely wouldn't go near one in a non-binary sense with a ten foot pole. And that's the saddest part of all.

I don't randomly walk up to any girl and say something kind lol. I'm the shy and nervous kind of guy at first, kind of need to get to know someone a bit before I let loose. I can see what you are saying though, some men may just be saying what they will online to get a bit of action. Personally I just find it easier to be myself and express myself on the internet...barely anyone in RL knows the "real" me. I'm not all that social and not a people person. Just this week I have been starting to branch out and meet new people here on Lit, before I stuck strictly to the role playing section to find other erotic writers to have some fun with.

 

[hentaifan]

not true

I've always wondered-the men who tell me I'm beautiful in the online world, who watch me touch myself on cam, who see me shower and look at my pictures online and say I'm so hot and that they want to come fuck me...would they really?

Because I've been around 26 years. And I've been a fat girl for 20 of them. And categorized as morbidly obese for the last 8...and I can count on one hand the times any man has come up to me IN PERSON and said something kind.

No, what I truly have come to believe is that while you may say you love big women on here, you most likely wouldn't go near one in a non-binary sense with a ten foot pole. And that's the saddest part of all.

idk who your talking to here but what i know is, i would walk right beside you and give you a hug.

 

[hentaifan]

Cipher

if your interested in seeing what my wife looks like, you can see her in my profile

 

[Cipher]

I've always wondered-the men who tell me I'm beautiful in the online world, who watch me touch myself on cam, who see me shower and look at my pictures online and say I'm so hot and that they want to come fuck me...would they really?

Because I've been around 26 years. And I've been a fat girl for 20 of them. And categorized as morbidly obese for the last 8...and I can count on one hand the times any man has come up to me IN PERSON and said something kind.

No, what I truly have come to believe is that while you may say you love big women on here, you most likely wouldn't go near one in a non-binary sense with a ten foot pole. And that's the saddest part of all.

Well obviously, you have to be selective and try and ween out the douchebags, this is why i'm quick to point out things when guys come in here and "love" us..but fail to mention anything about us other than our body parts..

Idc that they think i'm "The Bitch" of the thread, maybe i am, maybe i'm the one here to let them know just because some bbw's are quick to believe a "hey you're cute", or "i love bbw's" and then ramble about our body parts and don't say "hey man, we're MORE than just body parts" But i've seen so many NOT say anything...well..i'm pretty assertive, i don't let shit slide. Why should i? I (We) deserve respect just like any other woman. Right? Right!

I'm not one to believe "sweet nothings"..gimme a break, most these guys (no offense to anyone inparticular) on here find beauty in any female showing her pussy, ass, tits..of course most these guys wouldn't look at you in real life..this is free porn hun..most these guys only care about that. Sad but true reality..

But..as long as you love and accept & respect yourself above any and everyone, then you're all good!

 

[Cipher]

if your interested in seeing what my wife looks like, you can see her in my profile

I clicked on your profile, i see no pic of anyone..LoL

But even if there was a pic, you don't need to validate yourself with me. I'm "nobody special"..ya know?

I think like a few others on here, you're legit.

Not that my opinion should ever matter though.

 

[hentaifan]

more or less

I clicked on your profile, i see no pic of anyone..LoL

But even if there was a pic, you don't need to validate yourself with me. I'm "nobody special"..ya know?

I think like a few others on here, you're legit.

Not that my opinion should ever matter though.

just wanted to share with you. i so dont want to share with everyone because i dont think i could handle any negative comments towards her. i may think she attractive and everything else, but others may not agree.
on a side note ill have to fix that, thanks for the heads up :0)

 

[Cipher]

just wanted to share with you. i so dont want to share with everyone because i dont think i could handle any negative comments towards her. i may think she attractive and everything else, but others may not agree.
on a side note ill have to fix that, thanks for the heads up :0)

I'm honored, thanks

Yeah that could get touchy if anyone gets ignorant..however, as long as YOU see her as beautiful and you love her.."FUCK WHAT ANYONE HAS TO SAY"!

I guess i'm over the whole "care what people say" about me. I got over that years ago!

Why should i care??!! Seriously, i'm grateful for the cool people i've met here, and the honest compliment always gets an honest thank you, i'm pretty humble in RL. But..

At the end of my day, NO ONE on this site is doing anything for me in RL, Opinions are like assholes, Some just smell worse than others.

I don't care who likes me or doesn't. I'm going to be me and "keep it real" regardless.

So with that being said, you should have this attitude too, & the only opinion your wife needs to care about..is yours.

 

[blulilacgrl]

I'm honored, thanks

Yeah that could get touchy if anyone gets ignorant..however, as long as YOU see her as beautiful and you love her.."FUCK WHAT ANYONE HAS TO SAY"!

I guess i'm over the whole "care what people say" about me. I got over that years ago!

Why should i care??!! Seriously, i'm grateful for the cool people i've met here, and the honest compliment always gets an honest thank you, i'm pretty humble in RL. But..

At the end of my day, NO ONE on this site is doing anything for me in RL, Opinions are like assholes, Some just smell worse than others.

I don't care who likes me or doesn't. I'm going to be me and "keep it real" regardless.

So with that being said, you should have this attitude too, & the only opinion your wife needs to care about..is yours.

And thus my girl crush continues to grow!

Seriously hentaifan. While I understand your worries and fears, that is also what feeds the insecurities and fears of all women (BBW and others). That when push comes to shove, and while our significant others may say they love us and think we are beautiful, when it comes right down to it, they will worry more about what others think. What others will say. The don't show us off because there might be some who might make negative comments or not "understand" the attraction. *edited to say you were putting this on your profile not a pic thread. How would people comment? other than in a pm to you directly?

I don't know if that's how you intended for it to come out, but I have to admit that's how I took it. And it made me want to cry. Brings up a lot of past hurts.

Again I will give you the benefit of the doubt and think maybe you didn't mean it that way and perhaps I am simply overly sensitive.

 

[Cipher]

And thus my girl crush continues to grow!

Seriously hentaifan. While I understand your worries and fears, that is also what feeds the insecurities and fears of all women (BBW and others). That when push comes to shove, and while our significant others may say they love us and think we are beautiful, when it comes right down to it, they will worry more about what others think. What others will say. The don't show us off because there might be some who might make negative comments or not "understand" the attraction. *edited to say you were putting this on your profile not a pic thread. How would people comment? other than in a pm to you directly?

I don't know if that's how you intended for it to come out, but I have to admit that's how I took it. And it made me want to cry. Brings up a lot of past hurts.

Again I will give you the benefit of the doubt and think maybe you didn't mean it that way and perhaps I am simply overly sensitive.

Now now, no wanting to cry, this is the present girl, and you are loved!

I think he meant he couldn't handle what people would say if ignorant comments were thrown about his wife. That's how i read and understood it.

If he was offering to show her to me, i don't think he'd leave her in a corner undefended if i were ignorant like some of these folks on here. He sees with his own eyes, what comes out of my mouth is "real deal". I'm guessing he wouldve been prepared had i said something like "i'm not impressed" so i'm sure his wanting to show her to me, wasn't a decesion he reached lightly..

I think you took him wrong.

I get nasty pm's saying all kinds of shit, IDGAF. These same idiots have NO girl in thier lives, NO sex life..I have it ALL! And i'm happy in my life, tis why i don't talk shit online LoL Seriously..how pathetic are some of these people.

 

[hentaifan]

im sorry

And thus my girl crush continues to grow!

Seriously hentaifan. While I understand your worries and fears, that is also what feeds the insecurities and fears of all women (BBW and others). That when push comes to shove, and while our significant others may say they love us and think we are beautiful, when it comes right down to it, they will worry more about what others think. What others will say. The don't show us off because there might be some who might make negative comments or not "understand" the attraction. *edited to say you were putting this on your profile not a pic thread. How would people comment? other than in a pm to you directly?

I don't know if that's how you intended for it to come out, but I have to admit that's how I took it. And it made me want to cry. Brings up a lot of past hurts.

Again I will give you the benefit of the doubt and think maybe you didn't mean it that way and perhaps I am simply overly sensitive.

I didnt mean for it to come out that way. Cipher explained what I meant correctly. I think reading back to what I said, it looks like I was ashamed to show her off. Im totally not, and never will be. I'm very sorry. Im terrible with words. I do see what you are saying though.